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By *JB1954 OP Man
over a year ago
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I have been on this site for over a year now, use the chat rooms and look at the forums. sometimes posting.
just last week, a female friend who new i used this site, asked me to help set up profile. . this mainly new email address so mail went there, not her normal one. she filled in profile and joined. three days later, she messaged me . said she was swamped with mail. i said well nice. she said no way . about 300. then adding more still arriving. i saw on her laptop.
Ladies can now see why you get annoyed etc. most had not read her profile criteria. now believe about hassle females get on here by males not reading profiles etc. |
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I was at a meets house and she showed me her profile page and the messages were almost constant, like every 5 mins or so. No way could she have sent a proper reply to them all. It was tempting for me to answer some, but we closed the laptop lid and shagged instead.
I'd also like to mention, gentlemen, the quality of the messages was shit. Try sending a good message - it might not get ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was at a meets house and she showed me her profile page and the messages were almost constant, like every 5 mins or so. No way could she have sent a proper reply to them all. It was tempting for me to answer some, but we closed the laptop lid and shagged instead.
I'd also like to mention, gentlemen, the quality of the messages was shit. Try sending a good message - it might not get ignored. "
You closed the laptop and shagged?? Why? |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I was at a meets house and she showed me her profile page and the messages were almost constant, like every 5 mins or so. No way could she have sent a proper reply to them all. It was tempting for me to answer some, but we closed the laptop lid and shagged instead.
I'd also like to mention, gentlemen, the quality of the messages was shit. Try sending a good message - it might not get ignored. "
It's the ones (as my single fem friend tells me) that message 2 minutes later saying ''why haven't you answered'', why have you deleted it without replying...
Am so glad i'm not a single female, although it would be fun to get a bit of attention for a while lol
Mrs WD40 xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on this site for over a year now, use the chat rooms and look at the forums. sometimes posting.
just last week, a female friend who new i used this site, asked me to help set up profile. . this mainly new email address so mail went there, not her normal one. she filled in profile and joined. three days later, she messaged me . said she was swamped with mail. i said well nice. she said no way . about 300. then adding more still arriving. i saw on her laptop.
Ladies can now see why you get annoyed etc. most had not read her profile criteria. now believe about hassle females get on here by males not reading profiles etc."
It's not only single girls believe me...me (f) reads the messages and 90% never even bother to read the profile most are like "Yeah am free want me to come over and shag or am big will fuck u"... results into polite no thanks and bye .. but then again starting to stop that as that earns abuse as well.. so girls best friend is ~~~ the block button  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on this site for over a year now, use the chat rooms and look at the forums. sometimes posting.
just last week, a female friend who new i used this site, asked me to help set up profile. . this mainly new email address so mail went there, not her normal one. she filled in profile and joined. three days later, she messaged me . said she was swamped with mail. i said well nice. she said no way . about 300. then adding more still arriving. i saw on her laptop.
Ladies can now see why you get annoyed etc. most had not read her profile criteria. now believe about hassle females get on here by males not reading profiles etc."
Did you not think to tell her about filters? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I'm all filtered up, but when you are new you don't know about them and I got swamped when I first joined that I actually deleted after a week!
Then came back tooled up lol with thicker skin!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but I have no sympathy for people that don't set their filters but still whine about getting too many messages. Take the majority of pics off, set the filters and go looking-it really is that simple!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always get such a complex reading threads like this. Even with no filters in place I have never been inundated. Maybe I should start a what's wrong with me thread?? |
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Yep I've seen a few women's inboxes and 90% of the guys don't make the effort at all, I guess this tends to put alot of women off as even the ones that did send decent messages they still dismissed them due to being annoyed at deleting the rubbish ones.
I can see it as annoying but I'd much prefer that than barely receiving 1 a week.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on this site for over a year now, use the chat rooms and look at the forums. sometimes posting.
just last week, a female friend who new i used this site, asked me to help set up profile. . this mainly new email address so mail went there, not her normal one. she filled in profile and joined. three days later, she messaged me . said she was swamped with mail. i said well nice. she said no way . about 300. then adding more still arriving. i saw on her laptop.
Ladies can now see why you get annoyed etc. most had not read her profile criteria. now believe about hassle females get on here by males not reading profiles etc.
It's not only single girls believe me...me (f) reads the messages and 90% never even bother to read the profile most are like "Yeah am free want me to come over and shag or am big will fuck u"... results into polite no thanks and bye .. but then again starting to stop that as that earns abuse as well.. so girls best friend is ~~~ the block button "
Agree there some times when we have looking for males and don't have them blocked we end up getting swamped and most of them are crap and we can tell they haven't read our profile. At least 90% of the messages are aimed just at juicy aswell which results in the the block button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder how many people, when on a meet at home, show the other party their private messages and most probably private pictures that other people are sending them.
Even tho some of these guys are complete ducks, its still not fair that their messages and pictures are being shared wutg giddy knows who. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder how many people, when on a meet at home, show the other party their private messages and most probably private pictures that other people are sending them.
Even tho some of these guys are complete ducks, its still not fair that their messages and pictures are being shared wutg giddy knows who."
It would seem that many are very indiscreet.... The last thing I want to do on a meet is show the guy I'm meeting all my private messages with other guys. It would have to be very dull between us for me to even think about logging in to fab. ... and if I did it would be home time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry but I have no sympathy for people that don't set their filters but still whine about getting too many messages. Take the majority of pics off, set the filters and go looking-it really is that simple!
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Wise advice, take heed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was at a meets house and she showed me her profile page and the messages were almost constant, like every 5 mins or so. No way could she have sent a proper reply to them all. It was tempting for me to answer some, but we closed the laptop lid and shagged instead.
I'd also like to mention, gentlemen, the quality of the messages was shit. Try sending a good message - it might not get ignored. "
This same situation happened to me on my 2nd meet. I have not sent many messages since that day lol. |
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