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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've all seen it a guy puts a post up and comes out that he's cheating or something like that and at that moment he's committed fabicide and the whole forum descends on him. A woman posts something similar yet the reaction sometimes the complete opposite.
I think I have an answer for why this happens which probably completely wrong but would like to hear others thoughts first |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Men and women get exactly the same response from me, and its usually the case with other posts. Its only white-knighter men who support women whatever they do and say.
Actually, if the guy is good looking and has a huge wang I might let him off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a newcomer to the forums I would say that the regular posters are pretty even handed about.
If the person is against it for men they tend to hold the same opinion for women. Others are and ambivalent and think that it is a personal issue for the man/woman and their partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't see any difference what ever the sex the person is we do find it amusing though how different some peoples reaction is and even more amusing when the hyenas jump in once someone has started the blood bath. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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nope... i am equal ops on the subject... its not a men or a woman playing away... its a person playing away.....
the only reason it may look that way is that women are smarter as to not really come on here so much with the "oh woe is me" routine.....
but they get the same treatment from me.... i am proud that is the case |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"We've all seen it a guy puts a post up and comes out that he's cheating or something like that and at that moment he's committed fabicide and the whole forum descends on him. A woman posts something similar yet the reaction sometimes the complete opposite.
I think I have an answer for why this happens which probably completely wrong but would like to hear others thoughts first"
I wish I had someone I could cheat on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We don't see any difference what ever the sex the person is we do find it amusing though how different some peoples reaction is and even more amusing when the hyenas jump in once someone has started the blood bath. "
see that's the mob mentality probably in action there.
The reason I asked about this was because of a post the other week where a woman had lost her fb but seemed like she was cheating on her husband. Quite a few people were offering her sympathy but pretty sure if had been a guy things would have been different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't see any difference what ever the sex the person is we do find it amusing though how different some peoples reaction is and even more amusing when the hyenas jump in once someone has started the blood bath.
see that's the mob mentality probably in action there.
The reason I asked about this was because of a post the other week where a woman had lost her fb but seemed like she was cheating on her husband. Quite a few people were offering her sympathy but pretty sure if had been a guy things would have been different."
That was indeed a very interesting thread!!  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"We don't see any difference what ever the sex the person is we do find it amusing though how different some peoples reaction is and even more amusing when the hyenas jump in once someone has started the blood bath.
see that's the mob mentality probably in action there.
The reason I asked about this was because of a post the other week where a woman had lost her fb but seemed like she was cheating on her husband. Quite a few people were offering her sympathy but pretty sure if had been a guy things would have been different."
I think it took a while for people to cotton on that she was indeed attached. I tend not to check profiles of the people who post so can be caught out that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found that married women get the same response as married men - it's just that they don't start 5 threads a day banging on about it, so it seems like they don't. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
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I wish I had someone I could cheat on
I'm not sure that's quite the attitude to win one over "
Nothing else has ever worked, so I thought this might 
OK guys, who wants a wife/gf who will cheat on them? I am very 'cheatable'
Nope, that didn't work either; will rethink stragegy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I had someone I could cheat on
I'm not sure that's quite the attitude to win one over
Nothing else has ever worked, so I thought this might
OK guys, who wants a wife/gf who will cheat on them? I am very 'cheatable'
Nope, that didn't work either; will rethink stragegy "
I've seen posts from single guys wanting to be cuckolded. Sounds like the ideal situation |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
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I wish I had someone I could cheat on
I'm not sure that's quite the attitude to win one over
Nothing else has ever worked, so I thought this might
OK guys, who wants a wife/gf who will cheat on them? I am very 'cheatable'
Nope, that didn't work either; will rethink stragegy
I've seen posts from single guys wanting to be cuckolded. Sounds like the ideal situation "
I'd rather keep gathering dust on the shelf 
but each to their own; xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men and women get exactly the same response from me, and its usually the case with other posts. Its only white-knighter men who support women whatever they do and say.
Actually, if the guy is good looking and has a huge wang I might let him off. "
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So come on OP, what's your theory?
Our theory is that it's caused by the different ways people respond to a cheating partner.
Generally a bloke that is cheated on will blame his partner, a woman will blame whoever he cheated with. That's when you get some bunny boiler banging on the door screaming that you shagged her husband.
Who needs shit like that? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well call it cynical but loads of "single" men of this site compared to "single" women. Reducing the competition while showing yourself to be whiter than white could be a great tactic to enhance their chance of getting a meet yet commenting on a female's post detrimental to their goals.
As said before and considering the responses so far I could be completely wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's often to the way the post is written. From threads I've read read by cheats the men who post are usually trying to justify their actions in some way, as Fabio said play the 'woe is me, my wife doesn't understand me' line and think they'll get understanding, whereas the women tend to be a bit more accepting of responsibility for their own actions. I know that is a very general and sweeping statement and there are exceptions to it but in the main that's what I find and is probably why men get berated that bit more, they often set themselves up for it.
Personally I just try to avoid cheats, and usually cheating related threads, because there's too much drama involved for my liking |
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