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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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do many people on here contact people who havent got photos on here or do they think they should be on here yes the site is free but surely people realise they should have photos on here to stand a better chance on here what do you think? xxxxxxmark and sheila |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people don't feel the need to put photos on their profile surely that is up to them ?
But to question whether they should be here is a tad over the top don't you think ?
If they don't have photos on their profile, who is it harming ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wont 'contact' people with no photo's, but if they contact us and have photo attached to message then that's different.
We would just feel so bad talking about arranging a meet and then seeing pics and changing our mind, lol, so we would avoid the conversation in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people don't feel the need to put photos on their profile surely that is up to them ?
But to question whether they should be here is a tad over the top don't you think ?
If they don't have photos on their profile, who is it harming ?"
At least try to answer the bloody question.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think it's up to the person who owns the site who they do and don't allow on here and it's up to the individual as to whether they do or dont post pictures.
i dont as i have young children and there are a lot of people local to me on this site and it's not implausible that people can be malicious and i refuse to have my children go through any kind of hell for this.
not that i ought to explain, but not everyone has the luxury of not having anything they could risk by being on here.
no, it's not illegal, before that comment comes up, but it can make life difficult as people will always judge on matters to which they are ignorant about.
besides, ever thought there are some pics some folk dont want to see? i've been put of meeting some folk because of their profile pics...and i dont mean the head or cock shots either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have no problem with people not wanting to put photos on profiles, that's there choice and decision
but if i was speaking to someone who didn't offer me to see a face pic i wouldn't continue chatting as id think they would be picture collectors or just dream world peeps ( people who have no intention of meeting)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do many people on here contact people who havent got photos on here or do they think they should be on here yes the site is free but surely people realise they should have photos on here to stand a better chance on here what do you think? xxxxxxmark and sheila"
We can fully appreciate why some people don't want to post pictures on the site. Any genuine couple will be willing to send a picture privately, go on msn cam or chat via the phone. Though it is interesting how often you do mention phone contact it never seems to happen. Not all by any means, but quite often. |
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I did not have any photos on my profile when I had my very first meet on here.
There are various reasons why people may not have photos on their profiles, does not mean they are time wasters or fake.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people don't have photos on their profile it's up to them...only they know if it hinders them getting meets or not.
I wouldn't share my photos or continue conversation with someone who wasn't able to send me a face pic as I'm not here to proivide wank material for pic collectors! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People do have their reasons for not posting pics on the site. That's not a problem. We do however expect to see pics before we would consider meeting anybody. After all their needs to be some mutual attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No photos, no meet, full stop!
Peeps do not have to have photos on show in their profiles, as they can hide them from view, and show them to "Friends" or attach to private messages.
Personally, I am unlikely to be interested in profiles that do not have at least one photo on show, and certainly will not become friends just to have the privilage of seeing the pics.
However, I could be interested in gents who attach pics to their initial message to me, even when they do not have pics on show in their profiles.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some people cant post pics because of the job they as long as i can get one privately then not got a problem."
I agree,we met a couple of another site who were police officers they had no pics but they did email us face pics,but when get emails saying sorry got no pics because of friends and family then i think thats a lame excuse,we all have friends and family. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I dont think that they cant put pics because of their job is slightly wrong. I think maybe your talking in relation to a face pic??
There is nothing wrong with having a torso pic on for people to get an idea of the size of a person.
I think if they are gonna hide their face from showing me one in a attatchemtn then they are not gonna get a meet with me at all as when we meet are they expecting to keep a bag over their head because of their job?? No I would get to see their face.
If someone wants tp meet me without showing me a face pic and or going on cam then no thanks.
Also dont want to accept friends invite just to see a face pic,they are normally basically saying that I have 10 pics for example in my friends only gallery and they want to perv them, (wank material) and they may only have 1 pic in their private of them. No thanks, not for me, they can send it in a mail to me.
No pic no chemistry and no meet x |
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I think it's up to the individual if they do or don't want to include pics on their profile, surely. As long as at the same time they accept there is a majority who are suspicious of anyone that doesn't want to show what they look like, for obvious reasons. Body, torso, blurred out.. anything, better than nothing.
You wouldn't sell a house without showing what it looked like would you? Not that you're selling yourself exactly, as that would break the site rules obviously.. OK, bad example... |
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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago
nr stirling |
it doesnt bother me whether people do or dont have pics each to their own, and no they are not harming any1, but personally i would not contact sum1 with out a pic as i dont kno what they look like. if contacted by a couple with no pic we would politely ask that they send us a pic and we could take it from there, we would also send a face pic upon receipt  |
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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago
nr stirling |
thats very true, but there has to be some sort of attraction from a pic, then again we met a couple who looked lovlie in their pics, but when we met they were about 20 stone heavier  altho they were lovlie people. thankfully we meet socially first for a drink and if we want to take things further then we will arrange a further date, if not then at least we'r not embarrased and have to make excuses and leave!!  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people have no photos on thier profile or even just photo's of body parts we are absolutely uninterested, it is thier choice and we fully respect that but it is our choice not to want to chase round adding as friends, going on msn etc to see them.
If they mail us and attach pictures that's fine.
Lastly we need to see pictures of those who want to meet us not just the female or just the male of a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having pics or not is personal choice!
However we ignore profiles without them as we also ignore anyone who messages us without them,this also includes couple profiles with no pics of the guy.
That's our personal choice too! 
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely its peoples individual choice about pics.We wont send pics and we dont ask for pics.W e like to meet then decide.After all nice pics doesnt always mean nice people."
I'm really curious.
We all have our personal preferences to the type of people we like to play with, how do you cope turning up to a meet and you don't find them sexually attractive?
I know pics only give an idea and can give false impressions, as happened to me last week.
Man sent me a photo of himselk, he looked like a younger Robert Redford, yeah I should have known.
Turned up to the meet to be met by a man that looked like a cross between Bruce Forsythe and Albert Steptoe!  |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Surely its peoples individual choice about pics.We wont send pics and we dont ask for pics.W e like to meet then decide.After all nice pics doesnt always mean nice people.
I'm really curious.
We all have our personal preferences to the type of people we like to play with, how do you cope turning up to a meet and you don't find them sexually attractive?
I know pics only give an idea and can give false impressions, as happened to me last week.
Man sent me a photo of himselk, he looked like a younger Robert Redford, yeah I should have known.
Turned up to the meet to be met by a man that looked like a cross between Bruce Forsythe and Albert Steptoe! "
ffs mrs saucys getting damp.what was his user name.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely its peoples individual choice about pics.We wont send pics and we dont ask for pics.W e like to meet then decide.After all nice pics doesnt always mean nice people.
I'm really curious.
We all have our personal preferences to the type of people we like to play with, how do you cope turning up to a meet and you don't find them sexually attractive?
I know pics only give an idea and can give false impressions, as happened to me last week.
Man sent me a photo of himselk, he looked like a younger Robert Redford, yeah I should have known.
Turned up to the meet to be met by a man that looked like a cross between Bruce Forsythe and Albert Steptoe!
ffs mrs saucys getting damp.what was his user name. "
You'd better hold her down as she would gush like Old Faithful at his rotten teeth smile then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some people cant post pics because of the job they as long as i can get one privately then not got a problem."
i have a high up job where i could get blackmailed etc but i just hde my face pics |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I won't have a lot to do with people with no pics up. Mine are up for people to see and I feel that it is very one sided for someone who has no pics, or has them all hidden, to expect a meet.
Afterall, if all my pics were hidden, very few people would want to take a chance on meeting me, as I may be a total minger. How many of us would contact someone with no pics on display? |
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