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Do girls ever contact guys? Seems like no one would say yes without first having been asked...
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So why is it that men on here always have to try so hard but women can sit back and wait for the messages and compliments to roll in. I bet if I never contacted anyone my profile would go unnoticed. Shame not as many desperate girls as there are guys in here! |
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over a year ago
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I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first |
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"So why is it that men on here always have to try so hard but women can sit back and wait for the messages and compliments to roll in. I bet if I never contacted anyone my profile would go unnoticed. Shame not as many desperate girls as there are guys in here! "
Interesting use of the word 'desperate' |
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over a year ago
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"So why is it that men on here always have to try so hard but women can sit back and wait for the messages and compliments to roll in. I bet if I never contacted anyone my profile would go unnoticed. Shame not as many desperate girls as there are guys in here!
Interesting use of the word 'desperate'"
Cynic... |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first "
Have to say that around half or more don't reply to my/our first message either. However it doesn't stop me looking and messaging others....  |
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over a year ago
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Im very happy to send the first message to someone I like the look of
While it can be easy to sit and have an inbox of compliments its a bit pointless if those compliments are from people you don't want to meet up with |
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One of the guys I've known the longest on here was due to me messaging him .
Not first or last time I'd message a guy , and have been ignored and turned down when I have. So no different to guys .
The desperation though I'll definitely pass on .Not a trait I'd ever have or ever want in a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had plenty of first messages from ladies. I've even said "thanks but no thanks" to a few.
is that allowed on here  "
Only with platinum membership... |
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over a year ago
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Have to say that around half or more don't reply to my/our first message either. However it doesn't stop me looking and messaging others.... "
i came to the conclusions my standards where to high and the type of guys i liked enough to mail first obviously didn't like me.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first "
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum folks are a tiny proportion of the site. Over the years i'd say i've had about 5 messages from women. Some of those have just been men pretending . Women and couples tend to just wink . Supply and demand I guess |
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies. lol  
Never underestimate persistence "
Persistance but not pushyness |
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies. lol
Never underestimate persistence "
And Rohypnol... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies. lol
Never underestimate persistence
And Rohypnol... "
Shhhh!!  |
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies. lol
Never underestimate persistence
And Rohypnol...
Shhhh!! "
And good quality rope... |
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies. lol
Never underestimate persistence
And Rohypnol...
Shhhh!!
And good quality rope..."
now your speaking my language |
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies. lol
Never underestimate persistence
And Rohypnol...
Shhhh!!
And good quality rope..."
And a good quality blindfold....
Or just a car boot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies contacting guys first!? What sort of witchcraft is this you talk of?!
Maybe we should have a Ladies day once every leap year when this sort of thing is actively encouraged?
Once every 1,461 days would be acceptable, right? |
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over a year ago
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies. lol
Never underestimate persistence
And Rohypnol...
Shhhh!!
And good quality rope...
And a good quality blindfold....
Or just a car boot "
Lol this reminds me of a Valentines day poem my mate sent his missus as a joke!
Roses are red
Violets are blue
Get in the car
I've got a knife |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Im very happy to send the first message to someone I like the look of
While it can be easy to sit and have an inbox of compliments its a bit pointless if those compliments are from people you don't want to meet up with "
to this. |
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"So why is it that men on here always have to try so hard but women can sit back and wait for the messages and compliments to roll in. I bet if I never contacted anyone my profile would go unnoticed. Shame not as many desperate girls as there are guys in here! "
Yes , but if you have no pictures on your profile or any hobbies and interests listed it is unlikely many people will contact you .
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first
Yeah its rare for me, but if I'm visiting somewhere I'll just keep going til some mad man replies. lol
Never underestimate persistence
And Rohypnol...
Shhhh!!
And good quality rope...
now your speaking my language "
My avatar not drop a hint?  |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x"
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?"
Nope. You have them set at friends only. |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
Nope. You have them set at friends only."
So what can you see? Just my profile pic?? |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
Nope. You have them set at friends only."
Avatar is visible .. |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?"
You have a few photos but they are only viewable by people you have added as friends. You have an avatar but for those on phones it's tiny and can't see much at all. X |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
You have a few photos but they are only viewable by people you have added as friends. You have an avatar but for those on phones it's tiny and can't see much at all. X"
What a noob I am! How about now is that better? |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
You have a few photos but they are only viewable by people you have added as friends. You have an avatar but for those on phones it's tiny and can't see much at all. X
What a noob I am! How about now is that better? "
Now we can see your avatar as a public pic. |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
You have a few photos but they are only viewable by people you have added as friends. You have an avatar but for those on phones it's tiny and can't see much at all. X
What a noob I am! How about now is that better?
Now we can see your avatar as a public pic. "
And a couple of other pics too x |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
Thanks for your help.
You have a few photos but they are only viewable by people you have added as friends. You have an avatar but for those on phones it's tiny and can't see much at all. X
What a noob I am! How about now is that better?
Now we can see your avatar as a public pic. "
So is it bigger now? Also is it a bad idea to put very rude pics In public part? I want to keep a nice girl guessing? The mind is a powerful catalyst for hot sex! Currently I have a rude one and not sure how it will go down? Advise pls!X |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
Thanks for your help.
You have a few photos but they are only viewable by people you have added as friends. You have an avatar but for those on phones it's tiny and can't see much at all. X
What a noob I am! How about now is that better?
Now we can see your avatar as a public pic.
So is it bigger now? Also is it a bad idea to put very rude pics In public part? I want to keep a nice girl guessing? The mind is a powerful catalyst for hot sex! Currently I have a rude one and not sure how it will go down? Advise pls!X"
It's entirely your choice. Some like those pics some don't. You'll never please everyone so it's your profile do what you think! How rude are we talking? Send it me if you like lol x |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
Thanks for your help.
You have a few photos but they are only viewable by people you have added as friends. You have an avatar but for those on phones it's tiny and can't see much at all. X
What a noob I am! How about now is that better?
Now we can see your avatar as a public pic.
So is it bigger now? Also is it a bad idea to put very rude pics In public part? I want to keep a nice girl guessing? The mind is a powerful catalyst for hot sex! Currently I have a rude one and not sure how it will go down? Advise pls!X
It's entirely your choice. Some like those pics some don't. You'll never please everyone so it's your profile do what you think! How rude are we talking? Send it me if you like lol x"
Hottie bottle just sent them to you;) could do with some feedback please. Private feedback also very ok with me! X |
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"Also in your case OP I wouldn't send a message to a profile with no visible pics on it at all. Gotta have a little something to catch the eye x
Thanks for the advice but I am confused. Do I not have any pics in my profile? I should do! How many can you see? Do I have my avatar visible ?
Thanks for your help.
You have a few photos but they are only viewable by people you have added as friends. You have an avatar but for those on phones it's tiny and can't see much at all. X
What a noob I am! How about now is that better?
Now we can see your avatar as a public pic.
So is it bigger now? Also is it a bad idea to put very rude pics In public part? I want to keep a nice girl guessing? The mind is a powerful catalyst for hot sex! Currently I have a rude one and not sure how it will go down? Advise pls!X
It's entirely your choice. Some like those pics some don't. You'll never please everyone so it's your profile do what you think! How rude are we talking? Send it me if you like lol x"
Hottie bottie* just sent them to you;) could do with some feedback please. Private feedback also very ok with me! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't sent a message to a guy yet but I'm going to try right now I will report back with my findings!"
I think there's a fault with the system. I never got your message??
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"Im very happy to send the first message to someone I like the look of
While it can be easy to sit and have an inbox of compliments its a bit pointless if those compliments are from people you don't want to meet up with
to this."
This definitely
And I often send a first message or wink very successfully I might add  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"So why is it that men on here always have to try so hard but women can sit back and wait for the messages and compliments to roll in. I bet if I never contacted anyone my profile would go unnoticed. Shame not as many desperate girls as there are guys in here!
Interesting use of the word 'desperate'"
I missed that when I read the original post. Well spotted!
It's not about being desperate OP, for me it's because I know what I'm looking for and like in a man. Better than sifting through lots of messages from those that aren't for me.
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"Honestly nobody online in Wales that I liked that hasn't already sent me a message! I'll try just online men and not bother with location!
so Athena how did the findings go? "
First guy that looked handsome enough was in Glasgow! Sent him a message saying oooh you're handsome shame you're so far away! I enclosed same pictures I sent you but not the fanny one or did I? Don't think I did anyway he replied, I'd move to Wales to play with you, then a second message saying added to his hotlist!
Result although I'd never go for someone that far away! |
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"Honestly nobody online in Wales that I liked that hasn't already sent me a message! I'll try just online men and not bother with location!"
lol same here, no women in London, but plenty in Scotland  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I would but it's slim pickings round these parts
Same here...or it could be that I've already shagged everyone in a 30 mile radius "
That's because there's like one bloke within a 30 mile radius of you
Now I know I've shagged all the single blokes in York. I hang around the 'new men' page to get them fresh. |
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"I would but it's slim pickings round these parts
Same here...or it could be that I've already shagged everyone in a 30 mile radius
That's because there's like one bloke within a 30 mile radius of you
Now I know I've shagged all the single blokes in York. I hang around the 'new men' page to get them fresh. "
Good idea, I will as well look around the new section, we need fresh meat lol. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I would but it's slim pickings round these parts
Same here...or it could be that I've already shagged everyone in a 30 mile radius
That's because there's like one bloke within a 30 mile radius of you
Now I know I've shagged all the single blokes in York. I hang around the 'new men' page to get them fresh. Good idea, I will as well look around the new section, we need fresh meat lol."
I'll get your meat one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few ladies message me first but usually referring to a forum post I've made.
Had quite a few couples message first too.
Men....... Well I think you can guess
I never message first. |
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"I would but it's slim pickings round these parts
Same here...or it could be that I've already shagged everyone in a 30 mile radius
That's because there's like one bloke within a 30 mile radius of you
Now I know I've shagged all the single blokes in York. I hang around the 'new men' page to get them fresh. Good idea, I will as well look around the new section, we need fresh meat lol.
I'll get your meat one day "
Yes and you can test my meat one day to x |
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"Well Jack,if I lived in Oxford and accommodated I would send you a message asking if you fancy an older woman
And if I wasn't too old "
Banana cake you are not too old! You are lovely and The invite is always here! Just let me know.. and I am sure we can chat about it a hotel is always there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My best meet was from a first message I sent so was very pleased with myself. Also message the odd forum poster if I have looked on their profile and it's great I will mail them to say that
(Maybe I am odd!) |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I've messaged first quite a few times, with a range of replies (both fellas and couples)
One fella told me I was aiming too low to meet him, was out of his league and blocked me (nowt so queer as folk lol).
Had a couple tell me I was using fake pics (although I am verified)
and had a few where its lead to chat and a meet or 2 |
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"I've messaged first quite a few times, with a range of replies (both fellas and couples)
One fella told me I was aiming too low to meet him, was out of his league and blocked me (nowt so queer as folk lol).
Had a couple tell me I was using fake pics (although I am verified)
Haha I have had that fake pic bull that's why I retook some today with my fab user name in a piece if paper! I also have verifications and have met real people! I think some people in here are bored as fuck and make trouble!
and had a few where its lead to chat and a meet or 2 "
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"So why is it that men on here always have to try so hard but women can sit back and wait for the messages and compliments to roll in. I bet if I never contacted anyone my profile would go unnoticed. Shame not as many desperate girls as there are guys in here! "
I do but if it's making me appear desperate then maybe I should stop  |
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"So why is it that men on here always have to try so hard but women can sit back and wait for the messages and compliments to roll in. I bet if I never contacted anyone my profile would go unnoticed. Shame not as many desperate girls as there are guys in here!
I do but if it's making me appear desperate then maybe I should stop "
It wont as you don't need to publish all meets you know. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I often message guys and couples probably less often.
Unfortunately for me I struggle to find profiles with visible pics to tempt me and an interesting text about them showing personality. I tend to meet people in clubs lots too and lots of guys don't attend. I don't wink or send friend invites either to show interest. |
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"Honestly nobody online in Wales that I liked that hasn't already sent me a message! I'll try just online men and not bother with location!
so Athena how did the findings go?
First guy that looked handsome enough was in Glasgow! Sent him a message saying oooh you're handsome shame you're so far away! I enclosed same pictures I sent you but not the fanny one or did I? Don't think I did anyway he replied, I'd move to Wales to play with you, then a second message saying added to his hotlist!
Result although I'd never go for someone that far away!"
Athena that was a good read. Thank you for posting this on here it makes excellent research and puts into practice what this forum is all about!
So I have some feed back...
1. I wished I was the guy you found with no prompting why because you are very pretty and it would be a compliment to be contacted by you
2. So this guys reply? Did you think it ruined the initial contact or do you think he still kept you interested?
3. Why are all research analysts not as much as a turn on as you?
4. The pics were great
5. So what is it with welsh guys that aren't ticking the boxes?
6. What can a guy do if he is hoping to meet you?
7. In conclusion you did a great Job and it was interesting to read so big X thank you x |
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Athena that was a good read. Thank you for posting this on here it makes excellent research and puts into practice what this forum is all about!
So I have some feed back...
1. I wished I was the guy you found with no prompting why because you are very pretty and it would be a compliment to be contacted by you
2. So this guys reply? Did you think it ruined the initial contact or do you think he still kept you interested?
3. Why are all research analysts not as much as a turn on as you?
4. The pics were great
5. So what is it with welsh guys that aren't ticking the boxes?
6. What can a guy do if he is hoping to meet you?
7. In conclusion you did a great Job and it was interesting to read so big X thank you x "
That guy lost me as soon as he spelt Wales wrong he spelt if walse plus he made loads of other silly mistakes and used txt tlk.
Wales guys do tick the boxes just at that moment in time the majority of welsh men online that I found attractive had already messaged me!
What can a guy do that's hoping to meet me? He'd have to have a nice big willy cos I like to snuggle up to a willy and roll it over my face and smell it! He'd have to have a handsome face that's all I need to secure a social, I'll meet anyone for a coffee, it's face to face where I make my decision if anythings going to happen! |
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Athena that was a good read. Thank you for posting this on here it makes excellent research and puts into practice what this forum is all about!
So I have some feed back...
1. I wished I was the guy you found with no prompting why because you are very pretty and it would be a compliment to be contacted by you
2. So this guys reply? Did you think it ruined the initial contact or do you think he still kept you interested?
3. Why are all research analysts not as much as a turn on as you?
4. The pics were great
5. So what is it with welsh guys that aren't ticking the boxes?
6. What can a guy do if he is hoping to meet you?
7. In conclusion you did a great Job and it was interesting to read so big X thank you x
That guy lost me as soon as he spelt Wales wrong he spelt if walse plus he made loads of other silly mistakes and used txt tlk.
Wales guys do tick the boxes just at that moment in time the majority of welsh men online that I found attractive had already messaged me!
What can a guy do that's hoping to meet me? He'd have to have a nice big willy cos I like to snuggle up to a willy and roll it over my face and smell it! He'd have to have a handsome face that's all I need to secure a social, I'll meet anyone for a coffee, it's face to face where I make my decision if anythings going to happen! "
Ok so I won't defend the guy but 1. He is from Glasgow so spelling maybe isn't his thing and (only kidding Fabbers)!
2. I have made loads of typos as it's easy to do on your phone.
Hmmmm so.. Hypothetically let's say.. from seeing my most intimate pics (you would have to judge the willy size) how would you say I might fare with this
Criteria... I think I want to try Wales isn't even that far away! This question is of course all part of this social experiment on the forum you see... X |
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"I would but it's slim pickings round these parts
Same here...or it could be that I've already shagged everyone in a 30 mile radius
That's because there's like one bloke within a 30 mile radius of you
Now I know I've shagged all the single blokes in York. I hang around the 'new men' page to get them fresh. "
So that is why York is full of the shallow husks of men... |
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So op. Now you know we do contact guys. How are you feeling about it now.
Personally, I think there are far too many men on here and that is why men don't receive as many messages as us ladies. |
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Interesting thread here..... Till now I have not received any
messages from women first, and have received few responses. (At least one of the women posting in this thread has chosen not to reply to my message lol) A few TV/TS have messaged me first lol and men, so maybe my profile attracts the wrong target group........any feedback, tips etc welcome, ladies.x
When my messages receive no reply I put it down to lack of interest, no offense taken.
Haha the day I receive a message from.a.woman first, I will buy a.bottle of bubbly and take it to a.meet with her !! |
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I have had messages from ladies sometimes I have replied others ive just ignored as all they put is "fancey a fuck" I am not a piece of meat and I know its a swingers site but omg im not on here just for sex..... |
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"I used to mail men first but I can honestly say I never got a reply from any guy I mailed first so I stopped and now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first "
I did/do this now. They say we are rude for deleting and not replying |
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I've had some of my best meets from guys who have contacted me via the forums, ones I'd never normally look at. I reckon that's because you can tell a lot more about somebody's personality by reading their interaction on the forums.
Back to the original question ...
I'd I like the look if somebody I wink first and see what happens but that said I never have to browse. I have been fortunate, I guess, that there are plenty of fabbers in Surrey but I have found that I've shagged most blokes within a ten mile radius! Sigh
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"I do sometimes, mainly to reply privately to something that interested me on the forums. Usually I just respond to those who message me. "
Same here. I do flick though profiles using Browse but sometimes my search filters leave me with one or two guys only. Must be too picky. |
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I dream of a lady messaging me first and unfortunately it's all too rare for one to answer. I put it down to too many ignorant men on the site, unless its my profile any advice greatly welcomed ladies x |
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