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Are u bi but afraid to say
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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whilst we know its cool on here for a lady to say she's bi it seems the opposite for alot of guys .
Whats the stigma ?
Alot dont admit it incase it puts others off or reduces there chances even more. But these straight guys message me asking to meet !
I dont play with single guys so I politely say no .
Im bi and proud and i find meets easy to come by .
Honesty always wins |
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I decided to make clear on my profile that I'm bi-curious. I've sucked and wanked a few guys but only feel really comfortable in MMF or in a group. I get a lot of 'straight' guys watching me wank on cam, so not completely straight. My cock in a juicy pussy and sucking a guy with his wife is the ultimate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I decided to make clear on my profile that I'm bi-curious. I've sucked and wanked a few guys but only feel really comfortable in MMF or in a group. I get a lot of 'straight' guys watching me wank on cam, so not completely straight. My cock in a juicy pussy and sucking a guy with his wife is the ultimate."
Totally agree with what u say !
I only play bi in group or cpl sessions
Luv sucking a cock thats covered in lady juice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We happily have bi guys fuck Emily, two for a mmf if they can both play straight here as we dont wanna see guy on guy. But we will not have liars here. So any straight guy looking fir tv's or men or verified by a guy gets instantly blocked. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Never in a million years would I lie about my sexuality, good god no.
My integrity intact is worth a million times more than slipping someone a length and some spunk.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm straight, but happy to meet couples for straight fun. So ok in the presence of naked guys but no desire for any M on M stuff.
I guess there's a stigma in some people's minds (rightly or wrongly) about being bi.
I always smile when I see ads from gay or bi guys seeking 'straight men' for sex - surely a fruitless search! Anyone who says they're straight yet meet up, aren't!! |
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Yes I play with a couple, he deepthroats me as she licks my balls, I adore it, love how filthy they are and how free.
So I don't feel I need to state I am Bi when certain girls and couples wont meet bi selected men on here.
U find that very strange.
I must admit though I chose het exible on a well known fetish site.
Strange, sad, but true |
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I think we all appreciate that there are a lot of guys who are truly straight. That's not the problem.
It's the guys who post they are straight but then go trawling for bi or gay guys. I think folks on the site would really just like a bit more honesty. |
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I changed mine to 'bi-curious' when I came back a few weeks ago from the desolate wasteland called love (violin solo...)
The reason was just before I hid my account and entered a relationship with a lovely lady, I had tried a little oral with a guy from a couple I was playing with regularly so it just felt more honest to say so.
I don't actually consider myself bi really as I don't fancy men and have no desire to shag them or meet them outside of a couple dynamic. I prefer the term hetexible if you really need a label - people do get obssessed with sexual pidgeon holes on here at times - I sometimes find it ironic given it's basically a site for those who like expressing their sexual freedom, but each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I put up a meet the other week wanting a bi or bi-curious guy. I wanted to use my strap on on them
So surprised at the amount of straight guys that messaged claiming to be bi but they didn't want to put it on there profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I really like watching guy on guy.. So I'm always disappointed when men aren't brave enough to say they are bi
I definitely know a few guys on here who are bi but advertise as straight, I often see them out on bi night xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with you there love. I've been in lots of clubs where women play together all the time but, curiously, it's practically taboo for men to do this unless they go on 'bi-nights'- Therefore i've never seen guys play. I find the double standards quite odd - and most unfair. Guys should be just as free to explore their sexuality without recrimination or judgement on the site/clubs and parties as the women clearly are! Xxx |
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"I'm straight, but happy to meet couples for straight fun. So ok in the presence of naked guys but no desire for any M on M stuff.
I guess there's a stigma in some people's minds (rightly or wrongly) about being bi.
I always smile when I see ads from gay or bi guys seeking 'straight men' for sex - surely a fruitless search! Anyone who says they're straight yet meet up, aren't!!"
I don't necessarlly agree, Most guys love their cock sucked and because I suck a lot of 'str8' fella's,i don't see that it makes them bisexual..Lots of prisoners (str8 allegedly) have sex with other inmates,but again I think this is behaviour rather than identidy..
Many gay men have had sex with women but this doesn't make them bisexual..Lets just allow people to label themselves, I notice labels of some guys changing as the years go by,it is not always fixed..  |
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"I put up a meet the other week wanting a bi or bi-curious guy. I wanted to use my strap on on them
So surprised at the amount of straight guys that messaged claiming to be bi but they didn't want to put it on there profile.
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Did they turn up or were the BSS. ... Amazing body btw  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put up a meet the other week wanting a bi or bi-curious guy. I wanted to use my strap on on them
So surprised at the amount of straight guys that messaged claiming to be bi but they didn't want to put it on there profile.
Did they turn up or were the BSS. ... Amazing body btw "
They did turn up! I loved it! Defo need to fuck a man again!
Ahh and thanks hun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you noticed that in the feedback section of the forum, the current question is "how to block bi-guys" and someone is complaining that there is no way of doing it.
As I have found to my cost, once you admit (as I do) to being bi on here, you face a social death.
Why should being bi face such bigotry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put up a meet the other week wanting a bi or bi-curious guy. I wanted to use my strap on on them
So surprised at the amount of straight guys that messaged claiming to be bi but they didn't want to put it on there profile.
Did they turn up or were the BSS. ... Amazing body btw
They did turn up! I loved it! Defo need to fuck a man again!
Ahh and thanks hun
X"
I'm not bi - but you look so pretty on your bubble bath pic I had to fab it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put up a meet the other week wanting a bi or bi-curious guy. I wanted to use my strap on on them
So surprised at the amount of straight guys that messaged claiming to be bi but they didn't want to put it on there profile.
Did they turn up or were the BSS. ... Amazing body btw
They did turn up! I loved it! Defo need to fuck a man again!
Ahh and thanks hun
X
I'm not bi - but you look so pretty on your bubble bath pic I had to fab it! "
Ahh thanks hun xx |
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"I put up a meet the other week wanting a bi or bi-curious guy. I wanted to use my strap on on them
So surprised at the amount of straight guys that messaged claiming to be bi but they didn't want to put it on there profile.
Did they turn up or were the BSS. ... Amazing body btw
They did turn up! I loved it! Defo need to fuck a man again!
Ahh and thanks hun
X"
I di enjoy that myself if truth be told |
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"I'm with you there love. I've been in lots of clubs where women play together all the time but, curiously, it's practically taboo for men to do this unless they go on 'bi-nights'- Therefore i've never seen guys play. I find the double standards quite odd - and most unfair. Guys should be just as free to explore their sexuality without recrimination or judgement on the site/clubs and parties as the women clearly are! Xxx"
A lot of truth there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bi, open and comfortable with it too. I love playing with guys and girls, I do love being fucked by a guy or a lady with a strapon
I'm happy for you too fuck me naughty_brits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm bi, open and comfortable with it too. I love playing with guys and girls, I do love being fucked by a guy or a lady with a strapon
I'm happy for you too fuck me naughty_brits"
Oh really |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm with you there love. I've been in lots of clubs where women play together all the time but, curiously, it's practically taboo for men to do this unless they go on 'bi-nights'- Therefore i've never seen guys play. I find the double standards quite odd - and most unfair. Guys should be just as free to explore their sexuality without recrimination or judgement on the site/clubs and parties as the women clearly are! Xxx"
I couldn't agree more Paula |
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Not at all. Have said before I wish I was as the smorgasbord of sex would get bigger and the amount of choice would be delightful.
Unfortunately,I shudder to even think about kissing a guy let alone anything else, so I only fishing in one pond.
But it is a beautiful place nonetheless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just cos I like to watch shemale porn, doesn't make me bi lol.
Or the fact you like to dress as a woman. But if you put 2 and 2 together...  "
Yes that's just being a cross dresser you know, into more kinkiness  |
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"Why do you get 4? I'm bi, but never dress as a woman and I never watch she-male porn.
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I didn't get 4 did I?
I obviously wasn't talking to you then.
I was having a joke with shag, who knows that. His 8 min prowess is legendary and no mention of boys either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont understand why taking something up the arse(like a strapon) can be seen as bi...I've had it from a couple of women in the past..it gave me no desire to try a cock.
*also..I made sure it wasnt a cock replica strapon..visually that would do absolutely nothing for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you get 4? I'm bi, but never dress as a woman and I never watch she-male porn.
I didn't get 4 did I?
I obviously wasn't talking to you then.
I was having a joke with shag, who knows that. His 8 min prowess is legendary and no mention of boys either. "
Yes I know you joked as well lol and I agree the 8min thingy is the best |
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"Why do you get 4? I'm bi, but never dress as a woman and I never watch she-male porn.
I didn't get 4 did I?
I obviously wasn't talking to you then.
I was having a joke with shag, who knows that. His 8 min prowess is legendary and no mention of boys either. Yes I know you joked as well lol and I agree the 8min thingy is the best "
Ahh, everyone's favourite avatar is back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G 
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx"
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment |
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment "
Send em me privately then.... Your avatar's smoking..... But I've not got my magnifying glass... I'd like to make you more than chuckle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're amazed by the number of 'straight' men who contact us. As we don't play with straight men, we do point this out & suddenly they message back that they are bi really! Surely on a site like this they can be honest?
As for 'straight' men who want Nancy to use her strap on with them, it's not going to happen unless they suck Todger's cock at the same time! Nothing like a nice spit roast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment
Send em me privately then.... Your avatar's smoking..... But I've not got my magnifying glass... I'd like to make you more than chuckle "
I have un hide my profile, take a look, but I'm not meeting at the moment so no point in messaging, that's why I hid the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment
Send em me privately then.... Your avatar's smoking..... But I've not got my magnifying glass... I'd like to make you more than chuckle
I have un hide my profile, take a look, but I'm not meeting at the moment so no point in messaging, that's why I hid the profile "
Jeez hun! That's not a dildo - that's a beast!! I like a big'un - but i'd run screaming from that one!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment
Send em me privately then.... Your avatar's smoking..... But I've not got my magnifying glass... I'd like to make you more than chuckle
I have un hide my profile, take a look, but I'm not meeting at the moment so no point in messaging, that's why I hid the profile
Jeez hun! That's not a dildo - that's a beast!! I like a big'un - but i'd run screaming from that one!! "
Haha,, yes it is |
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment
Send em me privately then.... Your avatar's smoking..... But I've not got my magnifying glass... I'd like to make you more than chuckle
I have un hide my profile, take a look, but I'm not meeting at the moment so no point in messaging, that's why I hid the profile "
Very enjoyable read though. But that bloody ICBM can sod right off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment
Send em me privately then.... Your avatar's smoking..... But I've not got my magnifying glass... I'd like to make you more than chuckle
I have un hide my profile, take a look, but I'm not meeting at the moment so no point in messaging, that's why I hid the profile
Very enjoyable read though. But that bloody ICBM can sod right off. "
What is icbm? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment
Send em me privately then.... Your avatar's smoking..... But I've not got my magnifying glass... I'd like to make you more than chuckle
I have un hide my profile, take a look, but I'm not meeting at the moment so no point in messaging, that's why I hid the profile
Jeez hun! That's not a dildo - that's a beast!! I like a big'un - but i'd run screaming from that one!!
Haha,, yes it is "
Actually I think we've met! Are you the v cute, petite blonde I was chatting to at Partners a few weeks ago? You had a smaller strap-on then? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm more afraid of the letters B.I.G
Haha
I'm glad someone got it
Any chance of pix?? Xx
They are on my profile, but it's hidden at the moment,, just made me chuckle that comment
Send em me privately then.... Your avatar's smoking..... But I've not got my magnifying glass... I'd like to make you more than chuckle
I have un hide my profile, take a look, but I'm not meeting at the moment so no point in messaging, that's why I hid the profile
Jeez hun! That's not a dildo - that's a beast!! I like a big'un - but i'd run screaming from that one!!
Haha,, yes it is
Actually I think we've met! Are you the v cute, petite blonde I was chatting to at Partners a few weeks ago? You had a smaller strap-on then? xx"
Yes that would be me,, didn't want to scare everybody haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive got bi curious on my profile and was told to change it by a straight guy as most females and couples wont meet bi guys yet he,s got looking for males on his profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive got bi curious on my profile and was told to change it by a straight guy as most females and couples wont meet bi guys yet he,s got looking for males on his profile"
I reckon its best to be honest.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive got bi curious on my profile and was told to change it by a straight guy as most females and couples wont meet bi guys yet he,s got looking for males on his profile
I reckon its best to be honest.
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By *intinzMan
over a year ago
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I'm down as straight in my profile because I have friends on here from normal life (swingers life is not normal cos its free and you can be who you want to be). I know it would sway the way people think of me so I keep it as straight. Plus, I don't like labels. Sometimes I'm straight, some times gay, mostly on a sliding scale from one extreme to the other. I do like watching guys wank but I don't want to see their faces. If anything I'm bi'sex'ual not bi emotional. Don't want a relationship with a guy, just the sexual stuff. Loved my ex girlfriend using her dildo on me and I guess it went from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm down as straight in my profile because I have friends on here from normal life (swingers life is not normal cos its free and you can be who you want to be). I know it would sway the way people think of me so I keep it as straight. Plus, I don't like labels. Sometimes I'm straight, some times gay, mostly on a sliding scale from one extreme to the other. I do like watching guys wank but I don't want to see their faces. If anything I'm bi'sex'ual not bi emotional. Don't want a relationship with a guy, just the sexual stuff. Loved my ex girlfriend using her dildo on me and I guess it went from there. "
Your friends don't read the forums then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put up a meet the other week wanting a bi or bi-curious guy. I wanted to use my strap on on them
So surprised at the amount of straight guys that messaged claiming to be bi but they didn't want to put it on there profile.
Did they turn up or were the BuSS. ... Amazing body btw
They did turn up! I loved it! Defo need to fuck a man again!
Ahh and thanks hun
X"
I bet they did turn up I would love some strapon fun |
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"whilst we know its cool on here for a lady to say she's bi it seems the opposite for alot of guys .
Whats the stigma ?
Alot dont admit it incase it puts others off or reduces there chances even more. But these straight guys message me asking to meet !"
I'd have over 100 published verifications if only half of the 'straight' guys who have played with me had been willing to write them   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd say 99% of men I meet are straight .
I've no issue with it and I'd have a lot of veris if those guys didn't have to keep a secret . However I accept that men have other lives so I'm happy to be their little secret x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say 99% of men I meet are straight .
I've no issue with it and I'd have a lot of veris if those guys didn't have to keep a secret . However I accept that men have other lives so I'm happy to be their little secret x"
As long as you're both having fun hun I really don't think it matters! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say 99% of men I meet are straight .
I've no issue with it and I'd have a lot of veris if those guys didn't have to keep a secret . However I accept that men have other lives so I'm happy to be their little secret x
As long as you're both having fun hun I really don't think it matters! "
Oh there is no doubt were having fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some people need to realise that only because you're bi doesn't mean your sexual hunger spans the entire human race. and the mf couples who only go for straight men are blissfully ignorant to the this fact plus the fact that there are a large number of "straight" men on here. |
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