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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes the forums over the years have covered many questions and probably this one, but if I am not mistaken not for a while.
So here are a few questions that might help others understand what it's all about.
First for the single guys, not the question but the answer.
Many guys think that the female part of a couple is here because ...
Her partner doesn't do it for her
Her partner isn't interested in sex
Her partner is crap at it
She wants a real man
She wants a better looking man
Your husband won't shag you cos your he doesn't find you attractive anymore but he doesn't mind watching someone else doing his chore
etc etc
So couples - I know why we swing and it's none of the above, here is your chance to put the record swing
COUPLES - WHY DO YOU SWING ?
Next it's for the SINGLE WOMEN
Is it as many guys think because ...
Your a raving nymphomaniac slut
You can't get a regular boyfriend
Your pig ugly and it gives you confidence cos there is always someone willing to shag you when most wouldn't
Why not tell the real reason ?
Single guys, your very much like the single women is it because
Your too ugly to pull a bird
Your wife/girlfriend won't do the things you want her to do
You can't hold down a proper relationship
The women in swinging are easy so why put an effort into pulling a bird for the night
Dating costs more than banging some swinger
Your chance now to show people that there is more to you than that
I hasten to add none of the statements above are my own opinion but I know some people have those opinions and it's while occasionally some of those statements may be true it's time to educate some of those that don't really understand the swinging concept
"replaces the whoopee cushion in a certain persons coffin with a fake doggy poo"
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i presume with couples they like having sex with others together, if they arent into each other, then a breakup or affair would make much more sense.
personaly i dont enjoy clubs, and they nearly always put me in a very negative headspace (depression and self loathing and stuff like that), plus the expense, and that i live out in the sticks makes getting back annoying, Id rather be on dating/swinging sites, I barely get any interest in me tho :\
rather surprisingly, the women ive met so far on adult sites, have on average been nicer than those ive met from normal sites :o |
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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago
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We all ready stated that local swing club onwers invited us to have a look.
But we stilled talked about going, I want to as I had to see what went on. Very disappointed that it was not wall to wall shagging and people tied to crosses. LOl
Sue well, also wanted to see what went on. Plus also makes you feel horny thinking about it as well.
Know we use it as our nights out. Not alwasy play but love the fact we can have a hot tub and drink, kinda like going down to the local pub but with loads of extras and not so boring.
Ian and Sue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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from a single guys point of view, i have never though of a couple swinging for them reasons.
for me i think is a way of exploring your relationship on a much higher level. and think that for any couple to swing they have to have a very high level of trust for each other, so i'd never thing it was done beacuase one things the other is less adiquate in bed.
i love sharing an eveing with a couple. as the chatting, drinking and getting ot know every, and flirting with a persons partner is great. and knowing all involved enjoys it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After 24 years of marriage and never being on my own until the age of 43 (six years ago) I didn't want to get involved with anyone as I had two of my daughters living with me and I had to be there for them.
I didn't want an emotional relationship so joined an adult dating three years ago!
Disaster!! Full of divorced, bitter men or those wanting a girlfriend.
I discovered swinging shortly afterwards and haven't looked back since.
I've been lucky in meeting people with a similar outlook on life. Some of my playmates are good friends and we socialise without ending up in bed.
At the moment this suits me and I'm having fun.
When I'm ready to consider another relationship I'll give up swinging.
Until then...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes the forums over the years have covered many questions and probably this one, but if I am not mistaken not for a while.
So here are a few questions that might help others understand what it's all about.
First for the single guys, not the question but the answer.
Many guys think that the female part of a couple is here because ...
Her partner doesn't do it for her
Her partner isn't interested in sex
Her partner is crap at it
She wants a real man
She wants a better looking man
Your husband won't shag you cos your he doesn't find you attractive anymore but he doesn't mind watching someone else doing his chore
etc etc
So couples - I know why we swing and it's none of the above, here is your chance to put the record swing
COUPLES - WHY DO YOU SWING ?
Next it's for the SINGLE WOMEN
Is it as many guys think because ...
Your a raving nymphomaniac slut
You can't get a regular boyfriend
Your pig ugly and it gives you confidence cos there is always someone willing to shag you when most wouldn't
Why not tell the real reason ?
Single guys, your very much like the single women is it because
Your too ugly to pull a bird
Your wife/girlfriend won't do the things you want her to do
You can't hold down a proper relationship
The women in swinging are easy so why put an effort into pulling a bird for the night
Dating costs more than banging some swinger
Your chance now to show people that there is more to you than that
I hasten to add none of the statements above are my own opinion but I know some people have those opinions and it's while occasionally some of those statements may be true it's time to educate some of those that don't really understand the swinging concept
"replaces the whoopee cushion in a certain persons coffin with a fake doggy poo"
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oiiiii  i dont think so Grrrrrr
* hides coffin * fuck where am a gonna sit now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im here cos im ugly and cant get a regular boyfriend .........  "
Id like to say it was for the same reason but actually, i got told about this site by someone who already swings, registered and havent looked back since then. Gets me out and about, meeting people, getting sex without the relationship and is a fantastic buzz for my lack of self confidence. On the outside world, no-one is interested and at this moment in time, im not sure what i would do if i met someone and wanted a relationship as i like swinging too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With all those reasons to swing we should put an advert intbe paper - everyone must have something like that lurking in their mind atsome stage of their life lol
if you asking why do we want to have sex with different people.
Maybe we should look at nature a little - very few animals mate for life
Maybe we should look at society & advertising - dressing people in clothes that enhance areas of the body. To make people look in a certain way
Maybe we do look back with regrets
Maybe we want to compensate in one area where we lack in another
Maybe we just put ourselves first (god I'm sonselfish lol)
all I know is thanks for whatever reason you have - if you didn't have it I'd be talking to myself |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Is this multiple choice?
If so, can order the "Your too ugly to pull a bird" starter cause my mom told me so, the "You can't hold down a proper relationship" as vanilla every girlfriend I ever had cheated on me and the "Dating costs more than banging some swinger" desert to go as clearly waiting 6-18 months forking in the name of "dating" while waiting to get laid costs more ?
Or maybe am missing the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oh and im pig ugly and it gives me a confidance boost lmao "
Someone's getting a slapped ass next time I see you!!!
I swing because I don't want to get into another relationship - too risky!! But I still enjoy sex so not taking myself off the shelf entirely! |
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