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over a year ago
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each to their own is'nt it?
just one question for you tho, all you 'its a big no no' people do you use condoms and dental damms for oral? most STIs can be passed thro oral too and some are only passed thro oral.....just one for you to think about
personally i protect myself to a level i feel fit, tho i would never call anyone for not using comdons, as adults we know the risks and if we want to take them it ur buisness and noones elses  |
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"No. Bloody. Chance. The fact that people do it baffles me."
This issue was debated in depth 5 weeks ago .if you check the very lengthy and detailed debate on this issue you will see it is a statistical decision based on acceptable risk ....If you believe a condom protects you totally your in never never land |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is true, i've had it afew times where condoms have come off or split, and the more you meet, the more you use condoms, the more chance you have of this happening, aways gets me tho how a woman can turn her nose up at shagging a cock wihout a condom but will happily put it in her mouth, if he's got something what does she think her mouth has that will protect her from it that her pussy has'nt? lol |
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By *uvpuppy39 OP Man
over a year ago
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"This is true, i've had it afew times where condoms have come off or split, and the more you meet, the more you use condoms, the more chance you have of this happening, aways gets me tho how a woman can turn her nose up at shagging a cock wihout a condom but will happily put it in her mouth, if he's got something what does she think her mouth has that will protect her from it that her pussy has'nt? lol"
Good point! Let's not forget, riding bareback can be akin to having a nice hot shower with yr clothes on!
I personally hate em they keep slipping off
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"This is true, i've had it afew times where condoms have come off or split, and the more you meet, the more you use condoms, the more chance you have of this happening, aways gets me tho how a woman can turn her nose up at shagging a cock wihout a condom but will happily put it in her mouth, if he's got something what does she think her mouth has that will protect her from it that her pussy has'nt? lol
Good point! Let's not forget, riding bareback can be akin to having a nice hot shower with yr clothes on!
I personally hate em they keep slipping off
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Its personal preference... but if they make condoms in all sizes thats a 'limp' excuse lol...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally hate em they keep slipping off
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i very much doubt anyone likes that or would wear them thro choice, i think people use them becase they feel they need to not becaus they want to.....
P.S try trim they should stay on lol |
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heres a link to a site that tells you about orally passed sti's, though it was quicker than sitting typing it all out lol
reading that actually i don't think theres anything thats 100% safe from being passed thro oral, tho obviously some run a higher risk than others
http://www.brown.edu/Student_Services/Health_Services/Health_Education/sexual_health/sti/oralsex.htm |
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"heres a link to a site that tells you about orally passed sti's, though it was quicker than sitting typing it all out lol
reading that actually i don't think theres anything thats 100% safe from being passed thro oral, tho obviously some run a higher risk than others
http://www.brown.edu/Student_Services/Health_Services/Health_Education/sexual_health/sti/oralsex.htm"
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By (user no longer on site)
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bloody hell making a rigt mess of this lmao men to re post the link cause that on seems to begoing thro to a different part of the site :S
last try if this one dont work i give up lol
http://www.brown.edu/Student_Services/Health_Services/Health_Education/sexual_health/sti/oralsex.htm |
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Again regular check ups are more important than anything
I (craig) have been swinging since i was 17, with and without condoms, touch wood i have been clear every time ive had a check up. we go every three to six months its worth it.
At the end of the day its personal choice, you do what you feel nessasary to protect yourself there is no right and wrong with this |
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"Again regular check ups are more important than anything
I (craig) have been swinging since i was 17, with and without condoms, touch wood i have been clear every time ive had a check up. we go every three to six months its worth it.
At the end of the day its personal choice, you do what you feel nessasary to protect yourself there is no right and wrong with this"
I think you absolutely right. That having been said, I can get a check up as often as I want, but if those i am with aren't keeping themselves safe, what's the point? No, wellies on every time. |
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"As far as I understand, unprotected oral is only really a significant risk when there is blood involved - eg open sores on mouth or on genitals."
But you wouldnt have oral or full sex with anyone who had open sores would you.....
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"As far as I understand, unprotected oral is only really a significant risk when there is blood involved - eg open sores on mouth or on genitals."
Thats only the case for HIV transmission unfortunately. |
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By *uvpuppy39 OP Man
over a year ago
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Yes I agree wellies on, is the sensible option but let's be honest, this scene is not what you would call sensible or mainstream. It's driven mainly by lust and lust is indiscriminate and insatiable. Anyway ladies how do feel when a slab of latex is rubbing up and down yr vulva? |
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"As far as I understand, unprotected oral is only really a significant risk when there is blood involved - eg open sores on mouth or on genitals.But you wouldnt have oral or full sex with anyone who had open sores would you....."
How many have 'just' brushed their teeth maybe??
All sex carries a risk.. Simple fact is there is less with a bag on than without.. still personal choice though. |
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"Yes I agree wellies on, is the sensible option but let's be honest, this scene is not what you would call sensible or mainstream. It's driven mainly by lust and lust is indiscriminate and insatiable. Anyway ladies how do feel when a slab of latex is rubbing up and down yr vulva? "
I doubt it has the same effect on a woman as a man... Iv'e often wondered if a woman can tell myself lol... |
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yeh condoms my split and not be 100% safe...but better to be with than without...safe than sorry and all that.
Re oral can always wear a condom when performing orl too.
We will never be 100 % safe no matter if we wrapped a willy up in 10 condoms.
But defo lessen the chances.....i would rather say....at least I took all the precautions...than say och well then. |
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"Yes I agree wellies on, is the sensible option but let's be honest, this scene is not what you would call sensible or mainstream. It's driven mainly by lust and lust is indiscriminate and insatiable. Anyway ladies how do feel when a slab of latex is rubbing up and down yr vulva? "
It feels good without...at least for me...the skin turns me on and more lubricated...:D...but too risky with people you newly met...:D...so it's a no...no...but wouldn't call it mega...:D
And it's socially unacceptable...:D.. |
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over a year ago
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was at the STD clinic today and had an hours chat with consultant..
( have an alergy not an STD for the record )..
however the female consultant was truly interested when I discussed swinging.
and I quote word for word ....
the biggest issue we find with swingers is 'sphyllis... mostly oral .... and many times passed fem to fem ..
yet dams are the most under used.'
please dont shoot the messenger....
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"Yes I agree wellies on, is the sensible option but let's be honest, this scene is not what you would call sensible or mainstream. It's driven mainly by lust and lust is indiscriminate and insatiable. Anyway ladies how do feel when a slab of latex is rubbing up and down yr vulva? "
WAHOO. Does it for me |
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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago
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I doubt it has the same effect on a woman as a man... Iv'e often wondered if a woman can tell myself lol..."
mmmmmm now that point leads us to an interesting fact we have noticed, apart from the fact that condoms do spoil a lot of the fun for a guy but that's another issue.... which in it's way makes this point even more odd...
Now Isn't it very interesting that while we've seen quite a few couples profiles who do *not* tick 'safe sex' and even some who do not tick it because there is no such thing apart from sticking to one partner you know is clear.... and we've also seen quite a few couple profiles that say 'we only do bareback' or 'we much prefer bareback'....
But come to think of it we've never seen a single male profile that we can remember who says babreback prefered and we ain't seen a single fem profile that does either! Not saying there is no exception to the rule, but is barebacking a couples thing?
We met one couple fairly recently who when asked what they wanted to do with us said 'you're in what we class as the safe group, so why not'
So is it a couple thing? The singles of either sex always seem to insist they play 'safe only'.
From our own experience on here (and what beter to go by) - for first year we ticked 'enjoys safe sex' because we would never claim not to have enjoyed it.
Second year we didn't tick it.
We'd say we have had slightly more meets in the time we didn't tick it than when we did, though on some of those occasions we still played 'safish' as that was what everyone prefered.
So it can't be because you get less meets if you don't tick it, which would be the instant answer we would expect to the puzzle.
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to be honest i think going bareback in this day and age is asking for the death sentence. Love you all, but it only takes one to give it and one to catch it and then ooooooooooooooppppppppppssssssssss GUM CLINIC here everybody comes, |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"to be honest i think going bareback in this day and age is asking for the death sentence. Love you all, but it only takes one to give it and one to catch it and then ooooooooooooooppppppppppssssssssss GUM CLINIC here everybody comes, "
So very true. And it only takes one person out of a circle of barebacker friends to catch something, for the whole group to be infected.
Not everyone can be trusted and nor should you probably trust anyone other than your immediate partner to tell you the whole truth of what they have been up to. After all, in a swinging circle of friends, if one person chooses to play with an 'unknown quantity', is it anyone else's business? |
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Which is the reason Trace stopped doing B/G adult films,even though she always did protected penitration.
Yes you are required to keep your sexual health cert's up to date which would be great if porn stars only had sex with each other.
However,in the real world we know theres every chance that the night after the tests they could go out and have bareback with a complete stranger.
Its just not worth the risk.
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I don't know babes... They have started a campaign on the radio this last week, they say its full annon and its a testing kit for std's....
Love to know how its annon if they send it though pmsl.. I mean they have your address ff's lol.
I think its targetted at the 3 Uni's we have here... mucky little buggers lol. |
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Not sure if this fits in here... but heres a question then.. Its kinda bareback related.
How does this fit in... We know a woman who absolutely loves to (Don't shoot me) Lick other women who have had sex... she loves the mixture shall we say.. (trying to keep this clean here) Pardon the pun... Now to make this happen for her.. we have kept things kinda soft swap and only had full sex between Mrs Notts and I... then she does her little supper thing while he dabs in lol.. All very horny and as we know 1000% they don't play at all with anyone else (we met through business lol)
The thing is.. would we be stupid if we tried full swap 'without' with these.. so far we have declined as such.. never pressured mind but they don't swap with anyone else, we know them well and its just his big fantasy to see her filled lol...
What would you guys honestly think? |
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over a year ago
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I personally would'nt....no matter how much you think you know them.......however if you did decide to go down that route,an immediate trip to the clinic for a full screen would be required lol
How would you feel if for the sake of fulfilling a fantasy you were unluvky enough to be the one in whatever % that ended up with something nasty? and then had to tell the others about it as well? it could change everything between the 4 of you xx
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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago
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Well we haven't looked to 'research' into this but we'd reckon the relative risk of barebacking with this couple, compared to the risk of the oh so intimate behavior you share with them already, would be fairly similar.
Chances are if you have seen them regularly for some time and nothing untoward has happened yet then you are all 'safe' anyway.
In the end though it would have to come down to how you view the relative risks and what you are all comfortable with.
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