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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have blocked "single guys" out of the reason, that we were getting "swamped" with mails, but now are finding, that we have blocked in passed 2 days 4 profiles from guys with couple profiles...is this only us ?
Or are others find this as well? H.  |
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"We have blocked "single guys" out of the reason, that we were getting "swamped" with mails, but now are finding, that we have blocked in passed 2 days 4 profiles from guys with couple profiles...is this only us ?
Or are others find this as well? H. "
I have quite a few like that..."oh I am not part of a couple anymore..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i only block newbies and none verified but have noticed the couples profiles with just a single male on them as well.
if they do message i dont respond i just think its slightly suspicious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have blocked "single guys" out of the reason, that we were getting "swamped" with mails, but now are finding, that we have blocked in passed 2 days 4 profiles from guys with couple profiles...is this only us ?
Or are others find this as well? H.
I have quite a few like that..."oh I am not part of a couple anymore...""
Yep.... Same here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 We have had 5 so called cpls contact us this last week...when it comes to a 'phone chat girl to girl we have had so many excuses wife taken daughter to a film.. mother in law just walked in... wife just gone into bath.. kids home out of the blue!
We could go on..why not just say your a single guy lots of cpls and girls may like an honest guy!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" We have had 5 so called cpls contact us this last week...when it comes to a 'phone chat girl to girl we have had so many excuses wife taken daughter to a film.. mother in law just walked in... wife just gone into bath.. kids home out of the blue!
We could go on..why not just say your a single guy lots of cpls and girls may like an honest guy!!! "
We had a so called couple contact us just before,when i mentioned fem/fem chat on the phone before we went any further didnt hear back lol
Thing is we do meet single guys lots of people do so why do they think they got more chance of a meet if they have a couple profile? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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in the nature of balance.... you have a hell of a lot of single ladies profiles who just happen to come with a "hubby" or "partner" of "fuckbuddy".... so if you are going to have a single man rant let us at least be honest!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"in the nature of balance.... you have a hell of a lot of single ladies profiles who just happen to come with a "hubby" or "partner" of "fuckbuddy".... so if you are going to have a single man rant let us at least be honest!!!"
no it isn't a single guy rant, we know how hard it is for single guys and we do meet them; it is about people "hiding" behind couple profiles.. okay same for single girls..laughs most are men..just don't know, why they do it..when we ask for a phone to phone most just vanish..  H.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had Messages from Single Guys pretending to be a Couple, not the ones who were a Couple but Guys who are trying almost anything to get a meet and have made a Couples Profile.
To be honest I've had Messages from Females as well that were part of a Couple, there are lots of Genuine and suspicious Profiles but I take each one on there own merit and if I'm suspicious I either Block or Report them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had a few messages from men via couples profiles. Always fishing for a meet alone for whatever reason. Oddly it often coincides with having no pictures of him on the profile. Often it is a middle aged guy who has a very young partner. You have to wonder how they think they are going to profit from it. Perhaps they think we will be desparate enough to play along in the hope of playing with his apparently attractive supposed partner at a later date? Think again !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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strange that u mention that, just been to a club and seen same there two guys well over 55 with girls 20-25 .. girls didnt play just watched... hmm gives u food to think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole point here is that we belong to an adult site where we are all looking for fun. Unfortunately there will always be people who can't be honest with themselves let alone their partners or us real people who like to meet. We think the people who have untruthful profiles are just out for their own kicks. And they probably feel if they tell the truth about themselves that nobody will give them the time of day. We have had a few contact us but we usually work out they are not what they say they are within a few mails or so. We have a rant to each other about the dishonesty and then just move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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likes the bit about the rant...we just dont understand why..laughs..we understand that singles look for fun and when "need" we ask single guys but to hide behind couple profiles is wierd as in end they get found out |
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well i am a true single guy and its hard enuff trying to meet couples wen your a single but there is a lot of bullshiters on here got chating to what i thought was a couple on here and asked if we cood have a threesome with him and his wife and he said he wood like to see me on his own to check out my cock he is a single bi guy but got a couples profile whats that all about men who can trust them am i one of the few honest guys on here .trev.xx |
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" We have had 5 so called cpls contact us this last week...when it comes to a 'phone chat girl to girl we have had so many excuses wife taken daughter to a film.. mother in law just walked in... wife just gone into bath.. kids home out of the blue!
We could go on..why not just say your a single guy lots of cpls and girls may like an honest guy!!! "
Phone been cut off?...earthquake?..wife just this very minute been abducted by aliens?..she is deaf and dumb and can only comunicate by hand signals? |
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We've reported profiles where they say "just him/her playing now" and - if you hotlist them before you report - have found admin very quick to investigate and, in most cases, amend their profile to a single (have found almost equally it is fems not just guys)
We find that the problem profiles are the ones that regularly put up "she's on holiday/working nights/etc and he has permission to play alone" 
ps ... not on here but in the early days elsewhere when someone used the "she's just in the bath" excuse we've said 'ok, well go up with the phone (as usually its contact via mobile phone) and hold the phone for her so we can say Hi' ... for some reason they press end call at that point lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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awkward one, this. many couples are in swinging relationships as FBs, so have their profiles set as Couples. then the FB relationship ends, and there are now two singles. have you tried to reset your swinging status to Single on the site. i have, and can't figure out how to do it completely. so i change my profile to reflect my single status, remove all reference to my former FB partner, but can i remove her profile box from the profile... no. So in desperation, i just change my ex's name to "FB Needed". can't get any more honest than that. checkout the Profile and see the result. Michael |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We put this on the wrong thread earlier,duh!
Anyway.........we got messaged by a young "couple" the other day.
"They" were from a long way outside our catchment zone and only had pic's of the guy,obviously taken by himself!
Looked a bit suspect to us! 
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"awkward one, this. many couples are in swinging relationships as FBs, so have their profiles set as Couples. then the FB relationship ends, and there are now two singles. have you tried to reset your swinging status to Single on the site. i have, and can't figure out how to do it completely. so i change my profile to reflect my single status, remove all reference to my former FB partner, but can i remove her profile box from the profile... no. So in desperation, i just change my ex's name to "FB Needed". can't get any more honest than that. checkout the Profile and see the result. Michael"
a message to admin will sort your profile out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in the nature of balance.... you have a hell of a lot of single ladies profiles who just happen to come with a "hubby" or "partner" of "fuckbuddy".... so if you are going to have a single man rant let us at least be honest!!!"
Mine is a single woman profile but do have it that im married and also that hubby is there for the initial meet for my own security, after the first meet i can meet at any time and with anyone i wish to meet with ...... Now get your ass down to me before these handcuffs go rusty lol xxx Lois xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile states I'm married, but am single in the swing world due to my Wifes ill health.
I find it annoying the option to allow the blocking of single guys! that said I can in essence understand why.
I tried to contact a fellow forumite the other day, guess what.... Yes I was blocked!
Is there an option to block 'Single female' profiles ?
Paddy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its very bad actually to contact others as a single male if you have a couples profile. Of course its the same for the women too. Ive never had a single guy contact me from a couples profile yet, im sure ill have that pleasure at some point, but I have had a single woman contact me from a couples profile. Well i think she was married but swings alone, but on the profile it didnt state this, we only found out through the messages sent. Its just suspicious and deceitful. |
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