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IF YOU CANT BOOK A HOTEL, don't bother us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it like all things isn't it, some people don't like whats on a profile, some don't take issue with it.
One persons blunt, is another persons straightforward.
Id love to take a lady to a hotel and spoil her for the day/evening, scant few takers however.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Supply and demand. Assuming it's guys they're after, there will always be someone prepared to pay.
If you like the look the look of them you have to make the personal decision whether you're prepared to pay or not.
If not, they'll move on to the next guy.
To be honest of they can get away with it good luck to them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who said they were asking people to pay,the OP said book,maybe they pay halves on the night?
Maybe they've booked hotels before and been left high and dry and this way seems a bit safer to them?
Either way,easily ignored if its not your thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It s out the fakers/fantasists for a start. Whether they choose to split the bill or pay for it all themselves, a no show is disappointing and time consuming.
Yes I understand there may be genuine reasons for a no show, but maybe they've been let down so many times?
Either that or they are after a free hotel for the evening, as someone already said; if someone is willing to pay then why not?! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"What makes people say this? Does that mean they themselves want a free ride all the time?
Who is more likely to put this on their profile?  "
Seen a profile just today saying that exact thing. The meet was for a single guy to book the hotel for the couple to turn and meet them in. They had 38 verifications (from memory) so obviously guys do! |
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With us if we meet couples we split the cost, however if we meet a single guy - or guys - we expect them to pay for the hotel.
We find that couples never let us down, single guys do so constantly - unless they have paid for the room! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't book a hotel either. I will pay half but the way I see it I normally can't get there until after the guy I'm meeting and I don't stay the night whereas they often do. I'm not having some guy spend a night in a room I've booked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we dont meet single guys but still wouldnt expect them to pay for the room we would split the cost - if the room was booked purely for the meet that is - maybe ask them to book it in the first place |
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"I won't book a hotel either. I will pay half but the way I see it I normally can't get there until after the guy I'm meeting and I don't stay the night whereas they often do. I'm not having some guy spend a night in a room I've booked. "
You stay the night if that settles it. Either way, I am laughing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have paid for hotels on my meets out of my choice as prob would not ask a woman to so, however I am not being told to do it sod that, just a bit rude, pay your way sunshine lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't book a hotel either. I will pay half but the way I see it I normally can't get there until after the guy I'm meeting and I don't stay the night whereas they often do. I'm not having some guy spend a night in a room I've booked.
You stay the night if that settles it. Either way, I am laughing! "
I can't stay the night. And it works perfectly well for me as it is. .. I'm not sure what you are finding amusing? |
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Must be the supply and demand thing. I find it a bit disrespectful when some profiles have book and pay a hotel. pick them up and drop them back. That's zero effort. I just don't get why you'd wanna fuck someone you don't even have respect for? Where's the fun in that?
Seriously, manners and standards are fast eroding on Fab. |
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"Must be the supply and demand thing. I find it a bit disrespectful when some profiles have book and pay a hotel. pick them up and drop them back. That's zero effort. I just don't get why you'd wanna fuck someone you don't even have respect for? Where's the fun in that?
Seriously, manners and standards are fast eroding on Fab."
I feel the same about those profiles. I won't ever be jumping through hoops like that for a meet that's for certain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be the supply and demand thing. I find it a bit disrespectful when some profiles have book and pay a hotel. pick them up and drop them back. That's zero effort. I just don't get why you'd wanna fuck someone you don't even have respect for? Where's the fun in that?
Seriously, manners and standards are fast eroding on Fab.
I feel the same about those profiles. I won't ever be jumping through hoops like that for a meet that's for certain."
I don't blame you as I wouldn't either. With me I meet the way I do as it has to fit in around my family and work. I can't be very flexible in that, but I'm upfront about that and if it puts guys off or makes them feel they have to jump through hoops or that I have no manners then so be it. I can't change that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't reply to a profile with that text, it all seems a bit one sided and is a complete turn off for me. it also can come across as arrogant.
Although if it's on the profile to say the reasons why your life necessitates that, and it's not just someone taking advantage of the fact that someone wants to sleep with them a lot... then fair play.
On the other hand though, if I could be taken to hotels, bought dinner...
I wouldn't say no   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be the supply and demand thing. I find it a bit disrespectful when some profiles have book and pay a hotel. pick them up and drop them back. That's zero effort. I just don't get why you'd wanna fuck someone you don't even have respect for? Where's the fun in that?
Seriously, manners and standards are fast eroding on Fab."
seen some single fem profiles -and they get away with it cos men willing to do this - ask to be picked up wined and dined and maybe go back to hotel for sex - want picking up and dropping off - free meal ticket comes to mind -one list of veris read - ''met XX for social meal and few drinks blah - hope to meet again for more ''- like 3 or 4 a week - each to their own - her shopping bill must have been low lol |
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"Must be the supply and demand thing. I find it a bit disrespectful when some profiles have book and pay a hotel. pick them up and drop them back. That's zero effort. I just don't get why you'd wanna fuck someone you don't even have respect for? Where's the fun in that?
Seriously, manners and standards are fast eroding on Fab.
seen some single fem profiles -and they get away with it cos men willing to do this - ask to be picked up wined and dined and maybe go back to hotel for sex - want picking up and dropping off - free meal ticket comes to mind -one list of veris read - ''met XX for social meal and few drinks blah - hope to meet again for more ''- like 3 or 4 a week - each to their own - her shopping bill must have been low lol "
True true - I can't understand why someone would want someone to do all these things and not volunteer to help. it's almost like a badge of honour. Of course, there are a lot of desperate men on here and the women get away with murder, but amazes me how many people lack a little introspection.
Some people have genuine reasons for not traveling like family etc which is reasonable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be the supply and demand thing. I find it a bit disrespectful when some profiles have book and pay a hotel. pick them up and drop them back. That's zero effort. I just don't get why you'd wanna fuck someone you don't even have respect for? Where's the fun in that?
Seriously, manners and standards are fast eroding on Fab.
seen some single fem profiles -and they get away with it cos men willing to do this - ask to be picked up wined and dined and maybe go back to hotel for sex - want picking up and dropping off - free meal ticket comes to mind -one list of veris read - ''met XX for social meal and few drinks blah - hope to meet again for more ''- like 3 or 4 a week - each to their own - her shopping bill must have been low lol "
I like to either take it in turns to pay or he pays for hotel and I stump up for dinner, drinks etc. Would absolutely hate to be thought of as a free loader.
If guys are paying for everything in the hope of getting laid then more fool them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never dream of having such a thing on my profile, and I wouldn't just offer to pay half, I'd insist 
I've paid the full hotel bill before now as I was staying the night, he wasn't and I was going shopping the following day. |
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"I would never dream of having such a thing on my profile, and I wouldn't just offer to pay half, I'd insist
I've paid the full hotel bill before now as I was staying the night, he wasn't and I was going shopping the following day."
And there is a woman with self-respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never dream of having such a thing on my profile, and I wouldn't just offer to pay half, I'd insist
I've paid the full hotel bill before now as I was staying the night, he wasn't and I was going shopping the following day.
And there is a woman with self-respect."
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Unless it's someone I've met previously, I'd never book a hotel specifically for a meet...as I travel a bit, I've usually already sorted my accommodation and I'm happy to invite folk over for for fun in which case the room is on me. If it's specifically booked for fun then I'd expect to split the cost in some way either straight down the middle or I pay hotel, he pays for dinner for example  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The point some of you seem to be missing is just because we won't book a hotel doesn't necessarily mean that we won't pay for one. 
Not all of us women are out for all we can get from a guy.
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"The point some of you seem to be missing is just because we won't book a hotel doesn't necessarily mean that we won't pay for one.
Not all of us women are out for all we can get from a guy.
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I understand what you mean there Scarlet hence I said earlier I'd have no issues with booking a hotel, or picking someone up if they had issues with travel, couldn't drive or similar, but as you've said all the bills would end up being split
Again there is a minority that are out for all they can get and I don't think anyone is pointing the finger at you at all. Sadly there are men who are willing to come up trumps and pay for all but we just let those guys and girls get on with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The point some of you seem to be missing is just because we won't book a hotel doesn't necessarily mean that we won't pay for one.
Not all of us women are out for all we can get from a guy.
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"I won't book a hotel either. I will pay half but the way I see it I normally can't get there until after the guy I'm meeting and I don't stay the night whereas they often do. I'm not having some guy spend a night in a room I've booked.
You stay the night if that settles it. Either way, I am laughing!
I can't stay the night. And it works perfectly well for me as it is. .. I'm not sure what you are finding amusing?"
Ignore my amusement / LAUGHS.
If hotel cost is around 60 or 70, just chip in 30. Dont think of who sleeps there after you,ve had your fun. Just go home happy and be grateful for the effort, time and energy put in the whole enterprise. Period!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I won't book a hotel either. I will pay half but the way I see it I normally can't get there until after the guy I'm meeting and I don't stay the night whereas they often do. I'm not having some guy spend a night in a room I've booked.
You stay the night if that settles it. Either way, I am laughing!
I can't stay the night. And it works perfectly well for me as it is. .. I'm not sure what you are finding amusing?
Ignore my amusement / LAUGHS.
If hotel cost is around 60 or 70, just chip in 30. Dont think of who sleeps there after you,ve had your fun. Just go home happy and be grateful for the effort, time and energy put in the whole enterprise. Period! "
I do pay half...I'm just not booking it for some guy to stay there all night. |
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"I won't book a hotel either. I will pay half but the way I see it I normally can't get there until after the guy I'm meeting and I don't stay the night whereas they often do. I'm not having some guy spend a night in a room I've booked.
You stay the night if that settles it. Either way, I am laughing!
I can't stay the night. And it works perfectly well for me as it is. .. I'm not sure what you are finding amusing?
Ignore my amusement / LAUGHS.
If hotel cost is around 60 or 70, just chip in 30. Dont think of who sleeps there after you,ve had your fun. Just go home happy and be grateful for the effort, time and energy put in the whole enterprise. Period!
I do pay half...I'm just not booking it for some guy to stay there all night."
Whoever books it is irrelevant. So long as nobody thinks they have an upper hand and thefore demand a trailer load of prerequisites, life is good. I am all for fairness and EQUALITY. THOU SHALT NOT MAKE A MUG OF YOUR FELLOW MAN. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Whoever books it is irrelevant. So long as nobody thinks they have an upper hand and thefore demand a trailer load of prerequisites, life is good. I am all for fairness and EQUALITY. THOU SHALT NOT MAKE A MUG OF YOUR FELLOW MAN. "
I disagree, it's totally relevant as to who books the room. Why should I book a room in my name if I'm not the one spending the night there? 
If I'm staying there all night, I'll book it. If he's staying there all night he can book it.
I'd insist on paying half but I'm not having my name on the hotel records if someone else is staying in the room. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whoever books it is irrelevant. So long as nobody thinks they have an upper hand and thefore demand a trailer load of prerequisites, life is good. I am all for fairness and EQUALITY. THOU SHALT NOT MAKE A MUG OF YOUR FELLOW MAN. "
actually it isn't irrelevant who books the room. If the room is booked by the guy and he's the last one to leave I don't care what state he may leave the room in. If I'm booking the room and leaving the guy alone there to check out what if he decides to trash the room or whatever (unlikely I know) but I don't want that coming back to me. That's why I won't book if I'm not staying the night. It's nothing to do with getting what I can or Having the upper hand or mugging anyone off or disrespect or manners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha legs! You said it better than me!!!
ha ha we're both singing from the same hymn sheet though
There must be method in my madness after all "
Well if that's madness, I'm in good company! |
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"Ha legs! You said it better than me!!!
ha ha we're both singing from the same hymn sheet though
There must be method in my madness after all "
Could we all get together and s'w'ing in between the same sheets? I'll book the hotel room...... |
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"Ha legs! You said it better than me!!!
ha ha we're both singing from the same hymn sheet though
There must be method in my madness after all
Could we all get together and s'w'ing in between the same sheets? I'll book the hotel room...... "
I'll clean the room b4 we hand it over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im ok to book a room as I cant accom but its something I do after a social would not do so cold would only do if after meeting was clear there was a connection and she or they where. He kinda if people I want to be with
Its only the same as a single guy paying twice the amount to go in a club as a couple and if your at the hotel stage then its pretty certain that you will be in the company of someone with mutual attraction
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