"I have notice how many women must have a face pic of the male to start chatting, but they never have one...."
its not fair if they impose conditions on you that they aren't prepared to comply with.
Are you absolutely sure they are women? |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I keep my face pic in private but happy to send it when we get to the stage of chatting.
I live in a small village, and as a single mum, need to think about safety after a scary experience when I had someone message me telling me they had seen me and my son together locally, and had passed my car (even giving me my car registration) but not willing to say who they were... |
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"I keep my face pic in private but happy to send it when we get to the stage of chatting.
I live in a small village, and as a single mum, need to think about safety after a scary experience when I had someone message me telling me they had seen me and my son together locally, and had passed my car (even giving me my car registration) but not willing to say who they were..."
Totally agree I understand in that situation, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I keep mine for friends only and only add those I've chatted to and agreed to meet. I live in a small rural village do have to be very careful. I'll happily send to someone if I've contacted them and the chat is going well though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep my face pic in private but happy to send it when we get to the stage of chatting.
I live in a small village, and as a single mum, need to think about safety after a scary experience when I had someone message me telling me they had seen me and my son together locally, and had passed my car (even giving me my car registration) but not willing to say who they were..."
I have had the same on our couples profile even going on to say where it was parked and at what time! I just put it down to someone getting over excited without thinking |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I keep my face pic in private but happy to send it when we get to the stage of chatting.
I live in a small village, and as a single mum, need to think about safety after a scary experience when I had someone message me telling me they had seen me and my son together locally, and had passed my car (even giving me my car registration) but not willing to say who they were...
I have had the same on our couples profile even going on to say where it was parked and at what time! I just put it down to someone getting over excited without thinking "
It happened on a few occasions, and was really intimidating when he told me... also being quizzed by a stranger who I was seen with is just not on. Not over excited and not thinking in my opinion... weird and stalker-y type behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its a awkward one,people who slyly contact you having s gloat telling you enough info about yourself to creep you out are weird fuckers,probably the sort of person who should be in a mental hospital... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally, I think if you message someone first and you do not have a face pic on your profile, you should attach one. If they're not interested then no time is wasted chatting and there is no awkward moment after a day or two chatting when the face pic is eventually sent and they're not for you. People can put what they like on their profile, you don't need to conform or even message them if you don't like it. |
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