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over a year ago
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"Awww give the guy a break, fat isn't an offensive word it's the contents that you use it that makes it offensive and he ment no offence"
I hear you....but has he brought pies??? I don't see them....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Awww give the guy a break, fat isn't an offensive word it's the contents that you use it that makes it offensive and he ment no offence"
and the contents he used it was..... Fat girls... Yep some would take offence ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't find it offensive but im just waiting to see how this thread unfolds..."
Like most threads of similar subject matter, a tin hat fest when the slangin matches start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to call them curvy or bbw, love you all x
so all fat girls are beautiful !!
that doesnt make sense ..all skinny girls are beautiful,all trannys are beautiful .. everyone's beautiful.
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Even the orchestra is beautiful ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love bbw, curvy or fat girls. Any on here that are extremely naughty "
I think bbw and curvy were enough of a description! Fat is highly offensive to us fuller figured ladies!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to call them curvy or bbw, love you all x"
Are you a liar? Who could possibly love all big women? Surely you find some big women attractive and not others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fat is highly offensive to us fuller figured ladies!!
Why ?
well wouldnt you be offended if people were rude to you!!!!! which is what calling anyone "fat" is generally accepted as rude "
depends how they used the word, if someone i knew genuinely liked me and said ...phrawww I love your fat arse, then no I wouldn't take offence, if someone called me a fat cunt then yes II'd take offence, the word fat isn't offensive in itself, the OP didn't mean it offensive so I don't see why people took offence, personally I think it comes down to women's insecurities if they take offence everytime the word fat is used |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fat is highly offensive to us fuller figured ladies!!
Why ?
well wouldnt you be offended if people were rude to you!!!!! which is what calling anyone "fat" is generally accepted as rude "
I get called it regularly
And no, I am not offended.
It is a descriptive term.
In my case, an accurate one.
I am fat.
If a person wishes to use my body shape against me in anger or spite, their point or argument is usually weak or ill thought out.
The longer the I see the word itself as insulting, those that use it in a negative way have a way of causing hurt.
IMHO those that have an issue with being described as fat are those that have an issue with their own build or body shape.
People stopping calling me fat wouldn't stop me feeling shit about myself if I was that way inclined.
Only I have the power to change that.
By using the word 'fat' the person is only drawing my attention to something I am already aware of.
Nothing else.
If anyone is offended by the word fat, they are in for a tough ride.
So it becomes a matter of acceptance of the self or, if that acceptance can't be achieved, of doing something about changing it.
The more people that do this, the less of an issue being called fat becomes.
It's a matter of mindset not emotion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fat is highly offensive to us fuller figured ladies!!
Why ?
well wouldnt you be offended if people were rude to you!!!!! which is what calling anyone "fat" is generally accepted as rude
depends how they used the word, if someone i knew genuinely liked me and said ...phrawww I love your fat arse, then no I wouldn't take offence, if someone called me a fat cunt then yes II'd take offence, the word fat isn't offensive in itself, the OP didn't mean it offensive so I don't see why people took offence, personally I think it comes down to women's insecurities if they take offence everytime the word fat is used "
Thing is on here no bugger can ever win. I've seen several threads where women are offended by the term bbw too. I'm under no delusions about the fact that I am fat... And yes I can be very naughty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i think calling someone fat is offensive really .
Especiallly as being overweight is much more acceptable on here ! Much more so than in real life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even when someone pays a compliment its get turned on its arse in here by the ever so much offended by everything sensitive people "
But miss Honeypot your in perfect shape ! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Even when someone pays a compliment its get turned on its arse in here by the ever so much offended by everything sensitive people "
guys are called unpleasant names everyday on here, but say the word fat and the gates of hell open.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even when someone pays a compliment its get turned on its arse in here by the ever so much offended by everything sensitive people
guys are called unpleasant names everyday on here, but say the word fat and the gates of hell open...."
Thats a very good point if were being honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fat bird here...do I care what other people call me??do I heck!! You don't like what you see,just move on.....being naughty??now hell yes,with the right person even slightly deviant!! "
Brilliant attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even when someone pays a compliment its get turned on its arse in here by the ever so much offended by everything sensitive people "
True
I've seen many a innocent comment turned into something nasty on here, rather like the OPs post, some people just go out their way to see the bad in everything |
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Can I just say I prefer to be fat/large as opposed to BBW, I am big and a woman but far from beautiful, I have fat on me, I am a larger size than the norm and I am not offended by it, other people maybe offended, that's fair enough but I not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to call them curvy or bbw, love you all x"
I think that 'Perfectly Plump' or 'Fabulously Fat' (at the extreme) are positive descriptive terms too. |
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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago
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"Fat bird here...do I care what other people call me??do I heck!! You don't like what you see,just move on.....being naughty??now hell yes,with the right person even slightly deviant!!
Brilliant attitude "
Thank you!! There's no point in getting worked up is??? I love every chubby inch of my body,especially my bubble butt!! |
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"I prefer to call them curvy or bbw, love you all x
I think that 'Perfectly Plump' or 'Fabulously Fat' (at the extreme) are positive descriptive terms too."
I like Festively Plump as we are moving into that season |
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By *sOz86Woman
over a year ago
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I'm not stick thin, nor am I clinically obese, but I have curves in the right places, and some that aren't. the term fat doesn't bother me, I embrace my curves and love them, as they make me who I am. if you don't like them, then that's up to you. they haven't stopped me from having fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is being 'fat' recognized as a derogatory term, when having a 'fat' wallet / bank account, describing a chicken etc. is desired?
Give me 'Plump Pussy' anyday! |
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I don't much care for the term BBW as it is essentially a label. However, as labels go, it is fairly accurate in my case. I am big. I don't have a face like the back end of a horse. And I am a woman. My most unattractive feature would be feeling crappy about myself were I big boned or stick thin, fat or fit, large or little. And so I don't feel crappy about myself; or can at least talk myself out of the occasional image slump. Confidence is key! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love bbw, curvy or fat girls. Any on here that are extremely naughty I think bbw and curvy were enough of a description! Fat is highly offensive to us fuller figured ladies!! "
Calm down! I didn't think there was any need to add the word fat that's all! My opinion! I don't like it! And thats not me trying to hide the fact that yes I am carrying extra weight, i could do with loosing a few pounds but fat to me is a rude way to describe someones body!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I watched my fat arse wobble in a mirror last night as I was being hammered from behind. Certainly made me think how the fuck can that be a turn on for some men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read a rather horrid poem the other day, which said that any woman over a size 12 was a truck. Now that's just asking to get run over!"
Then buy me a baseball cap and call me a redneck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My post was actually meant as a compliment and I meant fat in the nicest way. My point was that that is what I find attractive. "
Haven't you heard the follwing words have been deemed highly offensive
Fat
Cat
Bat
Hat
The list is growing daily! |
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"Fat is highly offensive to us fuller figured ladies!!
Why ?
well wouldnt you be offended if people were rude to you!!!!! which is what calling anyone "fat" is generally accepted as rude
I get called it regularly
And no, I am not offended.
It is a descriptive term.
In my case, an accurate one.
I am fat.
If a person wishes to use my body shape against me in anger or spite, their point or argument is usually weak or ill thought out.
The longer the I see the word itself as insulting, those that use it in a negative way have a way of causing hurt.
IMHO those that have an issue with being described as fat are those that have an issue with their own build or body shape.
People stopping calling me fat wouldn't stop me feeling shit about myself if I was that way inclined.
Only I have the power to change that.
By using the word 'fat' the person is only drawing my attention to something I am already aware of.
Nothing else.
If anyone is offended by the word fat, they are in for a tough ride.
So it becomes a matter of acceptance of the self or, if that acceptance can't be achieved, of doing something about changing it.
The more people that do this, the less of an issue being called fat becomes.
It's a matter of mindset not emotion.
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Absolutely this!
Descriptive words: fat,skinny etc are not offensive, the context they are used in is but, as so eloquently put above, it all comes down to your own self esteem/self _iew .
If you are truly happy in the skin you're in, what anyone else thinks or says won't matter and will hold no power anyway |
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"Awww give the guy a break, fat isn't an offensive word it's the contents that you use it that makes it offensive and he ment no offenceand the contents he used it was..... Fat girls... Yep some would take offence ... "
Not me ... I'm fat and I'm a girl. Pretty much describes me; fat girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fat is highly offensive to us fuller figured ladies!!
Why ?
well wouldnt you be offended if people were rude to you!!!!! which is what calling anyone "fat" is generally accepted as rude
I get called it regularly
And no, I am not offended.
It is a descriptive term.
In my case, an accurate one.
I am fat.
If a person wishes to use my body shape against me in anger or spite, their point or argument is usually weak or ill thought out.
The longer the I see the word itself as insulting, those that use it in a negative way have a way of causing hurt.
IMHO those that have an issue with being described as fat are those that have an issue with their own build or body shape.
People stopping calling me fat wouldn't stop me feeling shit about myself if I was that way inclined.
Only I have the power to change that.
By using the word 'fat' the person is only drawing my attention to something I am already aware of.
Nothing else.
If anyone is offended by the word fat, they are in for a tough ride.
So it becomes a matter of acceptance of the self or, if that acceptance can't be achieved, of doing something about changing it.
The more people that do this, the less of an issue being called fat becomes.
It's a matter of mindset not emotion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love curvy sexy women yum yum yum yummmmmmmmm not just because I'm ample lmao I've been with skinny girls to average girls to Bbw to curvy u name I just love curvy women mmmm  |
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"Well i think calling someone fat is offensive really .
Especiallly as being overweight is much more acceptable on here ! Much more so than in real life.
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This isn't real ?
Why didn't some fucker tell me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a word. I'm fat. I'm overweight. I'm curvy. I'm a BBW. I'm thick. Whatever, it doesn't matter. But I meet some very fit sexy men who enjoy me and enjoy my company. That's fine by me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just a word. I'm fat. I'm overweight. I'm curvy. I'm a BBW. I'm thick. Whatever, it doesn't matter. But I meet some very fit sexy men who enjoy me and enjoy my company. That's fine by me. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
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If you use the BMI to say who's fat and who's not there may be a few ppl who think they have the body beautiful ( muscles !) find out by using BMI they are actually overweight ? Or fat!!!
Top class rugby players will nearly all be !!
Fat is just being nasty ! Everyone knows what they are but why use a hurtful term ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
If you use the BMI to say who's fat and who's not there may be a few ppl who think they have the body beautiful ( muscles !) find out by using BMI they are actually overweight ? Or fat!!!
Top class rugby players will nearly all be !!
Fat is just being nasty ! Everyone knows what they are but why use a hurtful term ?"
Because some of us are actually fat... And I don't need any bmi calculations or even a set of scales to be able to see that, in fact I'd be lucky to see scales!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
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Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings  truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT."
You could use cuddly or ample or even beefy build lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT."
Chunky, cuddly, teddy bear, big lad, beefy and the two that really get some wide interpretations 'stocky' and 'rugby build' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT."
Thing is if, as a woman, you put in your profile that you're fat, all the white knights rush to tell you that you aren't so I use bbw as it keeps them at bay... I can't stand the messages where they think that if they try to boost my confidence then I'll owe them a shag! Think many bigger women are the same... They aren't under any illusions about their size just being realistic doesn't seem to be as popular as some might think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT.
Chunky, cuddly, teddy bear, big lad, beefy and the two that really get some wide interpretations 'stocky' and 'rugby build' "
Teddy bear??
Hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT.
Chunky, cuddly, teddy bear, big lad, beefy and the two that really get some wide interpretations 'stocky' and 'rugby build'
Teddy bear??
Hahahaha"
Yeh that's how my ex used to describe me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT.
Chunky, cuddly, teddy bear, big lad, beefy and the two that really get some wide interpretations 'stocky' and 'rugby build'
Teddy bear??
Hahahaha
Yeh that's how my ex used to describe me lol "
Hey it gets worse
My ex mrs rang up work and asked if she could speak to her 'fluffy bundle'
I never lived that one down |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT.
Chunky, cuddly, teddy bear, big lad, beefy and the two that really get some wide interpretations 'stocky' and 'rugby build'
Teddy bear??
Hahahaha
Yeh that's how my ex used to describe me lol
Hey it gets worse
My ex mrs rang up work and asked if she could speak to her 'fluffy bundle'
I never lived that one down "
Big girl u are beautiful x x embrace those curves x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bbw (fat) threads, what's wrong with me threads, racism threads and time waster threads!!!! We need more of these, the 100's we get a week aren't enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw (fat) threads, what's wrong with me threads, racism threads and time waster threads!!!! We need more of these, the 100's we get a week aren't enough "
I think we need some more whingey threads about not getting any meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bbw (fat) threads, what's wrong with me threads, racism threads and time waster threads!!!! We need more of these, the 100's we get a week aren't enough "
And we need more people to look at clearly titled threads,decide they don't like them yet still go in and leave sarcastic comments about repeat threads instead of going and creating their own unique and never before seen threads
Yes I'm being sarcastic, yes I've done it myself..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bbw (fat) threads, what's wrong with me threads, racism threads and time waster threads!!!! We need more of these, the 100's we get a week aren't enough
And we need more people to look at clearly titled threads,decide they don't like them yet still go in and leave sarcastic comments about repeat threads instead of going and creating their own unique and never before seen threads
Yes I'm being sarcastic, yes I've done it myself....."
Ahhh sarcasm , well I mean come on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as a 'fat bird' myself I must admit I'm pleasantly surprised about the amount of ladies of all sizes this site has. Especially since they're all beautiful "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT.
Chunky, cuddly, teddy bear, big lad, beefy and the two that really get some wide interpretations 'stocky' and 'rugby build' "
Rugby build now there is a poor description to use at any time anyone watch the England game not one player is the same fucking shape all international sportsmen though so RUGBY BUILD dumbest description to use and not expect us CHUNKY forwards not to reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well Wendy is a tall fat woman...
Are we happy? Yes..do we have a great sex life? Ohhh yes...
Fat, thin, curvy, shapely, bbw....who cares..
If people are attracted to one another then who cares what 'label' is used!
I, Wendy am more than happy being called fat, why? Because if I said I was slim id be bloody lying |
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT."
I describe myself as curvy and most people wouldn't say I was fat. Size 14. Just have huge natural breasts.
I think people who are arrogant and impolite may however, agree with you.
I'm no carpet muncher but the ladies of a larger figure are definitely more aesthetically appealing than fake titted arrogant porn star wannabes lol in my very humble opinion of course |
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"I really don't understand why people get hung up on the word fat no matter how you dress it up if your overweight your fat
Totally this, you can dress it up however you like, BBW, Fabulous, Curvy, it means one thing FAT, all those words are made up so as not to hurt the ladies feelings truth is your over weight and if you take offence to that then opps! Notice there's no nice way of saying a mans FAT.
I describe myself as curvy and most people wouldn't say I was fat. Size 14. Just have huge natural breasts.
I think people who are arrogant and impolite may however, agree with you.
I'm no carpet muncher but the ladies of a larger figure are definitely more aesthetically appealing than fake titted arrogant porn star wannabes lol in my very humble opinion of course "
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