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Looked but didn't touch.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As site supporters we can see who has viewed us. My question is whether you message people who look but don't wink or message? Or just assume they are not interested?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the single most pointless feature on the site

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

personally, I don't even check it - if they were interested they would contact me.

I search for the people that match my likes, and then go from there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"personally, I don't even check it - if they were interested they would contact me. "

yeah that .

its good for keepin convo, so you dont have to keep all messages in ya inbox and forgetting what you said

weve blocked some people so if we see them looking and we like what we see, we'll send them a wink and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would assume they're not interested

I have messaged people I might like who have looked and looked constantly to say hello

One left the site....I must have scared him off and others have said they were too scared to message me

Im obviously very frightening

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the info everyone. I have been focusing on this feature wrongly. Will start running searches and messaging people that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would assume they're not interested

I have messaged people I might like who have looked and looked constantly to say hello

One left the site....I must have scared him off and others have said they were too scared to message me

Im obviously very frightening

If you spell frightening...... H......o........t!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would assume they're not interested

I have messaged people I might like who have looked and looked constantly to say hello

One left the site....I must have scared him off and others have said they were too scared to message me

Im obviously very frightening

Ah all my constant looking and looking at your profile is done in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its rare i look whos looked and when i do i take it they are not interested would never message them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never look. For all I know they looked at us, thought "urrg no thanks" and clicked off us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone looks at me that is either outside age range or not seen them before I may wink or message you never know where it may lead.

It has lead to a couple of meets so why not keep it.

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