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Have you ever paid for sex?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex.
It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys  . |
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I have never payed for sex ....... If I'm honest though I wouldn't have a problem with it either if someone wanted too if the person you was paying was a high class escort rather than someone off the street.
I know its always a risk but you could only make it safer for everyone ..... |
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Why pay when we are fighting all you ladies off!! tbh I did meet an escort off here but as a normal friend. I only heard about her professional life after. I wouldn't blame any guy parting with some dosh for her -but I didn't |
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over a year ago
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Well I for one have never but to be quite honest indirectly you do a hotel a meal drinks etc so at least the latter hopefully you get the sexy woman of your choice and some emotions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To add to that if i was rich and had the money to spare i would, I can see the attraction, pick a guy of your choice and you get to say what happens as your paying |
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"To add to that if i was rich and had the money to spare i would, I can see the attraction, pick a guy of your choice and you get to say what happens as your paying "
I always pick guys of my choice...without paying lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To add to that if i was rich and had the money to spare i would, I can see the attraction, pick a guy of your choice and you get to say what happens as your paying
I always pick guys of my choice...without paying lol"
my sights are to high all the guys i like turn me down 
down side to being a ugly twat I guess but if you were paying you wouldn't have that problem as escorts don't meet you based on looks
that's all I ment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't bother me to pay for sex if i wanted it that badly, but i haven't done it yet.
The person you pay would make sure you have a good time so don't see a problem with it? I'd only feel bad if they had been forced into prostitution, for whatever reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn't it funny that no one ever pays for sex and yet their are so many escorts in the world . There must be a few guys spending all they're hard earned cash on them all . I have paid and would again . I find it very very horny . In fact i have had more than one relationship with with an escort . Loved it .   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt as there is soooo much free sex going that I dont believe we all need to.
However I do know ppl that have as they find it difficult for whatever reasons to find it any other way...not against it by any means though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have paid for it before. No problem with it as I get to choose who I fuck and when, if the urge strikes. Had an ex who paid for an escort as a birthday present for me too!! |
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"To add to that if i was rich and had the money to spare i would, I can see the attraction, pick a guy of your choice and you get to say what happens as your paying
I always pick guys of my choice...without paying lol
my sights are to high all the guys i like turn me down
down side to being a ugly twat I guess but if you were paying you wouldn't have that problem as escorts don't meet you based on looks
that's all I ment "
Your not ugly at all. Well you wasn't last time I saw you.. So don't say things like that xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would if I could afford it"
This in theory.....although I like to feel as if the person I'm with is with me because they want to be and I don't know if I would like to feel like they were there because I had paid them to be
If that makes sense lol |
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"According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex.
It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys ."
Yes I have and worth every penny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex.
It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys ."
Still paying..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I for one have never but to be quite honest indirectly you do a hotel a meal drinks etc so at least the latter hopefully you get the sexy woman of your choice and some emotions "
 I'm shocked and appalled.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I for one have never but to be quite honest indirectly you do a hotel a meal drinks etc so at least the latter hopefully you get the sexy woman of your choice and some emotions "
In that respect,I have paid for sex on a regular basis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a side question, would a ladys opinion of a potential meet be swayed differently if she knew the guy had previously paid for sex?"
wouldn't mine no
not all men are hard up for sex and desperate some just enjoy the no hassle sex you get from escorts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a side question, would a ladys opinion of a potential meet be swayed differently if she knew the guy had previously paid for sex?"
Wouldn't make a difference to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female
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Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x
To get exactly what I wanted from a man"
i have to be honest I'm with you on this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female
male
Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x
To get exactly what I wanted from a man
i have to be honest I'm with you on this "
They have lists of what they provide and will do. I could pick the man I liked and what I fancied at the time without lengthy discussions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female
male
Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x
To get exactly what I wanted from a man
i have to be honest I'm with you on this
They have lists of what they provide and will do. I could pick the man I liked and what I fancied at the time without lengthy discussions "
you've really looked into this haven't you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female
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Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x
To get exactly what I wanted from a man
i have to be honest I'm with you on this
They have lists of what they provide and will do. I could pick the man I liked and what I fancied at the time without lengthy discussions
you've really looked into this haven't you "
Just research |
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Cost of a single guy going to a swinger's club, including travel membership &/or entrance, and not being guaranteed a shag versus a single guy nipping into a massage parlor for half hour and having a massage, chat and guaranteed shag with someone invariably more attractive than the majority of those females in a club?
Mmmm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr.... I have a long time ago but loved it , built a friendship and was relaxed and in full working order lol but it would cost more for a kiss than cumming in her mouth 
One for the snipers lol we find it a turn on selling ourselves (more me .. Mr I think ) used and abused  ...... Never done it and probably wouldn't , but that's a fantasy for Ye x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy.
I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed."
Was it fun? If so look back with a smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy.
I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed.
Was it fun? If so look back with a smile. "
Don't , how would it feel after a horny meet if you were told they/her felt dirty and cheep after ??? I'm pretty Damm sure I'd feel awful if that's how they felt but always tried to make things fun ....
One really horny night me and a single guy who well adored the mrs( stalker lol )we aggreed £600 for him to come over for an hour or 2 pmsl never going to happen but horny as fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay."
Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy.
I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed.
Was it fun? If so look back with a smile. "
No, it was a couple of times and it wasn't fun-too clinical and I felt bad at the time and couldn't enjoy it.
I shouldn't have enjoyed it anyway - it was the wrong thing to do. I fought against it, but I was a shy guy back then who was a bit desperate really and my youthful urges got the better of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy.
I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed.
Was it fun? If so look back with a smile.
No, it was a couple of times and it wasn't fun-too clinical and I felt bad at the time and couldn't enjoy it.
I shouldn't have enjoyed it anyway - it was the wrong thing to do. I fought against it, but I was a shy guy back then who was a bit desperate really and my youthful urges got the better of me. "
Maybe on the wrong site mate  |
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay.
Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it? "
Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay.
Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it?
Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different."
Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay.
Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it?
Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different.
Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying....."
I for one think he's talking pish. |
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay.
Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it?
Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different.
Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying....."
Swinging clubs / sites making money through sex implied/supplied...no difference at all.
Porn is an outlet as wankbank material and swing sites like these earn a profit from the average guy...am i getting it right... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay.
Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it?
Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different.
Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying.....
Swinging clubs / sites making money through sex implied/supplied...no difference at all.
Porn is an outlet as wankbank material and swing sites like these earn a profit from the average guy...am i getting it right..."
I invited a few around to my house..we had a small party...no money ever exchanged hands(for everyone)...EVER.
hardly an industry..so VASTLY different.... |
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Of course private parties are not like making friendly films not for resale but the swinging sites and clubs earn their money like any porn site.
Councils lump them in together so they cant be wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both earn their money through sex or implied sex so yes they are in the same business, anyone thinking different is only kidding themselves."
did the site earn anything from me?-honestly I think you are talking pish.I'm aware of how the both things can be linked..as in sex...but not for profit.I wouldnt even have to pay a membership fee and still attend/hold parties where no profit or even covering costs are asked for...so who makes money from that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay.
Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it?
Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different.
Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying.....
Swinging clubs / sites making money through sex implied/supplied...no difference at all.
Porn is an outlet as wankbank material and swing sites like these earn a profit from the average guy...am i getting it right..."
i don't think so.......but then i've never thought too much about it...initial thought's though are that no real swinger is willing to pay beyond say a club membership, maybe pay to join a website or two or whatever so there's not enough money in it to build an 'industry' as such.
sure, a few webmasters make a few quid and club owners may make a living but that's not industry, not as can be compared to that of the sex industry! that has multi billion pound and more industry.
your comparing two entirely different things with the sweeping generalisation that somewhere money changes hands. that in swinging is a very different dynamic to the change of hands in the sex trade to start with, the expectation for the money is very different too.
and how about the 18yo paying to get into a nightclub in the hope of leaving with a lady? does that liken the nightclub industry to the sex trade? no, and it's a bigger industry and i'll bet more lads walk into clubs expecting sex than men walk into adult clubs expecting it.....
i can see your link but it's frail and very tenuous to my eyes sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. On moral and ethical grounds. The human misery that lies behind the sex industry is too high a price to pay.
Everyone in the sex industry was forced into it?
Lol...what planet have you been on, no the sex industry like the swinging industry are no different.
Swinging is an industry? And you think it's like the sex industry? Just checking that's what your saying.....
I for one think he's talking pish."
or this.....this was an easier way of saying it...cheers pad |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"OK, I'll admit that I did when I was a very shy, nervous young guy.
I think about it a few times a week - and every time I do I am utterly disgusted with myself and ashamed.
Was it fun? If so look back with a smile.
No, it was a couple of times and it wasn't fun-too clinical and I felt bad at the time and couldn't enjoy it.
I shouldn't have enjoyed it anyway - it was the wrong thing to do. I fought against it, but I was a shy guy back then who was a bit desperate really and my youthful urges got the better of me.
Maybe on the wrong site mate "
That was over twenty years ago. I'm a different person these days - more comfortable with myself etc
I just don't feel happy with the idea and it's not something I feel good about looking back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would if I could afford it would u with male or female
male
Really? Do you mind if I ask why? x
To get exactly what I wanted from a man"
As good a reason as any! And the same one that many men have I am sure. I have to admit to rather lazily thinking that women could generally get whatever they wanted from a man on this site - but thinking about it again you can only choose from what is available, and quantity is not the same as quality. And finding the quality without the hassle is not easy. |
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"According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex.
It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys ."
Did you steal the toys? |
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Because of new laws the industry in the UK as been decimated, with the BBBFC teaming with ATVOD porn will be pushed underground here soon.
Unlike the US we have the smallest sex industry in the world and yes the swinging industry is now earning millions compared to porn.
From the 1st of Dec any adult video site not having the correct barriers e.g. credit card access will be closed down by the government, the good thing about this is that the FREE porn will be gone but with restrictions getting tighter we are the small industry out of the 2.
When you look at Cap D'agde, Hedo etc swinging is now a multi million pound business while the porn industry here is being broken up.
After us they will target the swinging industry, esort industry & web cam industry if we allow the government to go on its moral crusade.
Swinging sites will be the next to have strict credit card entry so minors can't join as will any adult site showing explicit photo's which is right really.
Things are changing for all who sell, earn money, advertise from implied or actual sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because of new laws the industry in the UK as been decimated, with the BBBFC teaming with ATVOD porn will be pushed underground here soon.
Unlike the US we have the smallest sex industry in the world and yes the swinging industry is now earning millions compared to porn.
From the 1st of Dec any adult video site not having the correct barriers e.g. credit card access will be closed down by the government, the good thing about this is that the FREE porn will be gone but with restrictions getting tighter we are the small industry out of the 2.
When you look at Cap D'agde, Hedo etc swinging is now a multi million pound business while the porn industry here is being broken up.
After us they will target the swinging industry, esort industry & web cam industry if we allow the government to go on its moral crusade.
Swinging sites will be the next to have strict credit card entry so minors can't join as will any adult site showing explicit photo's which is right really.
Things are changing for all who sell, earn money, advertise from implied or actual sex.
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No free porn  better get on with making our own lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I couldn't have sex with anyone that I knew didn't really want to be doing it. I've seen some drop dead gorgeous working girls in the street, but the idea that I would be having sex with someone that just knows how to make the right noises and is eager for you to hurry up and finish so they can move on to the next punter, is dreadful. Some escorts might say that they enjoy their job, but if they were given the choice of sitting eating tea and crumpets for £100 or allowing someone they are not attracted to have sex with them for £100 I think the teashop would do a roaring trade. A couple of blokes I know regularly see prostitutes both here and while away on business. They do things that their wives won't, and they don't want them doing. That says everything to me about the majority of prostitutr users. Thats right....users. |
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Fantastic and bravo to all the men who have paid for it you are truly champions. Especially the gentleman who only goes with English escorts because he is very clever and wouldn't support trafficking.
Now go and read a book called Slave Girl, it won't be such a turn on afterwards. |
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"Fantastic and bravo to all the men who have paid for it you are truly champions. Especially the gentleman who only goes with English escorts because he is very clever and wouldn't support trafficking.
Now go and read a book called Slave Girl, it won't be such a turn on afterwards. "
It does amaze me that no one aside from ourselves has mentioned this - may as well have provided free buckets of sand along with this thread. |
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A friend who i play pool with joined a swinging site and was told he had his first message free, he said to his amazement he got a reply from a sexy lady within 5 mins.
He then got charged a £10 fee per 5 messages, i told him there are about legit swinging sites with Fab being the best where he won't be conned.
With 100's of so called swinging sites earning mega bucks off lonely guys like this you can justify why a person would prefer to pay an escort.
BDSM is another massive industry under the witch hunters eyes at the moment, documents i read a few days ago say how half of these clubs will be shut down by police and councils next year in a clampdown.
As BDSM is linked with some swinging clubs more than porn but as they exist side by side it effects all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"According to The Independent, 1 in 10 men have admitted to paying for sex.
It'd be interesting to discover what percentage of women pay for sex. I wouldn't, I prefer my toys .
Did you steal the toys?"
 no they were paid for , but I get to reuse them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot of people are saying they would have things to spend their money on, which I understand.
However putting that aside, if money wasn't an issue, would you do it?
I have, in order to fuck porn stars. I wont go as far to say money isn't an issue, but I don't believe in having fantasies that aren't fulfilled. The prospect of it happening without remuneration are nil.
Not all people are in the industry because they are pushed into it. Many who escort also swing, it is not as significant jump as some think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always wanted to fuck a 40 year old busty milf so when I was about 22 I looked on adultwork and found a lady who was perfect . We spoke I went to her house and she was actually one of the nicest people I've met . We chatted had a drink and then we got naked she was so good! Made me feel so welcome and not rushing for me to cum so I can go . Would do it again for the right person saves a lot of being messed about too . I prefer free sex don't get me wrong but if there's a certain person I like then I'd do it again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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no never paid for it but...............
if it was the only of getting it off somebody i thought was going to give me the time of my life in the bedroom.....
My cash would be out quicker than you could say "quick" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I did when i went Amsterdam but some are like page 3 models this girl grabbed me and goes you come with me i show u good time i shit you not it was Kelly brooks double how could i resist |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every time !!
Needs new clothes
Needs new shoes
Needs hair done
Needs nails done
Lmao costly xxx
spot on lol
U know it too Tarzan lmao x "
high maintenance |
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