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By *dareYou87 OP Man
over a year ago
Stoke-on-Trent |
Now, I'm a little quiet, a little shy in real life... Yet when it comes to swinging it's totally different!
I get a little awkward if a stranger in the street talks to me, yet I can go to a couple's house that I barely know and have a threesome no problem?
My fuckbuddy is perfectly to go to a house and be gangbanged by four guys and yet when I try to get her to go over and talk to a guy she likes the look of in the pub it's all shyness and oh no I can't...
See plenty of profiles on here where people say they're shy but do things that suggest they're anything but!
I just think it's interesting... Anybody got any insight on this? Any examples of how your swinging self differs from your 'real' self?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now, I'm a little quiet, a little shy in real life... Yet when it comes to swinging it's totally different!
I get a little awkward if a stranger in the street talks to me, yet I can go to a couple's house that I barely know and have a threesome no problem?
My fuckbuddy is perfectly to go to a house and be gangbanged by four guys and yet when I try to get her to go over and talk to a guy she likes the look of in the pub it's all shyness and oh no I can't...
See plenty of profiles on here where people say they're shy but do things that suggest they're anything but!
I just think it's interesting... Anybody got any insight on this? Any examples of how your swinging self differs from your 'real' self? "
Because compared to so many other things in life - sex is easy. There's no pretence or weighing up what should or shouldn't be said for example. It's carnal and a language that needs no words. Loin language
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yes i'm the same I find it tricky approaching woman in a pub or even contacting them on Fab,
for fear of rejection or being accused of pestering i think,
so I tend to just comment or return any chats until I know it's all comfy, then the gloves are off lol and seem to flow well with chat or just arrange to meet up with no problem, ive had a few 3sums and more sums so doesn't seem to be shyness or nerves, the mind is a mysterious thing! |
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Confidence is something you can work on or you can hide behind personas. .... I met this girl she was a bodybuilding contestant, a bodybuilding judge, a gym owner and a door supervisor and a dominatrix..... but she was nervous to meet me I said "how" she said when she dons her leather hat or black n whites etc she's playing a part |
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By *urple72Woman
over a year ago
southport |
I'm shy, quiet and socially awkward in real life situations but feel totally comfortable stripping off in front of strangers and having sex with them. I'd love to go to a swingers club and see how I am in that environment. Being naked seems to boost my confidence whereas being clothed makes me feel restricted and uncomfortable. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I need a bit of a run up to get going, even at a swinger club. Once I get going I'm fine. Very shy in other situations though, which is one of the reasons I've been single for so long.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite laid back and patient, so I never stress myself out in most situations.
I'd say I'm more confident away from swinging in ways, though i don't lack it in swinging situations. I just think everyone is so friendly and open, but in some situations it's harder to read or get things across because of the nature of the beast |
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