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Couples who ask for money

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Am I wrong to put my foot down on a couple whose fem keeps asking for money for their personal affairs or asking for alcohol? Example the lady messaged me saying they wanna meet me i arrange a meet then asks for £60 to get her mot done to me that's taking the piss I mean she's married get it from your husband am I right or wrong!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100% right mate. You should tell them if you wanted an escort you'd look on an escort site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To me, that would ring alarm bells and is definitely not what this site is for!! Proceed with caution

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

good god.

Two words needed for them

1. Feck

2. Off

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Report the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report the couple to the admins.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To me, that would ring alarm bells and is definitely not what this site is for!! Proceed with caution "

Thx I will I won't be meeting them again they seem to have good meets but I don't know how they treat other men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You did the right thing OP, you should also report them to admin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report thats against rules if I remember correctly. I wouldn't put up with that at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Name and shame . Or give me they,re name . It could be fun lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You did the right thing OP, you should also report them to admin. "

Thanks I'll do that as trying to make me feel bad for rearrange there things then asking for money saying oh just this once it's been more than once tho. So thanks guys I will take your advice!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this is a good reason to do messaging via fab and not kik ect, as the messages can be reported and hopefully the bad pennys will be dealt with by admin

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By *ohohoWoman over a year ago

Up North

I have had men offer me money to meet them. I think there is always someone willing to pay.

you were right to say no. But you knew that anyhow didn't you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"this is a good reason to do messaging via fab and not kik ect, as the messages can be reported and hopefully the bad pennys will be dealt with by admin

I agree that's my first bad experience here so far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oops last post was slight wrong so deleted it. In the profile we read yesterday the woman was asking for gifts

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By *cottybhoyMan over a year ago

falkirk

What do you think of the lady who invites you over but says she needs £30 to give to the sister to watch the kids - who you don't know even exist?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

some people got no shame.... Maybe there are others who do pay out for stuff and is why the think its ok? I really find it awfull to be honest... And if others ever suggested such things to us, they would be told about themselves... Straight!

Report em OP and tell em to bog off

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

god bless them

report, block and never think of them again, ever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report the couple, I've been reported when somebody offered me money and I refused,, I guess taking no for an answer wasn't good enough,

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"What do you think of the lady who invites you over but says she needs £30 to give to the sister to watch the kids - who you don't know even exist?"

would tell her to Bog off too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of closet prostitution on here. Spoils the site for the rest of us!! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of closet prostitution on here. Spoils the site for the rest of us!! X"

And not sure why as there are plenty of sites of which it can be done on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol"

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion "

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of closet prostitution on here. Spoils the site for the rest of us!! X

And not sure why as there are plenty of sites of which it can be done on"

We did post a thread the other week about this but it was closed by moderator really think it needs stamping out just our opinion and we don't judge escorts each to their own and yes we understand they may be here for fun

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion "

agree totaly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha"

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol "

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha"

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

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By *ranthamThroatMan over a year ago

Grantham.

"Am I wrong to put my foot down on a couple whose fem keeps asking for money for their personal affairs or asking for alcohol? Example the lady messaged me saying they wanna meet me i arrange a meet then asks for £60 to get her mot done to me that's taking the piss I mean she's married get it from your husband am I right or wrong!? "

You are right, hope you reported them,.

I would never wish nor expect anyone to bring other than himself to the play, prostitution is not acceptable on here, in any guise.

Good luck mister.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha"

Lol could be fun though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some real cheeky fucks on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some real cheeky fucks on here

And some very attractive ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha"

See your nine - and raise you two more kids and a bottle of baileys?? Let's get the party started!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

See your nine - and raise you two more kids and a bottle of baileys?? Let's get the party started!!

xx"

I think we need to rent a place haha

I'll bring jack Daniels but share your baileys,

couple of men to serve the drinks we are in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

Lol could be fun though

We have 2 more now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have had men offer me money to meet them. I think there is always someone willing to pay.

you were right to say no. But you knew that anyhow didn't you? "

I do know that but for her to try make me feel bad saying oh I've arranged this and that to be able to play and it's only just this once if u can give me money but the once will turn out to be again and again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like a con to us!

Report the profile and move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

Lol could be fun though

We have 2 more now

More the merrier lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I disagree with the "they should get money from their husband" part - it's not 1957 - but your main point is totally right, they're taking the piss.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's outrageous! £60 for an MOT!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report them! It breaks the site rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

See your nine - and raise you two more kids and a bottle of baileys?? Let's get the party started!!

I think we need to rent a place haha

I'll bring jack Daniels but share your baileys,

couple of men to serve the drinks we are in

xx"

I'll serve drinks lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's outrageous! £60 for an MOT!"

I know..they're only £50 lol

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By *inkxRabbitWoman over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

It's not on! That said, I've driven hundreds of miles to guys' places over the last months and provided condoms for all meets bar two, I think. I'm no millionaire. I wouldn't mind a chip in for the petrol and condoms occasionally. I feel a bit used. Do other prolific fab ladies feel the same or am I all alone on this one?

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By *ontaskdontgetMan over a year ago

birmingham

My guess is you could get a hot little hooker for less, and if she's a genuine cash for sex girl & not a junky whore, then would be hygienic & clean,

Hope you told her to piss off,,,,,,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

“I think the this woman should stay off the Gold Standard, so that the pound can reach a level that would keep our exports competitive.” However she should pay for her own MOT.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Waaaaaaat ? 60 quid for her MOT ?? Jeez I've heard everything now. Mind to be fair her car must be in decent condition if it only cost 60 quid to get it through

Seriously though if anyone asked me for money I'd tell them to piss off, even if it meant I didn't get a shag. I've never paid for it so far and at the age of 53, I don't intend to start doing so.

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By *ontaskdontgetMan over a year ago

birmingham

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

See your nine - and raise you two more kids and a bottle of baileys?? Let's get the party started!!

I think we need to rent a place haha

I'll bring jack Daniels but share your baileys,

couple of men to serve the drinks we are in

xx"

cough cough,,,,, only a couple of men? That's very unlike you,

and seeing as all the sacks are full at the festive time,,,,,,,,,, well,,,,,,,, you know,

Shit,,,, 11 sproggs? Who's the other team? X

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By *ontaskdontgetMan over a year ago

birmingham

That's outrageous! £60 for an MOT!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

See your nine - and raise you two more kids and a bottle of baileys?? Let's get the party started!!

I think we need to rent a place haha

I'll bring jack Daniels but share your baileys,

couple of men to serve the drinks we are in

cough cough,,,,, only a couple of men? That's very unlike you,

and seeing as all the sacks are full at the festive time,,,,,,,,,, well,,,,,,,, you know,

Shit,,,, 11 sproggs? Who's the other team? X"

Well you know, I'm taking it easy of late

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By *eddonistikMan over a year ago

Manchester

When I host stuff I ask guys to bring a bottle of wine, I'm the one who has to clear up after, put the washer on etc. My other _iew is that if you went to a 'normal' party you'd expect to take a bottle at least. If it's in a hotel, you should contribute towards the cost, but £60 for a MOT, that is taking the pis

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By *ontaskdontgetMan over a year ago

birmingham

"When I host stuff I ask guys to bring a bottle of wine, I'm the one who has to clear up after, put the washer on etc. My other _iew is that if you went to a 'normal' party you'd expect to take a bottle at least. If it's in a hotel, you should contribute towards the cost, but £60 for a MOT, that is taking the pis

I'm guessing it was a dogging meet? So she could get there,

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By *ontaskdontgetMan over a year ago

birmingham

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By *ontaskdontgetMan over a year ago

birmingham

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

See your nine - and raise you two more kids and a bottle of baileys?? Let's get the party started!!

I think we need to rent a place haha

I'll bring jack Daniels but share your baileys,

couple of men to serve the drinks we are in

cough cough,,,,, only a couple of men? That's very unlike you,

and seeing as all the sacks are full at the festive time,,,,,,,,,, well,,,,,,,, you know,

Shit,,,, 11 sproggs? Who's the other team? X

Well you know, I'm taking it easy of late

Oh,',, I know you take it easy,,,,,,

once the floods start,',,,, it just glides in, xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand maybe bringing a bottle but paying for their personal stuff takes the mick. You're right I will her where to go lol

Bringing a bottle is sweet asking for money plain wrong in our opinion

Bringing a bottle for me is ace sorts half my Xmas presents out as I don't drink it

, though most men bring a bottle haha

Coming to yours for Christmas lol

Lol you wouldn't want to come here, bloody six kids, you would be taking the wine and running for the hills haha

Lol we ve three so we re used to it

6 plus 3 plus loads of wine imagine the bedlam haha

See your nine - and raise you two more kids and a bottle of baileys?? Let's get the party started!!

I think we need to rent a place haha

I'll bring jack Daniels but share your baileys,

couple of men to serve the drinks we are in

cough cough,,,,, only a couple of men? That's very unlike you,

and seeing as all the sacks are full at the festive time,,,,,,,,,, well,,,,,,,, you know,

Shit,,,, 11 sproggs? Who's the other team? X

Well you know, I'm taking it easy of late

Oh,',, I know you take it easy,,,,,,

once the floods start,',,,, it just glides in, xxxx"

Pratt

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"Lots of closet prostitution on here. Spoils the site for the rest of us!! X

And not sure why as there are plenty of sites of which it can be done on

I've played with several ladies off here who also escort, not one of them has ever even hinted at getting paid, or being bought gifts etc.

It doesnt matter what someone does for a living, if they are on here genuinely looking for fun then I dont see a problem.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple over a year ago

Manchester Area

Was looking through profiles last week and came across a couples profile in which the husband of the couple stated that single males joining them with the intention of playing with his lovely wife should "bring my wife either a bottle of quality fizz (and not Marks and Sparks lemonade), lingerie or some other suitable gift" ... really?? talk about demanding

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Lots of closet prostitution on here. Spoils the site for the rest of us!! X

And not sure why as there are plenty of sites of which it can be done on

Admin ask mods to give advice of what to do and then shut the thread.

The advice is...report and let Admin check it out.

I will paste on the next post what Admin do with reports.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is re_iewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly re_iew your feedback and take the necessary action. After re_iewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Was looking through profiles last week and came across a couples profile in which the husband of the couple stated that single males joining them with the intention of playing with his lovely wife should "bring my wife either a bottle of quality fizz (and not Marks and Sparks lemonade), lingerie or some other suitable gift" ... really?? talk about demanding"

Talk about taking the piss!

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