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Is it a crime to be single guy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought I would start thread just for a bit of insight to how singles/couples minds work.
So many profiles quote, "No single guys". my question is why?
I understand people have indivdulal needs, and single guys can be a pain but, there is a multitude of genuine single guys out there who given a chance, could provide so much pleasure to the groups i have mentioned. I must say single guys can be annoying,scary, pains in the arses etc. but properly vetted could be an asset to anyones night of pleasure.
Have you say, Im suitably braced for the fallout form this one lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm here to meet single guys and no one else. I've met some lovely ones in my time on Fab.....plus a few that weren't.
I started a thread last week praising single men and it got quite a bit of response so you are wanted and appreciated by some  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's as simple as it sounds. We, as a couple don't want to meet men on their own. Our reasons don't come into it for anyone, we don't have to justify that decision or explain it. It's just what we want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No absolutly not I agree, the point I'm trying to make is, if you are not into single guys thats ok, understandable. But I think there is a stigma attached to single guys that most single/ couples pick up on and shove us to the side. All I'm saying is properly vetted give us a chance if you interested xx |
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"No absolutly not I agree, the point I'm trying to make is, if you are not into single guys thats ok, understandable. But I think there is a stigma attached to single guys that most single/ couples pick up on and shove us to the side. All I'm saying is properly vetted give us a chance if you interested xx"
given plenty of men chances, I just prefer women and couples, so not interested in men sexually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No definiatly not a trick question, Im to pissed for that lol. Im just saying not all single guys are assholes thats all. if you are into singles give us a chance, you might be surprised xx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"No absolutly not I agree, the point I'm trying to make is, if you are not into single guys thats ok, understandable. But I think there is a stigma attached to single guys that most single/ couples pick up on and shove us to the side. All I'm saying is properly vetted give us a chance if you interested xx"
I am only on here to meet single men. I don't meet couples. However I don't meet all single men, and I believe that that's my preference.
Someone posting something on their profile is doing so to let single men know there is no point messaging them, and they should look for people who don't have it on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A would imagine there isn't much it it for the male half of a couple to meet single guys
some guys in couples like to watch their women being pleasured, some are bi but a lot are straight and don't want to meet single men
i have a few couples messages me to meet them but as i am straight i see no point, why would I want to share a guy when I can meet one and have him all to myself? I can imagine a lot of guys feel the same, we all like different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some great single guys on here and there are some single guys on here who are pains in the ass just like some couples!
However I fail to understand your point if they don't want to meet single guys then they simply don't want to meet them.
It's like people who moan about being out of age ranges. Why not concentrate on the people who do want to me you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for you comments. i'm not trying to get into a battle about should or should not. As I mentioned i'm just trying to figure out were we stand. I suppose i'm trying to defend the single guys out there, you know, "please dont tar us with the same brush". The majority of us are decent guys looking for fun. if your into couples well ok, if your into same sex ok, just dont expect single guys to be assholes xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is genuinely something for EVERYONE on here. Bloody hell if I can meet on here ANYONE can!
Seek those that are a match and avoid those that make it clear they don't want to meet single males and you'll avoid wasting both your time and theirs!
Good luck OP and I hope you have some wicked times on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for you comments. i'm not trying to get into a battle about should or should not. As I mentioned i'm just trying to figure out were we stand. I suppose i'm trying to defend the single guys out there, you know, "please dont tar us with the same brush". The majority of us are decent guys looking for fun. if your into couples well ok, if your into same sex ok, just dont expect single guys to be assholes xx"
Most of us realise that. Stop assuming we are all put off by the behaviour of the small minority. Some just aren't into single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's just a preference pure and simple. I mostly meet single men and the occasional couple. I've met some smashing fellas and only really had trouble with one. The thing is we are self governing here, there are no rules. What happens happens...or doesn't. Also and I'll stand corrected I can't remember seeing a single man bashing thread. Do I have a selective memory? Anyway me 'andsome, I love them and all their funny ways  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks I totaly agree. as I said i'm just defending the single guys out there. If you into single guys then great just Vet us meet us, shag us. Job done. I just dont want anyone to be scared because of all the assholes out there xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks I totaly agree. as I said i'm just defending the single guys out there. If you into single guys then great just Vet us meet us, shag us. Job done. I just dont want anyone to be scared because of all the assholes out there xx"
I think you'll find no one is |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks I totaly agree. as I said i'm just defending the single guys out there. If you into single guys then great just Vet us meet us, shag us. Job done. I just dont want anyone to be scared because of all the assholes out there xx"
We're not scared, but thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Brilliant I hope I have made a difference to peoples mind sets, That was the whole point of the thread. Single guys can be a positive to those who are dubious about involving them. We ar not all the same. have a great night eveyone xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks I totaly agree. as I said i'm just defending the single guys out there. If you into single guys then great just Vet us meet us, shag us. Job done. I just dont want anyone to be scared because of all the assholes out there xx"
As others have said, most of the ladies and couples on here are worldly wise enough to be able to spot the good from the bad and the ugly!
We might all agree with you on the 'not all guys are bad or time wasters, take me for example' approach but the ladies and couples you seek will be able to make their own judgements on who is and who isn't without having to be told.
Approach those that take your fancy in the right way, be respectful and they'll soon realise for themselves you're worth sticking with!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks I totaly agree. as I said i'm just defending the single guys out there. If you into single guys then great just Vet us meet us, shag us. Job done. I just dont want anyone to be scared because of all the assholes out there xx
As others have said, most of the ladies and couples on here are worldly wise enough to be able to spot the good from the bad and the ugly!
We might all agree with you on the 'not all guys are bad or time wasters, take me for example' approach but the ladies and couples you seek will be able to make their own judgements on who is and who isn't without having to be told.
Approach those that take your fancy in the right way, be respectful and they'll soon realise for themselves you're worth sticking with!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks I totally agree. As I said I'm just defending the single guys out there. If you into single guys then great just vet us, meet us, shag us. Job done. I just dont want anyone to be scared because of all the assholes out there xx
As others have said, most of the ladies and couples on here are worldly wise enough to be able to spot the good from the bad and the ugly!
We might all agree with you on the 'not all guys are bad or time wasters, take me for example' approach but the ladies and couples you seek will be able to make their own judgements on who is and who isn't without having to be told.
Approach those that take your fancy in the right way, be respectful and they'll soon realise for themselves you're worth sticking with!
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Well said... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant I hope I have made a difference to peoples mind sets, That was the whole point of the thread. Single guys can be a positive to those who are dubious about involving them. We ar not all the same. have a great night eveyone xx"
thing is you have made no difference to people's mind set at all, women and couples who don't want to meet single men will still not meet single men 
Very strange post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Brilliant I hope I have made a difference to peoples mind sets, That was the whole point of the thread. Single guys can be a positive to those who are dubious about involving them. We ar not all the same. have a great night eveyone xx
thing is you have made no difference to people's mind set at all, women and couples who don't want to meet single men will still not meet single men
Very strange post "
Was thinking this. If anything it's made us want to avoid the OP single guys being a problem had never even crossed our mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant I hope I have made a difference to peoples mind sets, That was the whole point of the thread. Single guys can be a positive to those who are dubious about involving them. We ar not all the same. have a great night eveyone xx
thing is you have made no difference to people's mind set at all, women and couples who don't want to meet single men will still not meet single men
Very strange post
Was thinking this. If anything it's made us want to avoid the OP single guys being a problem had never even crossed our mind. "
I was just scrolling down to say the same thing. I thought we were all changing the OP's views.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many profiles quote, "No single guys". my question is why?
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Emily wants to be fucked by two or more guys or eat pussy while being fucked. Do you as a single guy have two cocks or a pussy? No? Then no you have nothing to give that we want
Seriously though our profile does say no single guys unless you can bring a friend m or f, so we aint completely ruling them out. But we still get swamped with messages from single guys who have difficulty understanding that concept  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant I hope I have made a difference to peoples mind sets, That was the whole point of the thread. Single guys can be a positive to those who are dubious about involving them. We ar not all the same. have a great night eveyone xx
thing is you have made no difference to people's mind set at all, women and couples who don't want to meet single men will still not meet single men
Very strange post
Was thinking this. If anything it's made us want to avoid the OP single guys being a problem had never even crossed our mind.
I was just scrolling down to say the same thing. I thought we were all changing the OP's views. "
Same here. Its him with the warped view not us |
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Sometimes I read on a profile
"No single men "
It leads me to think , they don't want to be contacted by single men ?
Sometimes I read on a couples profile
"Need a girl to play with man while I'm away Mmm"
Then I think ...... |
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By *hil988Man
over a year ago
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It is better to be up front about what you are looking for to prevent so many time wasters. If they are not looking for single men then unfortunately that is the way it is. I am not convinced it is to do with any stigma attached to single men, after all, all men were single once at least! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems that the successful single guys are out there meeting with guys, girls, couples etc. That wasn't too meet single guys, those that aren't so successful are on here wondering why they get blocked after contacting someone whose clearly given them the biggest hint they can that for reasons of their own don't want to meet single guys.
To the Op, do you want to meet single guys? There's some lovely genuine ones out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, there's no problem for single guys here, but it can be hard.
You'll also find that the no single guys mail filter is on so they don't get inundated... They will just find a guy they like when they want one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can see why a lot of couples don't want to meet single guys. It's hardly fair that Mrs gets to play with another guy but there's no fem there for Mr."
I could put a months wages on it that if it was a female joining in the couple neither the man or women would complain about playing alone with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every couples male used to be a single guy at one point !
99% of guys on here would jump at the chance of having a single female to be in a couple and even to swing with !
So many people have a massive list of things what they are looking for ! Which is near impossible to find and it's a swinging site after all not a perfect match dot com !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet men from time to time but we find them our self
We did have looking for single men on our profile but got to many messages assuming that this is a cuckold relationship I don't know why ?
So we took single men off |
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