Reading some of the recent forum posts my question is ........... Since joining Fab/starting swinging have you made more effort to look after yourself to make yourself more appealing ... Join a gym, Dieting, Grooming ETC ........ we have always been gym goers well before FAB but our grooming routine has definitely changed.... What has if anything changed for you ???   |
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"I trained long before I joined fab and have always taken care of myself and my appearance, so not much has changed for me  "
You really need to look after your clothes better though .... your shirts all ripped in your picture lol  |
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over a year ago
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Yes. Lost weight and attempt to try and dress better, makeup occasionally, and have more of a routine to look after myself. When I get the chance.
Not purely for Fab because obviously there are other benefits like health, but Fab is an incredibly good motivator for me.
But I now keep reading people shouldn't care what you look like but out houses are supposed to be immaculately clean and tidy?
I have small kids and a dog. 
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I felt fine about myself before I started on the forums, I rarely meet now as I kinda think the only men that will meet me are the ones that have been turned down by more attractive people or have (white knight syndrome) I never considers myself to be big but I do now!!!! Haha!! Can't wait until I've got time to train really hard and get all the fat off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I haven't started a gym and have no intention to. I'm me and I guess apart from making much more effort on "swinging" days I am still the same old person who gets home and slobs out in my trackie bottoms, make-up less with messy hair |
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I've changed over the years but not because of fab, I started taking better care of myself after I split from my ex which sort of coensided being on here |
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By *MP3Man
over a year ago
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"I trained long before I joined fab and have always taken care of myself and my appearance, so not much has changed for me
You really need to look after your clothes better though .... your shirts all ripped in your picture lol "
Haha, very true, I do need to take more care |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Been playing rugby since I was a kid so always been in reasonable shape. Started going to the gym long before I joined fab. I have found myself trimming a lot more since I joined though lol |
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"Been playing rugby since I was a kid so always been in reasonable shape. Started going to the gym long before I joined fab. I have found myself trimming a lot more since I joined though lol "
yeah i find the body hair the biggest difference, I'm quite a hairy person if left to its own device's but since fab I'm always shaving and plucking |
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I have been the size I am now since I had children, prior to my first pregnancy I was a size 10/12. An abusive marriage left me with low self esteem. Despite that I always took care of my appearance, being big did not change that.
A few years ago I met and fell in love with an amazing man who loved my size and the person I am, he helped change the skewed perception I had of myself and life has been good. He introduced me to swinging and I love it!!
There will always be people who find me unattractive due to my size but there are plenty who find me desirable. The same would no doubt be true if I was still a 10/12. I am very selective about who I meet, I would not meet any guy who I felt wanted to meet simply because I'm big, I meet the men who show an interest in me personally and take the time to get to know me and what makes me tick.
I have not changed myself or how I look for Fab but Fab has definitely changed me! I am having the time of my life and long may it last!!! |
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I do nothing different now I did before I joined. I feel sexy as fuck when I'm with a man who is obviously enjoying me and my body. I happily strip off in front of them |
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"I have been the size I am now since I had children, prior to my first pregnancy I was a size 10/12. An abusive marriage left me with low self esteem. Despite that I always took care of my appearance, being big did not change that.
A few years ago I met and fell in love with an amazing man who loved my size and the person I am, he helped change the skewed perception I had of myself and life has been good. He introduced me to swinging and I love it!!
There will always be people who find me unattractive due to my size but there are plenty who find me desirable. The same would no doubt be true if I was still a 10/12. I am very selective about who I meet, I would not meet any guy who I felt wanted to meet simply because I'm big, I meet the men who show an interest in me personally and take the time to get to know me and what makes me tick.
I have not changed myself or how I look for Fab but Fab has definitely changed me! I am having the time of my life and long may it last!!! "
 Good on you !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I haven't changed the way I do anything. I always like to make an effort with my appearance. The only difference is that my weight fluctuates due to a medical condition 
I've recently out on quite a bit but will lose that again now that it's settled and I'm feeling better. That's nothing to do with being on Fab though, that's for my own well being |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I felt fine about myself before I started on the forums, I rarely meet now as I kinda think the only men that will meet me are the ones that have been turned down by more attractive people or have (white knight syndrome) I never considers myself to be big but I do now!!!! Haha!! Can't wait until I've got time to train really hard and get all the fat off "
you have a lovely figure. driving on a motorway is no fun as it is straight, but get on a b road with curves and you have much more fun
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By (user no longer on site)
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I definitely do especially in the weeks leading up to a meet !
It kinda made me realise Id stopped making an effort with hubby too, so now he gets to reap the benefits |
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"Reading some of the recent forum posts my question is ........... Since joining Fab/starting swinging have you made more effort to look after yourself to make yourself more appealing ... Join a gym, Dieting, Grooming ETC ........ we have always been gym goers well before FAB but our grooming routine has definitely changed.... What has if anything changed for you ??? "
I would never change take me as you find me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When it comes down to it, this is a scene where people come looking for some sexual fun and satisfaction. There are many elements to what comprises 'sexiness', but looking good plays a big part of that, so personally I consider people who believe in looking after themselves and exercising good hygiene aren't doing anything unusual. |
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"No....
I started making changes and more effort after looking at a family photo and really not liking what I saw. It was nothing to do with swinging or Fabs.
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Nobody believes me, but I don't go to the gym and whilst I do get all my vegetables, my appetite is so high that I eat my fair share of junk food too.
I've made no effort to change the way I look since I joined this site.
I am however going to go to the gym this coming Monday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, I'm not sure if its coincidental but joining fab happened during a seismic change in my life, break up, new job, full time single dad. I lost over a stone in weight and started to feel good about myself. As I start to see myself more as the person I want to be, the more I want to do to achieve it. Fab is all tied up in that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No....
I started making changes and more effort after looking at a family photo and really not liking what I saw. It was nothing to do with swinging or Fabs.
Nobody believes me, but I don't go to the gym and whilst I do get all my vegetables, my appetite is so high that I eat my fair share of junk food too.
I've made no effort to change the way I look since I joined this site.
I am however going to go to the gym this coming Monday."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the same as I was before joining fab I just get to wear sexy undies more"
Same.
If anything I'm more relaxed about the bod I've got! Clubs have shown me guys don't care about wobbly bits as much as I did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not me. I have always been in shape and its a lifestyle for me and I got a 6pack as well as van dam 
Don't believe you "
Well I did start when 18 so not all life lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No....
I started making changes and more effort after looking at a family photo and really not liking what I saw. It was nothing to do with swinging or Fabs.
Nobody believes me, but I don't go to the gym and whilst I do get all my vegetables, my appetite is so high that I eat my fair share of junk food too.
I've made no effort to change the way I look since I joined this site.
I am however going to go to the gym this coming Monday.
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What's with the eye rolling lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No....
I started making changes and more effort after looking at a family photo and really not liking what I saw. It was nothing to do with swinging or Fabs.
Nobody believes me, but I don't go to the gym and whilst I do get all my vegetables, my appetite is so high that I eat my fair share of junk food too.
I've made no effort to change the way I look since I joined this site.
I am however going to go to the gym this coming Monday.
What's with the eye rolling lol"
Dear god..
You're Modest.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No....
I started making changes and more effort after looking at a family photo and really not liking what I saw. It was nothing to do with swinging or Fabs.
Nobody believes me, but I don't go to the gym and whilst I do get all my vegetables, my appetite is so high that I eat my fair share of junk food too.
I've made no effort to change the way I look since I joined this site.
I am however going to go to the gym this coming Monday.
What's with the eye rolling lol
Dear god..
You're Modest.
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It is what it is, and to meet me I'm no boaster, but I#m happy with the way I look for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No....
I started making changes and more effort after looking at a family photo and really not liking what I saw. It was nothing to do with swinging or Fabs.
Nobody believes me, but I don't go to the gym and whilst I do get all my vegetables, my appetite is so high that I eat my fair share of junk food too.
I've made no effort to change the way I look since I joined this site.
I am however going to go to the gym this coming Monday.
What's with the eye rolling lol
Dear god..
You're Modest.
It is what it is, and to meet me I'm no boaster, but I#m happy with the way I look for sure "
'TIS |
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I found since we started swinging 18 months ago, i gained more weight!
I started to feel unsexy in my dresses and undies. Every weekend whilst getting ready to attend a club, id be moaning to my fella how awful i looked and that i didnt feel at all sexy, so i decided it was time to lose the weight I'd piled on.
Over two stone lighter now and feel much better in myself for it. Plus I'm wearing things i would never dare to before..
Fem x |
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