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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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in our case its always me...
if i left it up to him god knows where we would end up...
i always consider what we both would like, whereas he would just look at what he likes...
sometimes it can be annoying, wish he would suprise me...
who feels same as me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (sarah) arrange the meets and always do the messaging. We browse together and always discuss first before arranging anything. i enjoy the forums and chat rooms in here too, which matthew rarely bothers with so it works out quite well in that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On our couples profile I do all the talking although we look at profiles together and the decision whether to contact is always mutual.
I always keep the email chain and Hubby logs in to catch up on what's been said and if we get to the point of arranging a meet then we talk about it as I'm chatting with them. |
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By *andL1970Couple
over a year ago
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I (male) do all the work on here, she hates online chats and isn't into forums, etc. (plus I type faster!).. But we always look together before emailing anyone so that we're both happy with them before we go further.
I, like the original poster, sometimes wish she would surprise me by arranging something. Sometimes I wonder if I'm pushing her into it - I'm not, but being the one at the keyboard all the time does make me wonder and makes me more cautious I think... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sasha doesn't use fab unless I show her a couple that I think she would like to meet up with for her decision, we make a mutual choice on who we meet, if either one of us says no then it is no for both of us, no regrets, there are enough people on here who we are both happy to meet.
Generally speaking it is me that declines meets first because most of the people who contact us already state in thier profile that they don't want to meet people my age and we always respect that.
When we do concur on meeting someone I arrange it as Sasha's written english is not that good, unless of course we are meeting Russians then she types lol |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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I ( Jane ) do all the "work" finding, vetting, chatting and arranging. This is because I am the one who mostly does the meeting. Tarzan joins in when he has time, and with guys who I have found to be our types by meeting them first. Saying that, we have gone to first-time meets together, and they worked out well too.
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Jane x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to sort out meets together. We talk long and hard about what we are looking for and depending on what we are looking for it will depend who contacts people.
We always do this as a joint venture and it is part of the build up for us.
He often surprises me by adding things into playtime that I wasnt expecting though. :D
Katie. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When playing together with my F/B we both have our say who we want to meet and who is going to organise it. When playing on our own we take responsibility for arranging our meets ourselves. Must admit I fancy the other half to sort out a meet without me knowing !! only because I trust him 110% and he knows what I like! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both come on here and look through the adverts, though I (the fem) am the one who contacts people.
Also, when we are contacted by others, it tends to be me who makes the final choice of how we reply.
I would not say i am more fussy than him, it is more the case that i can pick people who he will like easier than he can pick people i will like. |
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