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Couples - do both or just one of you message ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently a few couples have messaged me and I've started chatting. Then I've realised I sometimes don't know if I'm talking to the male or female half of the couple. Some sign off with a name or their message gives away which half it is. Others though, I have no clue.
Having never had a couples profile, I just wondered do you both message or does one half tend to be the main message sender ? I'm not sure I've explained what I mean - hopefully it makes sense !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is mostly me that messages and posts in forums and I usually sign off with my name to show this. Hubby does message sometimes too though but we try to make it obvious which one of us it is. Both read all mails or discuss what we are messaging too. Hope this helps. Belle. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both tend to do the lot but more often the male, especially in forums as I'm gobby lol!!!! Vera tends to sign of with a kiss, tho not if she doesn't like you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ginger works a lot so tends to be me answering mail. She does have a look and a perv and makes the final decision though on whether we would meet that person(s). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both message and reply and both have the log in so can pop in and out to look around.
What we have a laugh at, is the single guys, who for some reason assume that it will be jasmine that's always on.
So you get the "looking hot babe, love the pics"
Which I reply: cheers mate but I'm not bi!
Really confuses them! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's someone we know or in response to a forum post we tend to sign our names.
If it's replying to a message then we write them as us and give no indication which of us is writing because it's amazing how the conversation can change direction when someone discovers it is crystal and not me. And if we are being apptiached as a couple we reply as one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We both message and reply and both have the log in so can pop in and out to look around.
What we have a laugh at, is the single guys, who for some reason assume that it will be jasmine that's always on.
So you get the "looking hot babe, love the pics"
Which I reply: cheers mate but I'm not bi!
Really confuses them! Lol "
Or when they say where are you? I'll reply (the male) I'm at work why you gonna bring me a brew? They don't get irony at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had another one, he messaged generically and I was thinking he seemed fairly decent.
He then asked if it was jasmine and I said no it was Jason.
So he then sent his mobile number and said to get Jasmine to give him a shout when she was on.
Cheeky twat lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a similar situation with a couple I'm chatting to at the moment. The only difference is that they are not in the same physical location (which I wasn't aware could happen on here) and both "talk" at the same time. Very confusing !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to know who im chatting to most of the time,and the couples i dont realy know are normaly kind enough to let me know who im talking too,but i allways address my chat to both as i matter of respect  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We both message and reply and both have the log in so can pop in and out to look around.
What we have a laugh at, is the single guys, who for some reason assume that it will be jasmine that's always on.
So you get the "looking hot babe, love the pics"
Which I reply: cheers mate but I'm not bi!
Really confuses them! Lol "
We often get that, they assume it's Shaz that's on so when a compliment, I always say thanks and what do you think to the missus lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to know who im chatting to most of the time,and the couples i dont realy know are normaly kind enough to let me know who im talking too,but i allways address my chat to both as i matter of respect "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally always Jane on the forum but messages could be either of us. We always leave them for the other to see the thread though. We don't do the kind of messaging where it should matter which one of us it is... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both mail (on our couple profile). We sign off with both names, the first name is who is mailing at that time. eg Scarlet & Him. x
I usually ask which person I'm speaking to when mailing couples. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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General messages from those we already know or about forum posts, I (Mrs) will normally reply to. They are usually then left for Mr B to read if we wants too.
Messages to new contacts will always be answered when both of us have read them and decided how we are going to respond. If we are messaging a couple then we direct it to both. |
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"Recently a few couples have messaged me and I've started chatting. Then I've realised I sometimes don't know if I'm talking to the male or female half of the couple. Some sign off with a name or their message gives away which half it is. Others though, I have no clue.
I (fem) am the only one who replies which I say on my info but I always sign my initial (E) just to remind people x
Having never had a couples profile, I just wondered do you both message or does one half tend to be the main message sender ? I'm not sure I've explained what I mean - hopefully it makes sense ! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I, R (Mrs Naughty) tend to do the chatting and typing. Mr Naughty (A) gets writers block when faced with a keyboard and a screen.
But we both read messages, decide on message content and such.
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It's always me in the forum (fem) but A always reads and tells me when I need to step away
Messages are typed by me but always a joint effort. This can lead to potential meets being called off due to responses addressed just to me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's always me in the forum (fem) but A always reads and tells me when I need to step away
Messages are typed by me but always a joint effort. This can lead to potential meets being called off due to responses addressed just to me.
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Depends on what the mail is about. Sometimes it's just a bit of banter so it's ok just one person chatting to the other. If it's sex chat kind of thing or implying only one of us matters, then we stop mailing. Or rather I stop mailing. He's nicer than me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I (Mr) never usually reply to a message directed at Mrs. I've chatted to a couple of people, but it's not really me involved in the swinging at the moment so I'm usually just lurking... Or perving.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Recently a few couples have messaged me and I've started chatting. Then I've realised I sometimes don't know if I'm talking to the male or female half of the couple. Some sign off with a name or their message gives away which half it is. Others though, I have no clue.
Having never had a couples profile, I just wondered do you both message or does one half tend to be the main message sender ? I'm not sure I've explained what I mean - hopefully it makes sense ! "
Both, but one cross checks with the other about profiles messaged or contacts made. But I guess it can be confusing if one expresses an interest and the other is more reserved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Recently a few couples have messaged me and I've started chatting. Then I've realised I sometimes don't know if I'm talking to the male or female half of the couple. Some sign off with a name or their message gives away which half it is. Others though, I have no clue.
Having never had a couples profile, I just wondered do you both message or does one half tend to be the main message sender ? I'm not sure I've explained what I mean - hopefully it makes sense ! "
When I had a couples profile we used to both respond but mainly the male half. Now when I chat with couples I tend to ask who I'm talking to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I ( harlot) tend to do most of the posting and messaging on here via this profile and the mr has his own couples profile he uses. We both use our own couples profile to browse and chat to who we want without clogging up each other's feeds n what not, then if for example I find someone I think if like to play with I show him the profile and messages and he gets involved from then on. It's kind of funny tho as to us asking each other if we've seen anything we like today on fab is as normal as asking how was your day lol it's usually our dinner conversation lol x |
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