I suppose ive been part of the scene for about 25 yrs... the days of forum mag and no internet.
But has it improved ?
In my opinion no, its actually become (in the main) tacky & cheap.
Nowadays every tom dick n mary with internet connection is a swinger.
Wheres the sensuality & friebdships gone ?
Only last week i agreed to meet a couple from the site.. He opened the door and straight away informed me "the mrs is ready"...walking in the front room i was greated by "the mrs" laying on sofa,legs open with 10" of dildo singing her a song
It was more like collecting a take-away than meeting new friends/playmates.
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if you look there are still people who want what you describe. I suspect that discretion was also part of old school swinging and something that the people you met are entitled to despite them not behaving how you would wish. |
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over a year ago
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Times change. Change with them or get left behind. I see a lot of profit being made from swinging. The days of house parties, wife swapping and keys in a bowl have been left in the 60s. I personally like the social side and friendships made from the site. I'm not a swinger,I use this site the same as other sites that don't have swing in the title,but I like more than just sex |
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over a year ago
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Is there one size fits all though?
I certainly can't offer any experiences from 20 years ago being a relative newbie but I'm sure there were all sorts on the scene then, and browsing profiles etc. on here today I can see loads of profiles seeking a friendship / connection first.
I'm guessing your meet last week operate differently and that's their prerogative - I'm surprised given your experience and views on how the scene has evolved over the years you didn't make your mutual expectations clear in advance? |
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