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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was thinking about this the weekend.
Are we normal? Is this an odd thing to enjoy?
Sometimes I think that I shouldn't be enjoying so much and feel guilty about it.
Is this normal to feel this way from time to time?
Or am I over thinking it.
And.
He's enjoying it, she's enjoying it, I'm enjoying it.
Stop worrying and start wanking?
What's other people's opinions on the subject? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anything concerns you it would be a good idea to stop. We enjoy seeing each other with other people purely because it's a turn on for us, it's as simple as that.
A lot of single guys have messaged in the past saying they don't understand me sharing Mo, my reply is simply they don't understand swinging then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sure this was a thread last week!! Yes I love seeing Vera with other guys, tho she likes seeing me with other women!!"
Not that I know of if there was already a thread on this subject then I apologise. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If anything concerns you it would be a good idea to stop. We enjoy seeing each other with other people purely because it's a turn on for us, it's as simple as that.
A lot of single guys have messaged in the past saying they don't understand me sharing Mo, my reply is simply they don't understand swinging then."
Don't want to stop. But was wondering if it's just me or do other's feel guilty from time to time?
It's not all of the time it's just occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anything concerns you it would be a good idea to stop. We enjoy seeing each other with other people purely because it's a turn on for us, it's as simple as that.
A lot of single guys have messaged in the past saying they don't understand me sharing Mo, my reply is simply they don't understand swinging then.
Don't want to stop. But was wondering if it's just me or do other's feel guilty from time to time?
It's not all of the time it's just occasionally. "
Nope. No guilt at all. Entirely the opposite. Good communication, mutual respect and honesty are the key.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I am feeling less guilty by the minute thanks for replying. Lol
I do wonder what vanilla people's response would be is it normal?
Define normal tho?  |
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"Well I am feeling less guilty by the minute thanks for replying. Lol
I do wonder what vanilla people's response would be is it normal?
Define normal tho? "
Even after you have defined "normal" ...are we "normal" on Fab?
Does it matter?
I've met a good many couples where husband likes to watch, so it is quite normal here...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In sex there is no "normal".
We are programmed by society to view certain behaviour as more acceptable than others.
In my opinion, providing all parties agree and are happy, then do what the hell you enjoy.
Sex is to be enjoyed. Be sensible and respect that everyone has the right to their own beliefs and boundaries.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've often been a single guy with couples friends and we sometimes play as a threesome sometimes he watched always enjoys!
But also been here as a couple and that is equally good fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anything concerns you it would be a good idea to stop. We enjoy seeing each other with other people purely because it's a turn on for us, it's as simple as that.
A lot of single guys have messaged in the past saying they don't understand me sharing Mo, my reply is simply they don't understand swinging then."
My opinion, for what its worth is that single guys aren't really Swingers so they couldn't be expected to understand. I suspect that most single guys wouldn't swing if they had partners anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My personal opinion is if you's are having fun and no one is getting hurt then enjoy as life is short and you need to enjoy it as much as possible
And yes other people will find it weird and be judgemental but it your lives not there's
I think there has to be a lot of trust respect and love involved
But that's just my opinion
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to see my wife with another man. It's not for the want of trying either. Have been suggesting for quite a few years now & because I often read that many wives have taken 10+ years to finally have a go, I'm left with hope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a girl off here couple if weeks ago we are now together I love watching her get pleasured as long as all party's agree and enjoy I see nothing wrong xx |
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Gently urge her on while watching blue movies,took me three years before she give in, we don't get to play very often. But when we do its amazing and she is glad as she has discovered she has a bi side that makes it all the more fun,why not show wife this message
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"Gently urge her on while watching blue movies,took me three years before she give in, we don't get to play very often. But when we do its amazing and she is glad as she has discovered she has a bi side that makes it all the more fun,why not show wife this message
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"In sex there is no "normal".
We are programmed by society to view certain behaviour as more acceptable than others.
In my opinion, providing all parties agree and are happy, then do what the hell you enjoy.
Sex is to be enjoyed. Be sensible and respect that everyone has the right to their own beliefs and boundaries.
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Was thinking about this the weekend.
Are we normal? Is this an odd thing to enjoy?
Sometimes I think that I shouldn't be enjoying so much and feel guilty about it.
Is this normal to feel this way from time to time?
Or am I over thinking it.
And.
He's enjoying it, she's enjoying it, I'm enjoying it.
Stop worrying and start wanking?
What's other people's opinions on the subject? "
Perfectly normal to us, you get pleasure from seeing your partner enjoying her/himself.
Surely that means you care how your partner feels.
We get great pleasure seeing each other playing with someone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your not likely to get it when your profile says you got a little Willey that dosent get hard !! Wtf  "
Only telling the truth. When its hard its average size, when it soft its small
hoping its just a phase on the erection trouble |
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I love it.
Sue knows I get off on it and she delights in putting on a special performance. The guy enjoys it, I enjoy it and so does she. Everyone's a winner.
Guilty? No way, too horny to feel any guilt. |
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"I love it.
Sue knows I get off on it and she delights in putting on a special performance. The guy enjoys it, I enjoy it and so does she. Everyone's a winner.
Guilty? No way, too horny to feel any guilt."
I neither understand nor don't understand it. As a single bloke, and happy with that, I don't give it a second thought but just enjoy it when I'm the lucky other.  |
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I have watched and enjoyed seeing my wife with other men over the past few years.
It turns me on because I know how much pleasure she gives to the other guy.
It's just recreational sex as far as we are concerned. Can't say I have thought of stopping
She loves to see me with another woman as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy Ginger being sexually liberated to do as she wants and it turns me on watching. She puts on a show for me and we talk about it a lot. Sometimes I feel guilty about it and maybe sometimes she does but its such a turn on for both of us that we just get on with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know Gav likes to see me enjoy myself, but I like to see Gav enjoy himself as well. There's something sexual about seeing him be dirty with another girl? He feels the same! C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly don't think you should beat yourself about it. It is actually part of the pleasure. That trembling moment when you introduce the new man or maybe it's someone that's been before and you know she will not have any qualms about taking this handsome dude off to your marital bed.
If you didn't get butterflies about it or became hardened then that is probably when it's time to stop.
Until then enjoy. As long as your partner is enjoying it and it's not becoming something she always does just to please you then why worry.
You lucky man.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to see my wife with another man.She gets turned on when we have talked about it while having sex.But after she tells me that I am sick in the head and can't love her if I would like to see her fucked by another man.Just can't win! Hopefully one day she will go out get d*unk get fucked and realise what she is missing!
Would love her to come home with a creampie.  |
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