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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we only soft swing , we just find it sexy and erotic, we have played soft with full swap cples and they have loved it as much as us,
penetration is not the be all and end all of sex, tease and foreplay are a big part of our sexlife, just watching others do things infront of you that are normally private is so erotic |
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Most of my meets with couples are soft swing and I love it. Had some very memorable meets, some are my best. I find it so much more erotic, the teasing, touching, exploring each others bodies. Love it.
*wanders off all dreamy like* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My o.h and I choose only to do soft swap - we absolutely love it 
It can be so kinky and horny - plus who doesn't like prolonged foreplay
We always make sure our play mates are well pleased and have come many times - it's just not by full penetrative sex... What's not to like? Minx xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do both, tend not to set rules and just go with the flow. Sometimes it feels right to swap and other times soft is perfectly fine also.
Do whatever feels right and wherever te mood takes you all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are soft swap only.
If you can do it with your hands or mouth... That's good.
The only real hard rules we have are no kissing and no penetrative sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do both, tend not to set rules and just go with the flow. Sometimes it feels right to swap and other times soft is perfectly fine also.
Do whatever feels right and wherever te mood takes you all "
This says what it's all about !
When it comes down to it if you click while having fun you can always have more fun but if you start at full sex it's harder to say no thanks ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When hubby and I started we did full swap, but soon found it wasn't for us and many couples we met were what we would call hardened swingers (predatory and manipulative). Since doing soft swap we have so much more fun and if there is a particularly gorgeous fat cock being offered then sometimes it finds a warm wet home!! I'm not saying all full swap couples are hardened and predatory at all, it was just our personal experience. Licking, stroking and teasing so much Hornier than "jump aboard!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We recently had a great evening at our favourite club and we only soft swing - we had action all nite. Then when we went outside for a ciggy to cool off & take a breather for 5 mins, we overheard couples chatting about how little action there was for 'full swap' couples. Just goes to show i guess |
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We enjoy soft swing, although once the male partner tried to push further, which can spoil the meet, having all set the boundary's before play , but hay in the heat of the moment we understand, but his wife did not, so now we just take it as it comes, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we love soft swop but we have a strange profile as mrs E plays full swop and mr E only plays with me so we struggle to find cpl who want this, if anyone is up for it just mail us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not sure the term only soft swap really sums it up, some of our most erotic encounters have been soft swap were imagination and lots of kissing, licking and other foreplay have made for memorable experiences, likewise some of our least erotic encounters have been full swap where it's the be all and end all, we class ourselves as soft swap as on a first meet that's our limit, subsequent meets full swap if all agree, it's keeps some of the predators away. |
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"we love soft swop but we have a strange profile as mrs E plays full swop and mr E only plays with me so we struggle to find cpl who want this, if anyone is up for it just mail us"
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"I'm not sure the term only soft swap really sums it up, some of our most erotic encounters have been soft swap were imagination and lots of kissing, licking and other foreplay have made for memorable experiences, likewise some of our least erotic encounters have been full swap where it's the be all and end all, we class ourselves as soft swap as on a first meet that's our limit, subsequent meets full swap if all agree, it's keeps some of the predators away."
Similar to our preferences. We have had really sexy and horny fun with others with soft swap. We have found in the past that the "ultimate" seems to be foremost in some minds.....while we have and still do full swap we both......and the other couple or single have to be happy and comfortable.....if one of us isn't then the fun just doesn't work....past experience.....
We have found that full swap on later meets can be far more fun but on occasions first meet full swap has been mind blowing.....
The most important thing is that your both happy and agree on your boundaries and to talk. Swinging as a couple is a "together" thing and it's always OK to say no...or yes....just make sure your saying it together as one |
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"We only soft swing . We don't do kissing or penitration other than that all systems go "
Understand your boundaries and preferences....no problem.....it's what you like.....but we couldn't swing without kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a soft swap couple. Our only rule is no swapping for male female penetration
It does help that we are both bi though. So lots more fun to be had.  |
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
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It is something I am a big fan of.
Much less emphasis put on the 'performance' of everyone involved.
Instead you can all concentrate on the pleasure aspect.
All less rushed, much more sensual.
And I really enjoy taking my time and enjoying the pleasures of 'pleasuring' the lady involved.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"We only soft swing . We don't do kissing or penitration other than that all systems go
Understand your boundaries and preferences....no problem.....it's what you like.....but we couldn't swing without kissing."
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