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Holy Moly .. wasn't expecting that !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else thought ...bugger it... nothing ventured ..nothing gained... and messaged someone on here that you thought would never message back as you though they were well out of your league?  "
Every time I send a message. And funnily enough they never message back  |
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"Anyone else thought ...bugger it... nothing ventured ..nothing gained... and messaged someone on here that you thought would never message back as you though they were well out of your league?
Every time I send a message. And funnily enough they never message back "
We don't believe in this league stuff but some people do reply to messages   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plan for the worst hope for the best x
Expect to get lots of messages from this thread then. I might try and hope for the best"
God loves a tryer persistence pays off! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day.
well that's made all the people you contact feel very special  "
Did you get my message by the way?
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"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day."
Guaranteed to makes those verifying you feel really great!..unless of course you played them in the FA cup..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The flipside being recieving messages you never thought you would.
There's a lady who comes up on my local updates, stunning! Never messaged as I was thinking she was a wee bit classy for me...she messaged me so it does kinda work both ways |
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"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day.
well that's made all the people you contact feel very special
Did you get my message by the way?
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yep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only operate in the lower leagues now. Fed up chasing the Chelseas and Man Citys. Give me Accrington Stanley any old day."
"Accrington Stanley!...Who are they" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always try to respond but find messages like "hi, how r u?" Just too banal to waste time on."
Don't you just hate it when someone messages you and is polite lol. |
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You will find that most people you think are 'out of your league' simply aren't, they are normal down to earth people. The downside for them is a lot of people won't contact them because of fear of rejection.
I never consider anyone to be out of my league unless I don't fit their criteria in someway. For everyone else where I do fit the criteria, if I like the look of them and they are not 100s of miles away, I will always message.
Been here long enough not to always expect an answer, but some do |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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My very first meet on here happened that way when I just thought 'sod it' and messaged someone I thought was way hotter than me. Turns out he'd been trying to get my attention for ages but couldn't message me first due to filters. Bit of an eye opener for me so I now have a nothing ventured, nothing gained approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My very first meet on here happened that way when I just thought 'sod it' and messaged someone I thought was way hotter than me. Turns out he'd been trying to get my attention for ages but couldn't message me first due to filters. Bit of an eye opener for me so I now have a nothing ventured, nothing gained approach. "
Funny enough....I was holding out sending you a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we are all victim of this and feeling someone is unobtainable and I have been lucky enough to meet people I thought I had no chance with but thats the beauty of this place. Happy for you OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely realised its personality that counts and the good thing about the forums is that can shine through "
Very true that why the forums are the best place on fabs for me as you can get a feel for the person before you get to feel of the person |
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We very rarely get messaged back from genuine people unfortunately.