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That horrible feeling when you've fallen out with your fuck buddy of six months  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Un-fallout ... You can thank me later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just think of the make up sex 
Her |
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo |
I thought you were going to say that you were falling out of your bra and I was going to suggest either doing away with it or getting a bigger one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never fallen out with any of mine. Hope you sort it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks. Am bereft.  "
Bite the bullet, contact and if necessary say what you have to and make things better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That horrible feeling when you've fallen out with your fuck buddy of six months "
Just make up.. It's not a boyfriend so you shouldn't really have the issues that relationships cause. Just give him a cuddle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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is he a little bit more than a fuck buddy?
if you're feeling maybe he is.
either way extend the olive branch & see if you can sort things out. x |
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"is he a little bit more than a fuck buddy?
if you're feeling maybe he is.
either way extend the olive branch & see if you can sort things out. x"
I hope we can sort this misunderstanding out soon. It's eating me up. He is more than a fuck buddy, that's the problem.
What do I call him? What is a man you're having an affair with called anyway?
Is life falling out with your best mate, I guess. Not a nice feeling.
He's not returning my messages so it's horrible going to bed with it unresolved. Hopefully it will all blow over. I'm gonna try to get some sleep and see if we can't chat in the morning. |
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Just move on and get a new one.
Been there myself but over a year playing. Not a nice feeling but no point hanging on if he isn't responding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never fallen out with any of mine. Hope you sort it out "
same here x 10 months x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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maybe he is thinking having an affair with a married lady is not for him...
let him be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was going to reply in private but couldn't. Give him a few days. And you may find he contacts you. Hope you sort it... |
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"Thanks. Am bereft. "
I feel your pain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give him space to breathe, I think guys need that sometimes. Don't contact him for a little while, if you keep messaging he has no chance to start missing you. A little space helps put everything into a better perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That horrible feeling when you've fallen out with your fuck buddy of six months "
Aww you will sort it, but it is frustrating. Me and my fb fall out all the time. I will upset him, he will rant before deleting my number then a week later he's sending messages on fab. Just look forward to the make up sex. I told my buddy that he didn't have to fall out with me just to get a good shagging.
We haven't argued for a while now... Hmm
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
Sorry I do understand the hurt.
I find believing in fate helps me as I do think if it's supposed to sort itself out then fate will help you out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or do what I do and say sorry ...again !!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just move on and get a new one.
Been there myself but over a year playing. Not a nice feeling but no point hanging on if he isn't responding"
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Thanks guys. I haven't bombarded him. Is just frustrating that we can't talk til his wife is at work tomorrow.
It will all blow over and for the record, although I'm very fond of him, we're both married and it's nothing more than a friends with benefits situation. I'm missing that friend though, and feel lonely. Bizarre! I only see him once a week if I'm lucky!
Time will sort it out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. I haven't bombarded him. Is just frustrating that we can't talk til his wife is at work tomorrow.
It will all blow over and for the record, although I'm very fond of him, we're both married and it's nothing more than a friends with benefits situation. I'm missing that friend though, and feel lonely. Bizarre! I only see him once a week if I'm lucky!
Time will sort it out.
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Maybe his wife has found out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. I haven't bombarded him. Is just frustrating that we can't talk til his wife is at work tomorrow.
It will all blow over and for the record, although I'm very fond of him, we're both married and it's nothing more than a friends with benefits situation. I'm missing that friend though, and feel lonely. Bizarre! I only see him once a week if I'm lucky!
Time will sort it out.
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good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. I haven't bombarded him. Is just frustrating that we can't talk til his wife is at work tomorrow.
It will all blow over and for the record, although I'm very fond of him, we're both married and it's nothing more than a friends with benefits situation. I'm missing that friend though, and feel lonely. Bizarre! I only see him once a week if I'm lucky!
Time will sort it out.
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We'll reserve our sympathy for the poor woman whose husband you're fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's an affair, that's what happens
Sorry, find unattached people. |
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"Thanks guys. I haven't bombarded him. Is just frustrating that we can't talk til his wife is at work tomorrow.
It will all blow over and for the record, although I'm very fond of him, we're both married and it's nothing more than a friends with benefits situation. I'm missing that friend though, and feel lonely. Bizarre! I only see him once a week if I'm lucky!
Time will sort it out.
Maybe his wife has found out."
Or maybe he's found a conscience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is one of those threads where I would dread to think of the response a guy would have got. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is one of those threads where I would dread to think of the response a guy would have got. "
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Aww angel, I feel for you. A FB is more than just sex and to not be able to contact him is hard, frustrating and it hurts.
Fingers crossed he manages to send you even just a quick text or mail.
Sending you a hug x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Give him space to breathe, I think guys need that sometimes. Don't contact him for a little while, if you keep messaging he has no chance to start missing you. A little space helps put everything into a better perspective. "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"This is one of those threads where I would dread to think of the response a guy would have got. "
ain't that the truth.... he would have been hung, drawn and then quartered... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is one of those threads where I would dread to think of the response a guy would have got. "
I'd have said the same, its an affair, people get hurt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is one of those threads where I would dread to think of the response a guy would have got.
ain't that the truth.... he would have been hung, drawn and then quartered..."
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"Aww angel, I feel for you. A FB is more than just sex and to not be able to contact him is hard, frustrating and it hurts.
Fingers crossed he manages to send you even just a quick text or mail.
Sending you a hug x"
At last! Somebody who understands. Thanks for your support hun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we all understand |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Aww angel, I feel for you. A FB is more than just sex and to not be able to contact him is hard, frustrating and it hurts.
Fingers crossed he manages to send you even just a quick text or mail.
Sending you a hug x
At last! Somebody who understands. Thanks for your support hun. "
for goodness sake... you play with fire, you get burned.
good luck for the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is one of those threads where I would dread to think of the response a guy would have got.
ain't that the truth.... he would have been hung, drawn and then quartered..."
Within 5 mins as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Give him space to breathe, I think guys need that sometimes. Don't contact him for a little while, if you keep messaging he has no chance to start missing you. A little space helps put everything into a better perspective. "
Couldn't have said it better |
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He and his wife (of 6 months) met on a swingers site. They now swing separately but he says he's happy knowing what to expect with somebody regular. I'm the same. Is nice to have some familiarity.
He loves that I'm so promiscuous and really gets off on hearing about my encounters.
I'm pretty sure she hasn't found out. We are ultra discrete.
I really want nobody to find out so we can keep on having fun. It would be a shame to break up such a mutually convenient arrangement.
We are so well matched in the bedroom dept. All other aspects are non starters. He's a nightmare! She can keep him lol |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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" He's a nightmare! She can keep him lol"
you are all heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So if they swing separately whats the issue with her knowing about you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't wish to sound mean but why do you expect sympathy when your cheating on your partner/husband? I'd say this is you getting a bug taste of your own medicine. And I bet the poor guy your cheating on is probably trying to cheer you up isn't he? No hugs from me... You reap what you sow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if they swing separately whats the issue with her knowing about you? "
I'm confused by this also
Sarah x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we all understand "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Cake and eat it springs to mind |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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no, I will watch Sarah Brightman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He and his wife (of 6 months) met on a swingers site. They now swing separately but he says he's happy knowing what to expect with somebody regular. I'm the same. Is nice to have some familiarity.
He loves that I'm so promiscuous and really gets off on hearing about my encounters.
I'm pretty sure she hasn't found out. We are ultra discrete.
I really want nobody to find out so we can keep on having fun. It would be a shame to break up such a mutually convenient arrangement.
We are so well matched in the bedroom dept. All other aspects are non starters. He's a nightmare! She can keep him lol"
She probably does know. They'll have a laugh about it. No doubt they will have seen this thread. You think he's being honest with you and deceiving her. That's sweet. |
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There seems to be alot of negative replies on your post hon..
You know what tho?
You are doing what everyone on this site is doing. Swinging.
Vanilla couples would be disgusted at the people on this site.
Fingers crossed you get back what makes You happy x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be alot of negative replies on your post hon..
You know what tho?
You are doing what everyone on this site is doing. Swinging.
Vanilla couples would be disgusted at the people on this site.
Fingers crossed you get back what makes You happy x
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No she's not!! She's cheating, that's not swinging.. Just plain old cheating |
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He might be swinging as his wife meets too but if your hubby doesn't know then that's not swinging, maybe you are too emotionally attached and its not the same for him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let me get this straight so they both swing but she don't know about you 2?
Do both you and your husband swing and does he know?
Is your fb and his wife a member of fab and what are they likely to think if see this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be alot of negative replies on your post hon..
You know what tho?
You are doing what everyone on this site is doing. Swinging.
Vanilla couples would be disgusted at the people on this site.
Fingers crossed you get back what makes You happy x
Everyone else !!! Oh I don't think so
Get your facts straight first.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be alot of negative replies on your post hon..
You know what tho?
You are doing what everyone on this site is doing. Swinging.
Vanilla couples would be disgusted at the people on this site.
Fingers crossed you get back what makes You happy x
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So it's your husband she's fucking? Cool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There seems to be alot of negative replies on your post hon..
You know what tho?
You are doing what everyone on this site is doing. Swinging.
Vanilla couples would be disgusted at the people on this site.
Fingers crossed you get back what makes You happy x
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The trouble is it doesn't sound like swinging as I understand it, it sounds like an affair. So no she isn't doing what everyone else is doing. I would want nothing more to do with an FB that was that emotionally involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is one of those threads where I would dread to think of the response a guy would have got.
ain't that the truth.... he would have been hung, drawn and then quartered...
Within 5 mins as well "
You think it would have taken that long ? |
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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago
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Going through the same thing myself with a guy I have been seeing for nine months.
The only thing to help getting over a guy is getting under another x x
Hope all works out for you x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been seeing my fb a year and a half nearly two years, we have fallen out a few times but we can't seem to keep away from each other so always make up and have a loads of great times and hopefully loads more to come. |
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"I've been seeing my fb a year and a half nearly two years, we have fallen out a few times but we can't seem to keep away from each other so always make up and have a loads of great times and hopefully loads more to come."
Well done! I'm hoping the same will happen. |
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I'm feeling much better now. Another fab guy plied me with wine. Everything seems much better now lol
Thanks hun xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must be fun to have one, its one of my dreams lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't remember "plying" you!! Hope the chat helped you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm feeling much better now. Another fab guy plied me with wine. Everything seems much better now lol
Thanks hun xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find this awful, if the op was a man, there wouldn't be one positive comment. I'm all for the sisterhood but not when the person is cheating, lying and generally not being a great human being, but not to worry she's found some other desperate sap to make her feel better |
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"I find this awful, if the op was a man, there wouldn't be one positive comment. I'm all for the sisterhood but not when the person is cheating, lying and generally not being a great human being, but not to worry she's found some other desperate sap to make her feel better"
You have said that several times throughout the thread.....give it a rest |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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the hypocrisy on this thread is truly staggering...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find this awful, if the op was a man, there wouldn't be one positive comment. I'm all for the sisterhood but not when the person is cheating, lying and generally not being a great human being, but not to worry she's found some other desperate sap to make her feel better
You have said that several times throughout the thread.....give it a rest"
Why.should I?? If she can go on about being sad because her affair didn't work out then I can go on and on about how I think she deserves what she gets!! It's a public forum.... Deal with it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the hypocrisy on this thread is truly staggering...
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"I find this awful, if the op was a man, there wouldn't be one positive comment. I'm all for the sisterhood but not when the person is cheating, lying and generally not being a great human being, but not to worry she's found some other desperate sap to make her feel better
You have said that several times throughout the thread.....give it a rest
Why.should I?? If she can go on about being sad because her affair didn't work out then I can go on and on about how I think she deserves what she gets!! It's a public forum.... Deal with it. "
Then don't read the thread if it offends you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny how the people playing away seem to agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find this awful, if the op was a man, there wouldn't be one positive comment. I'm all for the sisterhood but not when the person is cheating, lying and generally not being a great human being, but not to worry she's found some other desperate sap to make her feel better
You have said that several times throughout the thread.....give it a rest
Why.should I?? If she can go on about being sad because her affair didn't work out then I can go on and on about how I think she deserves what she gets!! It's a public forum.... Deal with it.
Then don't read the thread if it offends you"
Same back to you!! Sorry if what I'm saying hits a little too close to home, that's not my fault |
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"I find this awful, if the op was a man, there wouldn't be one positive comment. I'm all for the sisterhood but not when the person is cheating, lying and generally not being a great human being, but not to worry she's found some other desperate sap to make her feel better
You have said that several times throughout the thread.....give it a rest
Why.should I?? If she can go on about being sad because her affair didn't work out then I can go on and on about how I think she deserves what she gets!! It's a public forum.... Deal with it.
Then don't read the thread if it offends you
Same back to you!! Sorry if what I'm saying hits a little too close to home, that's not my fault"
What happens in my home and life has sweet FA to do with you or anyone else.
If anything offends stay away....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find this awful, if the op was a man, there wouldn't be one positive comment. I'm all for the sisterhood but not when the person is cheating, lying and generally not being a great human being, but not to worry she's found some other desperate sap to make her feel better
You have said that several times throughout the thread.....give it a rest
Why.should I?? If she can go on about being sad because her affair didn't work out then I can go on and on about how I think she deserves what she gets!! It's a public forum.... Deal with it.
Then don't read the thread if it offends you
Same back to you!! Sorry if what I'm saying hits a little too close to home, that's not my fault
What happens in my home and life has sweet FA to do with you or anyone else.
If anything offends stay away....
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And again same to you if you don't like what I say.. Stay away.. |
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"I find this awful, if the op was a man, there wouldn't be one positive comment. I'm all for the sisterhood but not when the person is cheating, lying and generally not being a great human being, but not to worry she's found some other desperate sap to make her feel better
You have said that several times throughout the thread.....give it a rest
Why.should I?? If she can go on about being sad because her affair didn't work out then I can go on and on about how I think she deserves what she gets!! It's a public forum.... Deal with it.
Then don't read the thread if it offends you
Same back to you!! Sorry if what I'm saying hits a little too close to home, that's not my fault
What happens in my home and life has sweet FA to do with you or anyone else.
If anything offends stay away....
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This is an open forum and people will not always hold the same opinion, nobody has the right to tell someone yo stay away just because their opinion is different. |
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Ffs! Is this going to fill up with tit for tat arguing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ffs! Is this going to fill up with tit for tat arguing?"
Isn't that how these threads often go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ffs! Is this going to fill up with tit for tat arguing?"
 you never swear! |
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