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I was contacted recently on here by a 23yo virgin. I don't swing often but the thought of teaching this guy how to satisfy a woman was exciting.
He turned up, which I was amazed at, he told me he'd never even kissed a woman passionately, let alone anything else, and that it was becoming an obstacle to having a relationship but held him back in other aspects of his life.
He was like a rabbit caught in headlights, I had to go slow, so as not to scare him, but 2 hours later and a subsequent visit, the change in him and confidence that he now has is remarkable.
I don't think I've ever had such an impact on anyone before. Much better than how I lost my virginity.
When you lost yours, was it special or a bit rubbish like mine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't even remember the name of the girl I lost mine with and although I always thought it would never bother me. I now wish I would of made sure it was better
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was contacted recently on here by a 23yo virgin. I don't swing often but the thought of teaching this guy how to satisfy a woman was exciting.
He turned up, which I was amazed at, he told me he'd never even kissed a woman passionately, let alone anything else, and that it was becoming an obstacle to having a relationship but held him back in other aspects of his life.
He was like a rabbit caught in headlights, I had to go slow, so as not to scare him, but 2 hours later and a subsequent visit, the change in him and confidence that he now has is remarkable.
I don't think I've ever had such an impact on anyone before. Much better than how I lost my virginity.
When you lost yours, was it special or a bit rubbish like mine?"
Looking at your profile, i bet that guy had the most erotic and fulfilling time of his life, and for that guy things will only go downhill for him now.....unless he is lucky enough to be invited back. Well done for showing him the ropes, lots of people dont have time for novices and its a shame  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking at your profile, i bet that guy had the most erotic and fulfilling time of his life, and for that guy things will only go downhill for him now.....unless he is lucky enough to be invited back. Well done for showing him the ropes, lots of people dont have time for novices and its a shame "
This was pretty much what we we're saying to each other, the bar has been set high for him now! Bet he's not complaining tho lol
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
London / Herts |
I love to hear of women giving younger guys a chance. There is a great deal of pressure at that age to have sex a lot, and have sex well. And when you feel as though you're not living up to societal standards (who said they were law anyway?), it is a nasty feeling.
Hopefully more women will follow your example and give a younger guy a chance. Experienced women are so hot  |
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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago
taunton |
Madge that is a very good thing you have done wish someone had shown me the way, would probably have been way too scared to take the offer when I was that age, I also think a lot of women need to be shown how to enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is a great deal of pressure at that age to have sex a lot, and have sex well. And when you feel as though you're not living up to societal standards (who said they were law anyway?), it is a nasty feeling.
Have to agree so much with this comment, I was at uni and not very confident with girls (although I was very good at sex so I was told as I liked to give pleasure) but the corrosive feeling when you think people are leaving you behind... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember when I lost my virginity with my first girlfriend at college.
Even though she was blind, it did feel a bit special when we did it for the first time. The sex later in the relationship got better with practice and did some hot stuff to spice things up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"he was genuine but apparently I've spoilt him. He said what 20 something is going to have the skills and 40 something has"
Age has nothing to do with experience or being a good lover. Was sweet that you made it special for him though x |
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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago
South of Sleaford |
Fallen Madonna,
Thanks for telling us your story. You have done a good job not only to give the young guy his first experience but also to do so with sensitivity and consideration so he enjoyed it.
My first time was enjoyable. The second time, now that we were used to each other, was amazing and wonderful. I was a fast learner and she appreciated that her horses accepted me.
First time having sex as a tgirl was crap. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"I was contacted recently on here by a 23yo virgin. I don't swing often but the thought of teaching this guy how to satisfy a woman was exciting.
He turned up, which I was amazed at, he told me he'd never even kissed a woman passionately, let alone anything else, and that it was becoming an obstacle to having a relationship but held him back in other aspects of his life.
He was like a rabbit caught in headlights, I had to go slow, so as not to scare him, but 2 hours later and a subsequent visit, the change in him and confidence that he now has is remarkable.
I don't think I've ever had such an impact on anyone before. Much better than how I lost my virginity.
When you lost yours, was it special or a bit rubbish like mine?
Looking at your profile, i bet that guy had the most erotic and fulfilling time of his life, and for that guy things will only go downhill for him now.....unless he is lucky enough to be invited back. Well done for showing him the ropes, lots of people dont have time for novices and its a shame "
I got a l'il time..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember my first with my first girlfriend it was great as we both wanted it so much but very nervous.
My first time with a guy was disastrous though! He stopped after a bit and said sorry I'm not gay and just walked off!
Got better along the way though.
And now I want to loose my anal cherry as never tried that but wanting to. Anyone interested  |
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Be choosy with whom you loose your anal virginity to. Because of the intimate act, you need to be careful that you won't be harmed by someone getting their own gratification and not thinking of you. Get a girl to fuck you with a strap on possibly - ah, yes, yet more virgins I've had!!!!  |
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