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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And it's a massive BUT!
I get that the majority of this site are chancers coupled with a shedload of fakes. (Jeez guys - you're stupidly obvious. You only have to paste your profile picture into google to see you've nicked something from somewhere!)
Anyway - I'm just wondering what the biggest profile turn offs for women are? Arrogance? Spelling? Terrible pics?
Got to admit, mine is the terrible pic option.....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couple profile !!!!
More pics of him and cock and no woman pics or just one!!
No new pics for over a year or so
They message like my teenage son 
Male playing only mrs working  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spelling & using text speak! MrsD 
For anyone surely, not just women?"
You would have thought so , however as l'm a woman, I can only speak for myself haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know i have to keep my pics private due to my job.
I've got absolutely nothing to hide,but cant risk it.
Would you not read the verifications and make a decision? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile from a male who can not accommodate with out giving a reason  "
Whereas that would be absolutely fine for a woman, because women are never cheating. |
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A profile from a female who can't accommodate but can't explain why also obnoxious females who think they are gods gift to men.... With a bucket list of do and don'ts written in capital letters ....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A profile from a female who can't accommodate but can't explain why also obnoxious females who think they are gods gift to men.... With a bucket list of do and don'ts written in capital letters .... "
Amen Brother! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile from a male who can not accommodate with out giving a reason
Whereas that would be absolutely fine for a woman, because women are never cheating."
He asked i answerd would say the same thing to anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile from a female who can't accommodate but can't explain why also obnoxious females who think they are gods gift to men.... With a bucket list of do and don'ts written in capital letters .... "
i dont accommodate and if anyone wants to know why it's because i don't want to, it's that simple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What puts me off mens profiles is when they say face pic in private due to job...blah blah blah but they you look at their pics and it's shows full face and body pics of women playing with them and sucking their cock but pics perfectly cropped to only show their cock when it's their profile and shows total lack of the ladies privacy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A profile from a female who can't accommodate but can't explain why also obnoxious females who think they are gods gift to men.... With a bucket list of do and don'ts written in capital letters ....
Amen Brother!"
Have to admit that l agree with both comments MrsD typing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What puts me off mens profiles is when they say face pic in private due to job...blah blah blah but they you look at their pics and it's shows full face and body pics of women playing with them and sucking their cock but pics perfectly cropped to only show their cock when it's their profile and shows total lack of the ladies privacy "
Boom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when a couple or fem refuse to send a pic - we understand about them not being public etc- but then also refuse a fem to fem chat or cam to verify - some things just aint worth the bother - |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"I know i have to keep my pics private due to my job.
I've got absolutely nothing to hide,but cant risk it.
Would you not read the verifications and make a decision?"
I wouldn't, no. I need something to go on. Just because other people gave you verifications it doesn't mean I would fancy you. In fact I, like a lot of ladies, automatically delete a message from a silhouette without even reading or looking at the profile, so I would not even get to the stage of reading your verifications.
What job can you possibly do that would mean you couldn't put a tasteful torso or boxers pic on there?? Seems like an excuse to me, sorry!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it's couples profiles with no pictures of the guy or just photos of his dick
Also seen some womens profile with application forms written into them, demanding profiles....big turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And it's a massive BUT!
I get that the majority of this site are chancers coupled with a shedload of fakes. (Jeez guys - you're stupidly obvious. You only have to paste your profile picture into google to see you've nicked something from somewhere!)
Anyway - I'm just wondering what the biggest profile turn offs for women are? Arrogance? Spelling? Terrible pics?
Got to admit, mine is the terrible pic option.....!"
All of the above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the simple fact is we don't have pics on our profile is because we don't want to! we like as much control of our pics as possible and want to choose who can see them, we didn't take them as wank material for others.
If that bothers people so much and they do not want to contact us that's fine we get enough meets using our method. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know i have to keep my pics private due to my job.
I've got absolutely nothing to hide,but cant risk it.
Would you not read the verifications and make a decision?
I wouldn't, no. I need something to go on. Just because other people gave you verifications it doesn't mean I would fancy you. In fact I, like a lot of ladies, automatically delete a message from a silhouette without even reading or looking at the profile, so I would not even get to the stage of reading your verifications.
What job can you possibly do that would mean you couldn't put a tasteful torso or boxers pic on there?? Seems like an excuse to me, sorry! "
I've got absolutely no need for any excuses! All of my social media has to be on absolute 'lock down', so I'm treating Fab as an exceptionally sensitive case! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having read the posts .. Think it's fair to say each to there own and whats a turn on for that couple won't be for most ..I'm all for your mrs travelling and you watching or listening to her being fucked senseless with you feeling helpless or what ever that gets you both going and your choice not to put pics up!!! For us ( and this would never happen with us .. Each to there own  and all that but !! Pmsl you won't meet smokers ?? Haha 
For real ? X |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"I know i have to keep my pics private due to my job.
I've got absolutely nothing to hide,but cant risk it.
Would you not read the verifications and make a decision?
I wouldn't, no. I need something to go on. Just because other people gave you verifications it doesn't mean I would fancy you. In fact I, like a lot of ladies, automatically delete a message from a silhouette without even reading or looking at the profile, so I would not even get to the stage of reading your verifications.
What job can you possibly do that would mean you couldn't put a tasteful torso or boxers pic on there?? Seems like an excuse to me, sorry!
I've got absolutely no need for any excuses! All of my social media has to be on absolute 'lock down', so I'm treating Fab as an exceptionally sensitive case!"
Fair enough, I respect that its your decision. Ohhhh just noticed you're within 5 miles of me....I will be closely scrutinising every bloke in the street now! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know i have to keep my pics private due to my job.
I've got absolutely nothing to hide,but cant risk it.
Would you not read the verifications and make a decision?
I wouldn't, no. I need something to go on. Just because other people gave you verifications it doesn't mean I would fancy you. In fact I, like a lot of ladies, automatically delete a message from a silhouette without even reading or looking at the profile, so I would not even get to the stage of reading your verifications.
What job can you possibly do that would mean you couldn't put a tasteful torso or boxers pic on there?? Seems like an excuse to me, sorry!
I've got absolutely no need for any excuses! All of my social media has to be on absolute 'lock down', so I'm treating Fab as an exceptionally sensitive case!"
Shhhhh? Think I hear your mrs getting up !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know i have to keep my pics private due to my job.
I've got absolutely nothing to hide,but cant risk it.
Would you not read the verifications and make a decision?"
As long as you send face pics to prospective meets, I don't see the problem. However, no avatar is ridiculous. You could put up a non-identifying pic up of a body part, like an untattooed toe/ear/finger  |
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By *i_guy4uMan
over a year ago
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One of my pet peeves is very abrupt one line messages "got face pic?" out of the blue from someone who has no public photos and refuses to send me one in private.
Happens quite a lot to me for some reason |
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As others have said if no avatar then wouldn't even look at the profile just move on. There absolutely no reason not to have one. Believe me I value my career and could seriously fuck it up, but there are ways to show photos without identifying yourself.
Overall our biggest annoyance is people not reading our profile, if they did they would save themselves a wasted message. And women and couples are just as guilty as single blokes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll filter most profiles, pics and messages - discounting the vast majority - so none of that worries me.
what does REALLY piss me off is that half of the guys who you finally decide to meet, after chatting for ages, were just looking for tittilation and had NO intention of actually meeting someone. I get 'stood up' loads - and it's infuriating as i'm a working mum - so my free time is limited! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arrogance, we all know that the women on here are guaranteed as much as they want, provided they're not too particular, but, can't stand it when they expect me to drop my boxers just because they have a fanny. Or worse when they get nasty because they're not for me. Ill get my coat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Arrogance, we all know that the women on here are guaranteed as much as they want, provided they're not too particular, but, can't stand it when they expect me to drop my boxers just because they have a fanny. Or worse when they get nasty because they're not for me. Ill get my coat "
Nope - I understand you perfectly there hun! There are some awful attitudes on here. Xx |
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"What puts me off mens profiles is when they say face pic in private due to job...blah blah blah but they you look at their pics and it's shows full face and body pics of women playing with them and sucking their cock but pics perfectly cropped to only show their cock when it's their profile and shows total lack of the ladies privacy "
My experience with my male mode profile is that whenever other people especially women could be identifiable the photo has been rejected? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know i have to keep my pics private due to my job.
I've got absolutely nothing to hide,but cant risk it.
Would you not read the verifications and make a decision?
As long as you send face pics to prospective meets, I don't see the problem. However, no avatar is ridiculous. You could put up a non-identifying pic up of a body part, like an untattooed toe/ear/finger "
And what use is an avatar pic of someones toe or finger? What a rediculous reason to not meet people.
We will never put pics on profile avatar or normal we are genuine as our veris clearly show.
If your not interested in meeting us because we dont have an avatar bloody great as it demonstrates your fickle and not the type we would care to meet anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A profile from a male who can not accommodate with out giving a reason
Whereas that would be absolutely fine for a woman, because women are never cheating."
I would guess the cheating men would outnumber the cheating women significantly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile from a male who can not accommodate with out giving a reason
Whereas that would be absolutely fine for a woman, because women are never cheating.
I would guess the cheating men would outnumber the cheating women significantly."
Only because men outnumber women significantly on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No avatar. No public photos. Messages offering me cash. Profiles with absolute no effort made especially 'I'll fill this in later... ' oh and people who don't read my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know i have to keep my pics private due to my job.
I've got absolutely nothing to hide,but cant risk it.
Would you not read the verifications and make a decision?
I wouldn't, no. I need something to go on. Just because other people gave you verifications it doesn't mean I would fancy you. In fact I, like a lot of ladies, automatically delete a message from a silhouette without even reading or looking at the profile, so I would not even get to the stage of reading your verifications.
What job can you possibly do that would mean you couldn't put a tasteful torso or boxers pic on there?? Seems like an excuse to me, sorry!
I've got absolutely no need for any excuses! All of my social media has to be on absolute 'lock down', so I'm treating Fab as an exceptionally sensitive case!
Shhhhh? Think I hear your mrs getting up !!
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Haha that was our thought as to the lack of pics |
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