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over a year ago
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I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? |
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
No your not alone as we hate this also.
But by posting this youll soon find there are others that like it so just accept we are all different and get sroused by different things where noone is right or wrong for what they enjoy |
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
 would be a straight red card for me. Really not my thing at all.
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
No you're not.
The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.
Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful?
No you're not.
The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.
Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful?
No you're not.
The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.
Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks."
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
Not at all, I love picking up pieces of my vagina after a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
It just always makes me giggle... And the ones that when I say no thanks say I wouldn't have handled them.... Lee thinks I should at times just say ok and see how far they get but that attitude has already turned me off so it wouldn't be much good for me x although I guess it could be amusing occasionally x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
Come play my 'charm it up' game |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems to be quite a common phrase around her....to "wreck" someone would mean to give them a good fucking....not to cause them any damage. At least I would hope   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that sort of language very distasteful and disrespectful, no need for crude immature rubbish like that. I had a message once from a guy saying he wanted to destroy my pussy, I replied saying I'd reported him to the RSPCA and then blocked him!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
Not really distasteful it more an expression of immaturity to us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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No you're not.
The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.
Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks."
It's the women asking to be 'ruined' that really gets to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful?
Not really distasteful it more an expression of immaturity to us."
My thoughts exactly .., it's the language of the Geordie Shore crew! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if it was ever seen on a profile with decent pics of a massive cock, that had several decent verifications from women who'd been left unable to function for a while, then it'd be time to worry that this was a 'thing' that people enjoyed.
As it is, the only times I've seen it, and in fact had someone offer to ruin me recently, are on very thinly filled out and dodgy profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this"
Who are about 16 and if you called their bluff they'd cum in their pants and run of home shouting for their mummy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find some comments a little odd, I never understand guys who use their ability to lick you dry as a selling point, mate if I'm dry after you have been down there your doing it wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
That is a straight block and move on for us. As someone else noted, we consider our genitals to me reusable, not disposable...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find some comments a little odd, I never understand guys who use their ability to lick you dry as a selling point, mate if I'm dry after you have been down there your doing it wrong "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like how everyone blames porn. Being ruined was around way before we even had video cassette recorders. As an aside,I quite like being ruined even though it can take a week to get over it |
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"I find that sort of language very distasteful and disrespectful, no need for crude immature rubbish like that. I had a message once from a guy saying he wanted to destroy my pussy, I replied saying I'd reported him to the RSPCA and then blocked him!!"
my dogs would bite anyone who abused my pussycat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this
Speaking from experience are we?
Yes.
Thats yes to your post and the one above.
Safe as fuck"
Have you grown out of it now? |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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The grey trackie bottom thing is a little harsh .... Everyone has their own turn on's .... And stereotypes not kind.....we like the sensual intimacy of sex but also the edgy side too..... And manage both very well |
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"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this
Speaking from experience are we?
Yes.
Thats yes to your post and the one above.
Safe as fuck
Have you grown out of it now? "
No.
1 - I own grey tracky bottoms and first thing I do after my 5.35 shit when I get in is put them on.
2 - Its big and clever that kind of language, chicks dig it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its usually lads in grey tracky bottoms with their hands down their pants who speak like this
Speaking from experience are we?
Yes.
Thats yes to your post and the one above.
Safe as fuck
Have you grown out of it now?
No.
1 - I own grey tracky bottoms and first thing I do after my 5.35 shit when I get in is put them on.
2 - Its big and clever that kind of language, chicks dig it "
Chicks and birds |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion."
We all like to do it, if a woman said can u ruin my pussie, sure everyone would wanna do it lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have known ladies who at times wanted to be 'ruined'.......its not so much that I find that kind of sex distasteful...it has it's place from time to time, its more the language i find a little cringeworthy if that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion.We all like to do it, if a woman said can u ruin my pussie, sure everyone would wanna do it lol."
No, we don't "all like to do it". Some of us are more respectful and prefer not to act or speak like teenage boys wanking over the Kays catalogue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion.We all like to do it, if a woman said can u ruin my pussie, sure everyone would wanna do it lol."
Yeah! I want you to leave my vag looking like a tin of spam that's been shot with a shotgun lol....maybe....who knows?
Maybe you can open a six pack of whoop ass on them?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had been talking to a guy on here on and off for a long time, we were talking about arranging a meet finally and he said when we met he would destroy me since it had been so long in the making. instant radio silence from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had been talking to a guy on here on and off for a long time, we were talking about arranging a meet finally and he said when we met he would destroy me since it had been so long in the making. instant radio silence from me."
That would be an instant block from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had been talking to a guy on here on and off for a long time, we were talking about arranging a meet finally and he said when we met he would destroy me since it had been so long in the making. instant radio silence from me."
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"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion."
Some women enjoy being spoken about in those terms, I'm not one of them and tend to agree about the misogyny, but nevertheless it is what some women like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had been talking to a guy on here on and off for a long time, we were talking about arranging a meet finally and he said when we met he would destroy me since it had been so long in the making. instant radio silence from me."
Hang on! Nobody told me about this radio feature! This another platinum membership thing? I'm missing out here....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had been talking to a guy on here on and off for a long time, we were talking about arranging a meet finally and he said when we met he would destroy me since it had been so long in the making. instant radio silence from me."
lol classic one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's misogynistic bullshit written by morons. The site should ban people who use such terms in my opinion.
Some women enjoy being spoken about in those terms, I'm not one of them and tend to agree about the misogyny, but nevertheless it is what some women like."
True, but there's dirty talk and there's unsolicited misogyny which is what I feel this is.
It's this rubbish and idiots like Dapper Laughs that need removing from the world. Women have enough to deal with, without having men like this around them. I agree, it's also chavvy as mentioned above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes it's horrible and very abusive. I hate it when people start talking like that when you start talking to them and they get more and more coarse and obscene. Yuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love being 'ruined'
Its just slang that is all. Shag is a word I find cringey simply because it is not of my generation. Half of 'sex talk' is slang anyway.
I wouldn't say I am a chav or that J is being disrespectful to me.
Maybe we should add to our profile *want to ruin and be ruined* just in case people find out we use language like that later on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it's horrible and very abusive. I hate it when people start talking like that when you start talking to them and they get more and more coarse and obscene. Yuck."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love being 'ruined'
Its just slang that is all. Shag is a word I find cringey simply because it is not of my generation. Half of 'sex talk' is slang anyway.
I wouldn't say I am a chav or that J is being disrespectful to me.
Maybe we should add to our profile *want to ruin and be ruined* just in case people find out we use language like that later on "
I think the point here is that when you say it to a.total stranger with no ideas of their likes and dislikes, it kinda says something about you as a person, I've had guys call me their little sub slut and I've never even talked to them before let alone met them. of course people like dirty chat, love it myself but not really keen on total strangers talkin to me like that, call me crazy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love being 'ruined'
Its just slang that is all. Shag is a word I find cringey simply because it is not of my generation. Half of 'sex talk' is slang anyway.
I wouldn't say I am a chav or that J is being disrespectful to me.
Maybe we should add to our profile *want to ruin and be ruined* just in case people find out we use language like that later on
I think the point here is that when you say it to a.total stranger with no ideas of their likes and dislikes, it kinda says something about you as a person, I've had guys call me their little sub slut and I've never even talked to them before let alone met them. of course people like dirty chat, love it myself but not really keen on total strangers talkin to me like that, call me crazy!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful?
No you're not.
The likelihood is that those wanting to 'ruin' a woman would have great difficulty doing so anyway.
Seen too much porn and not enough real interaction with real women methinks."
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I think the point here is if it's your thing and mutual that's great but if someone just says it out of the blue it's horrible. We would reject a profile that said that without a second thought but thats the whole point if profiles they let all of us know who is suitable for each other |
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"I think the point here is if it's your thing and mutual that's great but if someone just says it out of the blue it's horrible. We would reject a profile that said that without a second thought but thats the whole point if profiles they let all of us know who is suitable for each other "
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"I think the point here is if it's your thing and mutual that's great but if someone just says it out of the blue it's horrible. We would reject a profile that said that without a second thought but thats the whole point if profiles they let all of us know who is suitable for each other
So we're agreed? Good."
I thought we sort of agreed before.
Mind you I find being called a girl intensely annoying so if someone said they were going to ruin me I'd probably implode |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the point here is if it's your thing and mutual that's great but if someone just says it out of the blue it's horrible. We would reject a profile that said that without a second thought but thats the whole point if profiles they let all of us know who is suitable for each other
So we're agreed? Good.
I thought we sort of agreed before.
Mind you I find being called a girl intensely annoying so if someone said they were going to ruin me I'd probably implode "
We're dancing a dance of agreement/disagreement! It's a bit like a love/hate relationship without any love or hate!....although I do love your photos |
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"I think the point here is if it's your thing and mutual that's great but if someone just says it out of the blue it's horrible. We would reject a profile that said that without a second thought but thats the whole point if profiles they let all of us know who is suitable for each other
So we're agreed? Good.
I thought we sort of agreed before.
Mind you I find being called a girl intensely annoying so if someone said they were going to ruin me I'd probably implode
We're dancing a dance of agreement/disagreement! It's a bit like a love/hate relationship without any love or hate!....although I do love your photos"
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
They'll generally be the kinds of guys incapable of doing anything of the sort! |
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful?
They'll generally be the kinds of guys incapable of doing anything of the sort! "
He's talking about women who are looking for this, though.
You are right, but that's not the question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love being 'ruined'
Its just slang that is all. Shag is a word I find cringey simply because it is not of my generation. Half of 'sex talk' is slang anyway.
I wouldn't say I am a chav or that J is being disrespectful to me.
Maybe we should add to our profile *want to ruin and be ruined* just in case people find out we use language like that later on
I think the point here is that when you say it to a.total stranger with no ideas of their likes and dislikes, it kinda says something about you as a person, I've had guys call me their little sub slut and I've never even talked to them before let alone met them. of course people like dirty chat, love it myself but not really keen on total strangers talkin to me like that, call me crazy!
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Very valid point!. I think I would also be put off in that case too. I was thinking more between us than a stranger.
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"I'm seeing an increasing number of profiles and meet ads looking for someone to ruin a woman, wreck her pussy, ruin her arse etc. Am I the only person who finds that kind of language rather distasteful? "
As a guy I find that sort of language to a woman disrespectful and shows the kind of Man who writes that has no respect for a woman or just has no sense in my opinion. I agree with you OP that language is distasteful and just wrong  |
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