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over a year ago
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When is a newbie classed as one no more?? After their first meet? A month on line? A forum guru? Some couples still state they are newbies after a year as they have only had a couple of meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are they? you must mean the men lol."
Nah I've spoken to a few couples who state they are newbies to swinging and say they are not 'harden swingers' even though they may have had the profile over a year.. the men; that's only because they can't get meets.. Not chose not to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were all there once guys!! 
we have to start somewhere lol...it's the getting not to be a newbie thats hard lol  "
 I find the best way to learn is to make mistakes. And lots of newbies do on here (myself included!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Part of the problem is the ratio of men to women, so with so many men on this site women would rather communicate/meet with men who have verifications, so getting the first few is a bloody nightmare... Lol, just my opinion as I am still waiting for my first after a year....pmsl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"are they? you must mean the men lol.
Nah I've spoken to a few couples who state they are newbies to swinging and say they are not 'harden swingers' even though they may have had the profile over a year.. the men; that's only because they can't get meets.. Not chose not to "
Ah yes and good point there as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Part of the problem is the ratio of men to women, so with so many men on this site women would rather communicate/meet with men who have verifications, so getting the first few is a bloody nightmare... Lol, just my opinion as I am still waiting for my first after a year....pmsl!"
Really? So would you still class yourself as a newbie? After how many verified meets would it be wrong to class yourself as a newbie.
Am I still a newbie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Part of the problem is the ratio of men to women, so with so many men on this site women would rather communicate/meet with men who have verifications, so getting the first few is a bloody nightmare... Lol, just my opinion as I am still waiting for my first after a year....pmsl!
Really? So would you still class yourself as a newbie? After how many verified meets would it be wrong to class yourself as a newbie.
Am I still a newbie?"
I would say in terms of meets yes, but in terms of being a member or having my profile verified then no I guess bwtfdik   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I now won't meet new couples after a few bad experiences. Much prefer those time served "
I can see where you're coming from Debs, but makes it very hard to become time served lol |
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"I now won't meet new couples after a few bad experiences. Much prefer those time served
I can see where you're coming from Debs, but makes it very hard to become time served lol "
That's true and I don't have an answer I'm afraid. Clubs and socials I guess would be the best route? |
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"I now won't meet new couples after a few bad experiences. Much prefer those time served
I can see where you're coming from Debs, but makes it very hard to become time served lol
That's true and I don't have an answer I'm afraid. Clubs and socials I guess would be the best route?"
Yes...not easy...but then nothing worthwhile ever is |
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"I now won't meet new couples after a few bad experiences. Much prefer those time served
I can see where you're coming from Debs, but makes it very hard to become time served lol
That's true and I don't have an answer I'm afraid. Clubs and socials I guess would be the best route?
Yes...not easy...but then nothing worthwhile ever is "
Amen to that! lol |
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