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By *ood fella OP Man over a year ago

London

a lot of fabs members now are either asking for money for sex or so called contributions ,its simply prostitution ,do you agree

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Can't say I've noticed myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Explain 'a lot'.

I've been using this site for a long time and never come across anyone asking for any kind of payment.

If I did I'd report them to admin.

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By *not69Man over a year ago

Burnley

Ive never been asked for a payment or contribution

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nobody has asked me to pay for it. If they did I would tell them to feck off.

Ling live fab

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've been offered payment twice, reported them twice. It's not a widespread problem and admin remove those reported.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been offered payment but refuse and report the profile.... And can't say I've noticed it on the increase x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one's offered me money, hubby says we'd have to give refunds anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a lot of fabs members now are either asking for money for sex or so called contributions ,its simply prostitution ,do you agree"

I randomly sometimes not much really request that cake is laid out so... or maybe the odd pig in a blanket closer to Crimbo.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody has asked me to pay for it. If they did I would tell them to feck off.

Ling live fab

I'd pay you in monopoly money...

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"a lot of fabs members now are either asking for money for sex or so called contributions ,its simply prostitution ,do you agree"

No.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"a lot of fabs members now are either asking for money for sex or so called contributions ,its simply prostitution ,do you agree"

never really encounted that in my 7 years ish of being here... maybe i am wondering around in different circles...

or... if i see an ad like that... i do the radical thing and move on to the next profile.... after all no one is hold guns to head making people go to these events...

and if people had more self respect for themselves... these events would disappear because there would be no demand for them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

WTF???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was invited to a hotel meet and asked to pay the cost of the room. Not share the cost, but pay for it. Explicitly requested it was just the male who attended and that I had to be there for 8pm. Do my thing and be gone by 8.30pm. !! BLOCK

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a lot of fabs members now are either asking for money for sex or so called contributions ,its simply prostitution ,do you agree"

No, never come across it yet, not have we ever been asked to 'contribute'

You must be looking in the wrong places.

Report, block and move on, it's really that simple....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is that men,women and couples? I only meet men and have never been asked to pay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a couple of guys years ago on my single profile offer money after I'd politely declined. I just blocked and reported.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive been offered money quite a few times but don't think the site is rife with that or folk asking for money.

report them,,simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody has asked me to pay for it. If they did I would tell them to feck off.

Ling live fab

I'd pay you in monopoly money...

I would prefer some kind of cake or biscuits

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Is that men,women and couples? I only meet men and have never been asked to pay "

I wonder how a single man asking for payment would get on.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody has asked me to pay for it. If they did I would tell them to feck off.

Ling live fab

I'd pay you in monopoly money...

I would prefer some kind of cake or biscuits

How about a biscuit pretending to be a cake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody has asked me to pay for it. If they did I would tell them to feck off.

Ling live fab

I'd pay you in monopoly money...

I would prefer some kind of cake or biscuits

How about a biscuit pretending to be a cake?

I love jaffa cakes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody has asked me to pay for it. If they did I would tell them to feck off.

Ling live fab

I'd pay you in monopoly money...

I would prefer some kind of cake or biscuits

How about a biscuit pretending to be a cake?

I've got cake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody has asked me to pay for it. If they did I would tell them to feck off.

Ling live fab

I'd pay you in monopoly money...

I would prefer some kind of cake or biscuits

How about a biscuit pretending to be a cake?

I love jaffa cakes"

Job done...message me your address and I will pop some in the post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had it before where I arranged to meet a couple, they gave me a postcode which I found it took me to a Tesco about an hour from where I live and said to text when there which I did, I then received a text saying that if I didn't go in and buy 3 bottles of whiskey then the meet was off

needless to say I told them to forget it and drove home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody has asked me to pay for it. If they did I would tell them to feck off.

Ling live fab

I'd pay you in monopoly money...

I would prefer some kind of cake or biscuits

How about a biscuit pretending to be a cake?

I've got cake

Yes...I know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that men,women and couples? I only meet men and have never been asked to pay

I wonder how a single man asking for payment would get on.......

If I was rich I'd pay for sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've had it before where I arranged to meet a couple, they gave me a postcode which I found it took me to a Tesco about an hour from where I live and said to text when there which I did, I then received a text saying that if I didn't go in and buy 3 bottles of whiskey then the meet was off

needless to say I told them to forget it and drove home"

What?!

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

We once met a couple from on here socially where she 'confessed' she was an escort and that he was her pimp. Although she did not explicitly ask for money it was heavily implied it would be welcome for the meet to go ahead. Needless to say we made our excuses and left.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I found someone local that asked for cash reported them they re appeared so thought sod it a block should be IP address

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

needless to say I told them to forget it and drove home"

You even went to the tesco? I wouldn't have left the house with such vague instruction as that.

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By *edheadsruleCouple over a year ago

lancashire

"I've been offered payment twice, reported them twice. It's not a widespread problem and admin remove those reported.

Snap

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Fab is dead.

Long live Fab !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

needless to say I told them to forget it and drove home

You even went to the tesco? I wouldn't have left the house with such vague instruction as that."

I didn't know it was a Tesco till I got there, I was told they would give me the house number once I'd arrived so wrongly assumed they were just making sure I was turning up before revealing their house, you live and learn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

needless to say I told them to forget it and drove home

You even went to the tesco? I wouldn't have left the house with such vague instruction as that."

Maybe he was hoping for free whisky?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

needless to say I told them to forget it and drove home

You even went to the tesco? I wouldn't have left the house with such vague instruction as that.

Google maps???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"WTF???

Not sure about the title or question either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Google maps???

haha, I know for the future, I'm always too trusting though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a lot of fabs members now are either asking for money for sex or so called contributions ,its simply prostitution ,do you agree"

Never exparienced this in many years on fab with various single and couples profiles.

Look at your selection process and above all report anyone asking for money as it is against site rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that men,women and couples? I only meet men and have never been asked to pay

I wonder how a single man asking for payment would get on.......

Come on I'm cheap provide me a coffee and I'm anyones well almost there but chuck in a bit of toaste and deal is done

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

OP thats a bit of a dramatic headline and you do seem to have a bit of a bee in your bonnet about this....

Some people will take the piss and ask for 'gifts' or 'contributions'. Some people are just as bad by offering to be 'generous' or 'treat' someone.

Same advice on this as on the other threads - report the profiles/messages where you see this happening and Admin will deal with it.

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