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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a 42 year old man, who was diagnised with bilateral testicular cancer. After much thought my surgeons decided there was only one treatment option open for me, Bilateral Orchidectomies, in layman's speach having your balls cut off. How do people feel about playing with a guy with prothestic balls?
I do not mention it on my profile, but mantion it once I've been chatting with people and there seems to be a mutual attraction, most people don't seem to be worried at all, as I can still cum, but some people can change their minds in 10 seconds. They want to fuck you, than as if by magic you're blocked! lol
I'd be interested to hear what poeple have to say about playing with a guy with bionic bollocks? |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
south staffs |
If you have prostheses and the look and feel is similar to the real thing, then why even bother to mention it ? I could understand that honesty would prevail if you were "booked" as a stud to get someone pregnant . . .
Just a thought.
Jane x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The matter is I like to be honest, and feel more comfortable letting people know in advance, because, some people may be turned off by the scaring caused by surgery. And psychologically it feels good to be accepted, as initally I felt I was nolonger a man.
I really don't care about body type, size or gender. Its more important to like and get to know the person under the skin, and see beyond the superficial, and and let the largest and most important sexual organ, the brain take you on a journey of sexual adventure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Top marks for being honest mate, but maybe you're being too honest for your own good.?
If you're a nice guy and are able to perform what does it matter to anyone if you have prosthetics ?
Glad to hear you beat the dereaded 'C' word - and that's the most important thing of all .. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"The matter is I like to be honest, and feel more comfortable letting people know in advance, because, some people may be turned off by the scaring caused by surgery. And psychologically it feels good to be accepted, as initally I felt I was nolonger a man.
I really don't care about body type, size or gender. Its more important to like and get to know the person under the skin, and see beyond the superficial, and and let the largest and most important sexual organ, the brain take you on a journey of sexual adventure.
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Looks like you answered your own question there
If people are bothered by it, then I guess they wouldnt be the people you would want to meet anyways. |
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well done for speaking out about the problem. but then again i should not use the word "problem", i worked in urology for years so understand where you are coming from
As already said it does not affect your performance, and personality is foremost, it you get along with people why should it matter. |
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