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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi peeps,hope your well,now i know im a pain in the arse,but is it me, or is it a bit like old school courting,whare you have to take it upon yourself to make the first move on here,im interested to know??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never make the first move worried about rejection  was a lot easier when i was younger although even then i'd get my makes to do the ....oi my mate fancies you bit  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never make the first move worried about rejection was a lot easier when i was younger although even then i'd get my makes to do the ....oi my mate fancies you bit "
aww bless,i know kelly,but we are in 2014 lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After some hassle and drama on a previous profile I decided to do things differently this time round. I've set a silly age range so no one can message me and I make the first move 
Never thought I'd be brave enough to do this but I've sent a few winks and we've got chatting  A few winks and one message have been ignored but that's to be expected. |
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"Hi peeps,hope your well,now i know im a pain in the arse,but is it me, or is it a bit like old school courting,whare you have to take it upon yourself to make the first move on here,im interested to know?? "
Nobody likes rejection, but the kid at the school disco who got the knockbacks also got some dances too.  the kid sat at the side nursing a cup of Corona orange all night...Well, I can say on good authority that approach didn't get me, I mean them, any dances.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its a bit like,
Good morning lion i do like your mane,
Well thankyou i do try and keep it in good shape.
Do your prowl around here often?
I do yes,but my pray is very hard to find?
Oh really?yes they all seem to hide?
Oh im sorry to here that lion,but your soo cute,i know but that still doesnt help me
aww lion i will be your friend.
Aww thankyou,come and say hi anytime
I will take you up on that lion.
Aww thankyou,chat soon
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always struggle to know how and when to make a move - too soon and you risk a block, too late and there's a risk they think you're not interested .. it's like a minefield here for us guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we like to have fun with each other and watch to see if anyone that we have chatted to either moves close or starts playing nearby, then we are happy to make a move |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore "
but why would anybody reject you??are they bonkers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore but why would anybody reject you??are they bonkers "
More like blind. I bet it was the guide dog that was not very impressed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its a bit like,
Good morning lion i do like your mane,
Well thankyou i do try and keep it in good shape.
Do your prowl around here often?
I do yes,but my pray is very hard to find?
Oh really?yes they all seem to hide?
Oh im sorry to here that lion,but your soo cute,i know but that still doesnt help me
aww lion i will be your friend.
Aww thankyou,come and say hi anytime
I will take you up on that lion.
Aww thankyou,chat soon
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oh and i dont bite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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first time for me with a couple we had been chatting to beforehand - there was a spare playroom and i went and asked - just like that - want to come a play - was all about the mood of the place- on the way home i said - blimey ive never asked outright like that - mind you was a few firsts that night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont make the first move anymore since I rejoined. As I see it if people read my profile like what they see they will message me. Anyway I spend to much time on the forum to browse for meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont make the first move anymore since I rejoined. As I see it if people read my profile like what they see they will message me. Anyway I spend to much time on the forum to browse for meets."
well im going to do exatly the same thing,im getting just that little bit tired now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's quite refreshing when the lady makes the first move.
I love by the rule rejection is not a bad thing, it just educates you and married down who could potentially like you.
If we all feared rejection...no one would make a move.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When messaging I tend to find it's me making the first move....although it was a nice surprise to receive a message the other day. But alas, as much as she stated she liked my profile, she obviously hadn't read it, as she was married |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore but why would anybody reject you??are they bonkers More like blind. I bet it was the guide dog that was not very impressed."
In response to you both, I expect because I am not what they were looking for. I don't always reply to messages but that is because they don't send face pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've made the first move (message) once or twice, just to be ignored or rejected. I don't do it anymore but why would anybody reject you??are they bonkers More like blind. I bet it was the guide dog that was not very impressed.
In response to you both, I expect because I am not what they were looking for. I don't always reply to messages but that is because they don't send face pics "
God knows what they are looking for then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exceptionally flattering when a lady makes the first move on here given the choice of men. But no offence taken how busy it is if I have to do the legwork |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do make the first move, the only time I've not they became unlos very fast. Maybe its the old school gent in me that expects a lady to be courted and wooed |
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