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By *essysteve OP Couple
over a year ago
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We have been swinging for 11 years now and have met some really nice people who we have visited and played with. Unfortunately we have also been invited to houses and flats that are thoroughly untidy and smelly which we cannot abide.
Now before we arrange a meeting we always study photographs and look to the background and steer away from piles of dirty clothes, plates and saucers and general untidiness.
Doe this make us snobs? |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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Tidy backgrounds equal people who look after themselves.... Caring what they earn and where they live makes people snobs but wanting clean people just makes sense... Always look at the background  |
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"Tidy backgrounds equal people who look after themselves.... Caring what they earn and where they live makes people snobs but wanting clean people just makes sense... Always look at the background "
THIS /\   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been swinging for 11 years now and have met some really nice people who we have visited and played with. Unfortunately we have also been invited to houses and flats that are thoroughly untidy and smelly which we cannot abide.
Now before we arrange a meeting we always study photographs and look to the background and steer away from piles of dirty clothes, plates and saucers and general untidiness.
Doe this make us snobs?"
i doesn't make you snobs but surely if your that worried about people's homes the you have to check out their pics it would make more sense for you to accommodate so you know your surroundings are upto your standards |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Tidy backgrounds equal people who look after themselves.... Caring what they earn and where they live makes people snobs but wanting clean people just makes sense... Always look at the background "
Sounds a bit too sterile and antiquated this. What does caring about what you earn - have to do with any kind of physical/mental connection. I am imagining more posturing around and appraising 'orifices' than enjoying good sex.
I am not saying people should be respectable (but it is what floats people boats in truth) but to equate a good meet with hospital corners on the bedding, is a bit lame
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been swinging for 11 years now and have met some really nice people who we have visited and played with. Unfortunately we have also been invited to houses and flats that are thoroughly untidy and smelly which we cannot abide.
Now before we arrange a meeting we always study photographs and look to the background and steer away from piles of dirty clothes, plates and saucers and general untidiness.
Doe this make us snobs?"
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been swinging for 11 years now and have met some really nice people who we have visited and played with. Unfortunately we have also been invited to houses and flats that are thoroughly untidy and smelly which we cannot abide.
Now before we arrange a meeting we always study photographs and look to the background and steer away from piles of dirty clothes, plates and saucers and general untidiness.
Doe this make us snobs?"
No |
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"We have been swinging for 11 years now and have met some really nice people who we have visited and played with. Unfortunately we have also been invited to houses and flats that are thoroughly untidy and smelly which we cannot abide.
Now before we arrange a meeting we always study photographs and look to the background and steer away from piles of dirty clothes, plates and saucers and general untidiness.
Doe this make us snobs?"
Untidiness, unhygienic, or unclean = avoidance..... 100%, you don't have to be wealthy to impress, the poorest of people can still be clean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll ad my vote to the unhygienic = unclean assumption... but I did want to say in defence of untidy people that sometimes life's too fucking short to be a domestic god/goddess. As the coffee mug says 'only boring people have tidy homes'. I should hasten to add that I'm personally one of those freaks that could live in a minimalist house... I can't stand clutter. But it just strikes me that if you went round shooting people who were untidy you'd probably end up killing a lot of pretty groovy people  |
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I do look at the background. Untidy I can cope with, Unclean I cannot!
My house is never spotless. I have a 2yr old niece here a lot of the time and I bake for a living but my house has never gone un cleaned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not a snob. Yes untidy does not always mean dirty but there is untidy and lived in.A really dirty house would freak me out!!
Must say love the things you learn on here! Had never thought of that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was with you until the bit about what you earn. Not everyone has high earning potential.
Where does it say that?
I need specs.
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You don't, it doesn't... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Untidiness on photos don't always equate to messy people,a recent photo shoot we had came about from trying on sexy undies I bought for the girlfriend in Berlin while we were unpacking. But I do understand about smelly houses |
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"I was with you until the bit about what you earn. Not everyone has high earning potential. "
Somebody said that it would be snobbish if what people earn was a criteria. Nobody was saying it was a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good grief! Striped and spotted cushions together!!!
In answer to the OP, though, no.
In answer to the how much you earn thing, well, it's important to some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been swinging for 11 years now and have met some really nice people who we have visited and played with. Unfortunately we have also been invited to houses and flats that are thoroughly untidy and smelly which we cannot abide.
Now before we arrange a meeting we always study photographs and look to the background and steer away from piles of dirty clothes, plates and saucers and general untidiness.
Doe this make us snobs?"
Some of the pictures on here are horrific, real dirty looking places, i just dont get it.
Why would anyone take pics with a filthy background.
No you are not snobby at all, to expect cleanliness is not too much.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a few very untidy / dirty friends and although it does bother me being in their house (and drives my partner mad why I'd even enter) I wouldn't lose good friends just because their house doesn't live up to what I consider acceptable standards. That said I would certainly not meet somebody off here with a dirty house and would walk out if I arrived to discover this. My house is always clean and tidy and acceptable to welcome guests anytime, but if I have arranged for visitors I will spend a minimum of 12 hours scrubbing and cleaning anything and everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good grief! Striped and spotted cushions together!!!
In answer to the OP, though, no.
In answer to the how much you earn thing, well, it's important to some."
It is important to some and this is stupid. However, I read the comment as respect what you earn ie. If you have worked for it regardless if its a £5 cushion from tesco, look after it and keep it clean. I do not think they were referring to salary, but please correct me if I'm wrong! |
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"I have a few very untidy / dirty friends and although it does bother me being in their house (and drives my partner mad why I'd even enter) I wouldn't lose good friends just because their house doesn't live up to what I consider acceptable standards. That said I would certainly not meet somebody off here with a dirty house and would walk out if I arrived to discover this. My house is always clean and tidy and acceptable to welcome guests anytime, but if I have arranged for visitors I will spend a minimum of 12 hours scrubbing and cleaning anything and everything."
12 hours wow you must enjoy cleaning our house is upside down at the moment as we have the builders in feel free to pop round and clean anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a few very untidy / dirty friends and although it does bother me being in their house (and drives my partner mad why I'd even enter) I wouldn't lose good friends just because their house doesn't live up to what I consider acceptable standards. That said I would certainly not meet somebody off here with a dirty house and would walk out if I arrived to discover this. My house is always clean and tidy and acceptable to welcome guests anytime, but if I have arranged for visitors I will spend a minimum of 12 hours scrubbing and cleaning anything and everything.
12 hours wow you must enjoy cleaning our house is upside down at the moment as we have the builders in feel free to pop round and clean anytime "
Luckily I don't have visitors to often lol....I usually only spend an average of an hour a day cleaning, maybe a little longer at weekends depending if I'm hung over lmao |
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"I have a few very untidy / dirty friends and although it does bother me being in their house (and drives my partner mad why I'd even enter) I wouldn't lose good friends just because their house doesn't live up to what I consider acceptable standards. That said I would certainly not meet somebody off here with a dirty house and would walk out if I arrived to discover this. My house is always clean and tidy and acceptable to welcome guests anytime, but if I have arranged for visitors I will spend a minimum of 12 hours scrubbing and cleaning anything and everything.
12 hours wow you must enjoy cleaning our house is upside down at the moment as we have the builders in feel free to pop round and clean anytime
Luckily I don't have visitors to often lol....I usually only spend an average of an hour a day cleaning, maybe a little longer at weekends depending if I'm hung over lmao"
Years ago it was a minimum of 8 hours a day (when my child was a baby and I was a stay at home mum) but now I have a life lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been swinging for 11 years now and have met some really nice people who we have visited and played with. Unfortunately we have also been invited to houses and flats that are thoroughly untidy and smelly which we cannot abide.
Now before we arrange a meeting we always study photographs and look to the background and steer away from piles of dirty clothes, plates and saucers and general untidiness.
Doe this make us snobs?"
no,,i hate untidiness as for smelly avoid,avoid,avoid |
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