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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its totally up to the individual what they are here for. You don't sign a contract saying you will have "x" amount of meets a month and as long as they are up front with why they are here and use the site within the rules, they are entitled to be here. You are free to move on to the next profile. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Been here a while now and seem to find more and more profiles saying here to chat or not looking to meet can anyone explain why people join a swing site to chat and not swing "
oh the facebook comparision... i think that is really condescending...
I think people do swing... but they are taking more time working out what is good for them and that is not a bad thing...
I'd rather someone took there time and found an experience they liked... rather than rushing in and feeling like they made mistakes..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still hasn't asnwered the question why join a swinging site to just chat a swing site is for those few people who want to swing and play "
I would say you aren't a real swinger, you are here as a single man, who are you to tell others how to use this site. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Still hasn't asnwered the question why join a swinging site to just chat a swing site is for those few people who want to swing and play "
"swing and play" at who's pace.... yours or theirs....
you want to immediately play... you have clubs you can go to if you want....
I wanted to make sure I wanted to 110% do this.... and there is a huge difference between the fantasy and the reality of swinging... and if chatting helps that person realise this is for them or not... good for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still hasn't asnwered the question why join a swinging site to just chat a swing site is for those few people who want to swing and play "
Why don't you message these people and ask them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still hasn't asnwered the question why join a swinging site to just chat a swing site is for those few people who want to swing and play "
So by your reckoning....because we wish to take our time to get to know the people we wish to play with for a while before meeting them, we shouldn't be here.
Off to pack our swinging bags as we speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here a while now and seem to find more and more profiles saying here to chat or not looking to meet can anyone explain why people join a swing site to chat and not swing "
Some assume it will be kid free so prefer it other are just lonely and need attention which a lot will get no matter what here. There is no rule that people must meet X number of times per year well not yet. |
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I love this lots off reasons why people giving reason why they are here without meeting or play. For those who thing I'm a single guy moaning I can't get meets well sorry I'm doing ok thank but the reason why I say this I read more and more profiles and status which makes me think its more like facebook. As for not having fun from facebook you mustnt be trying hard enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here a while now and seem to find more and more profiles saying here to chat or not looking to meet can anyone explain why people join a swing site to chat and not swing "
More and more people use it to keep in contact with friends that they meet at socials or clubs and to keep up with events.
Swinging websites are a tiny part of the scene and definatley not the be all and end all.
You will often find that people that only use the web for swinging fun are the most stressed and uptight bunch of all.
Web
Clubs
Socials
Dogging
These are all options open to you 3 out of the 4 you can actually fuck while doing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This and your status update (which is VERY facebook-esque) just comes across like you're having a bad day looking for a meet and need to vent.
Most, if not all people are here for NSA sex. A lot also make friendships amongst these people they meet for NSA sex. And they use this site to discuss things and talk about stuff they perhaps wouldn't be happy doing on facebook , as that usually has family and friends on it.
They also want to meet people at their own pace. Not be moaned at for wanting to exchange more than one email before having a total stranger try and stick his dick in them.
So you coming along and having a whinge at them is going to get you nowhere.
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"I love this lots off reasons why people giving reason why they are here without meeting or play. For those who thing I'm a single guy moaning I can't get meets well sorry I'm doing ok thank but the reason why I say this I read more and more profiles and status which makes me think its more like facebook. As for not having fun from facebook you mustnt be trying hard enough "
Off you go to play on Facebook then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still hasn't asnwered the question why join a swinging site to just chat a swing site is for those few people who want to swing and play "
Heads up but you can't fuck online.
You can in clubs and dogging.
You can arrange fun at socials.
Fab is not a match site or instant fuck. |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
yes this is a swinging site, where people meet for sex. if you use the chat rooms, the non directing ones. subjects being discussed as another op said are very varied. i think some come on this site just to chat / make friends. the reason, a few years back, all the big ISP, shut down their chat rooms, due to monitoring them etc. so now people use adult sites like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Re: why people like to chat here. I'd guess that in their normal lives, they never have anyone to talk with about their sex interests or just sex in general. Or maybe perhaps they choose not to talk about it in normal surroundings.
It's quite freeing having conversations on here that you can't or don't like to have, anywhere else. Maybe that's all they need, to enjoy talking about it and maybe learning about new things they can perhaps try at home. |
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I use this profile just to chat, I use my couples profile to meet.
Why?
Because I can.
It is how I choose to use the tools available to me on this site. I use this profile as an advert to say I/we will be at a certain club at the weekend.
I use it to chat with people who I have told that I won't ever meet, whether they believe it or not is their choice,
Even though this profile says I only meet in clubs with my husband I still get asked to meet in a hotel, go to theirs, they aren't far from me they can pop round or even in a car on their break!
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
I've had a few messages saying I should go on fb if I "just" want to chat.
I will have limited time when I come home, so don't want to start from scratch...
Doing great with the ones I'm chatting too.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been a member of fab for ages and have had some pretty amazing meets but also some horrific experiences too. Recently there seems to have been an influx of complete gobshites, men who couldnt get sex off the net, married men who lie, so many men with a veri off the same woman who has " been filled by cum in every hole" or just men who need their ego boosting by getting to the point of arranging a meet then deleting their account all joining fab. I really cant be bothered wading through these men to find one genuine one so have chosen to take a break for a while. As you can see by my veri's, i do meet but its MY choice when... If i choose to stay on here to chat to friends ive made along the way then im sorry mate, its really got nothing to do with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nothing like Facebook but really embarrassing when I nearly put my status from here on FB once.may have been a bit hard to explain 
People are here for whatever reason they want to be, oh and btw , you're technically Not a swinger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here a while now and seem to find more and more profiles saying here to chat or not looking to meet can anyone explain why people join a swing site to chat and not swing "
Sometimes people have 'not meeting' on their profile because it stops stupid twats from mailing. When in fact they are having a fantastic time... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Starting to suspect the OP hasn't received the massive outpouring of righteous support he was after.
Either that or his day improved and someone decided to fuck him after minimal chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Starting to suspect the OP hasn't received the massive outpouring of righteous support he was after.
Either that or his day improved and someone decided to fuck him after minimal chat."
Or he's on facebook looking for a shag lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought exacly same thing other day but more entertaining on here u don't have someone say in havin fish chips for tea that's why got load of African mates on mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still hasn't asnwered the question why join a swinging site to just chat a swing site is for those few people who want to swing and play "
Some people have been swinging alot longer than you. The fact that their needs change over time will mean that they use the site as they wish. Swingers do not constantly fuck!! If they want to just chat to like minded people or go to socials that is their decision.If you want to play -then play. Your choice - just like it's theres. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So as this is fab SWINGers you've got to swing? Ok how many books about faces have you read from Facebook????  "
This all goes back to my biggest bug bare, bloody internet swingers. There is oh so much you can do online and some think it's like using an internet taxi service or hungery horse, one click and instant shag!
They have no understanding of community and the fact that some people just like to keep in touch with people they have met in the real world. There are many reasons why people are here and as long as they are adults they have every right. Just because you are here it doesn't mean you have to fuck people here!
Fab is used by many as a social hub to enhance their other lifestyle activities.
How many of these Facebook swingers like us have verifications to prove we meet and put out, compared to the complainers who want to dictate how we use the site!
Sorry rant over
Have nice day
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been here a while now and seem to find more and more profiles saying here to chat or not looking to meet can anyone explain why people join a swing site to chat and not swing "
It's nothing like FB, and people join to do what they want to do! There isn't a requirement when joining fab that says you HAVE to meet. Some people may get off on just chatting |
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Fab is my new facebook lol I dont get poxy game requests and the friends ive made and met on here usually have more to say then hi will you share this. We do meet as well but sometimes come on here to catch up with friends and if we want a meet we will find it. So for us its better then facebook. |
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"Been here a while now and seem to find more and more profiles saying here to chat or not looking to meet can anyone explain why people join a swing site to chat and not swing "
. Nothing wrong in just wanting to chat . The forums are excellent and contain loads of usefull information. Just because you are on a swinger's website does not compel you to meet anyone .
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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I actually think OP has a point, in a way.
We're hardly hardcore swingers as we only meet once or twice a year and have no interest in attending socials etc, so not sure how we'd be viewed. However there are people who practically live on the forums and post constantly every day, similar to facebook, and some of it is very inane.
I think though that given how few members post on the forums (I think it's less than 2%) you shouldn't consider them representative of the site in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here a while now and seem to find more and more profiles saying here to chat or not looking to meet can anyone explain why people join a swing site to chat and not swing
oh the facebook comparision... i think that is really condescending...
I think people do swing... but they are taking more time working out what is good for them and that is not a bad thing...
I'd rather someone took there time and found an experience they liked... rather than rushing in and feeling like they made mistakes....."
 agreed |
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"Its totally up to the individual what they are here for. You don't sign a contract saying you will have "x" amount of meets a month and as long as they are up front with why they are here and use the site within the rules, they are entitled to be here. You are free to move on to the next profile. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I actually think OP has a point, in a way.
We're hardly hardcore swingers as we only meet once or twice a year and have no interest in attending socials etc, so not sure how we'd be viewed. However there are people who practically live on the forums and post constantly every day, similar to facebook, and some of it is very inane.
I think though that given how few members post on the forums (I think it's less than 2%) you shouldn't consider them representative of the site in general."
partially agree..but I think more about shagging fellow posters from fab than I do on facebook..
and anyway, I have fab friends on facebook...we dont talk about fab on facebook..on fab...we talk about fab...its as separate as it needs to be, and respectful at all times.
regarding the socials aspect of things..I only ever see that as getting to know other people u might not via the site messaging....the aim is to get a shag of someone u might like...I rarely attend them anyway...but I dont see them as futile and nonswingy |
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Worry about your own fun and not there's. If a couple are taking a break then move onto the next profile....
As for it being like Facebook, if you start inviting people such as your family and friends then yeah it will be.
However I don't like your tone |
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