Don't just talk before you set up your profile and and arrange a meet - talk afterwards too, openly about what you liked, what you didn't like and what you would have liked - being open with each other is important as well as being clear on what your respective boundaries are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As almost everyone has said already, we talk about everything. That after all is a ground rule for any couple in a relationship and not just with swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't just talk before you set up your profile and and arrange a meet - talk afterwards too, openly about what you liked, what you didn't like and what you would have liked - being open with each other is important as well as being clear on what your respective boundaries are."

Exactly this...and don't either of you change your boundaries halfway through a meet...discuss it afterwards and move them when you're calm and not aroused...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its all about chatting - getting along and having a laugh - if we are compatible off we go and play hopefully - any no-nos are discussed of course

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