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You've got a wink.....what do you look at first?
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We all get winks, day in, day out.
What's the first thing you look at when you open up the 'winkers' profile???
We personally check first for Veris, no Veris then deleted.
We then check pics.
Sounds shallow, but we have to be physically attracted to any potential play mates.
Then we read their profile.
What does everyone else do first? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that this is a huge task for me  but where they are, then profile, then pics, then verifications.
Location doesn't seem to bother a lot of people when winking, but it is quite important for meets! |
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"We all get winks, day in, day out.
What's the first thing you look at when you open up the 'winkers' profile???
We personally check first for Veris, no Veris then deleted.
We then check pics.
Sounds shallow, but we have to be physically attracted to any potential play mates.
Then we read their profile.
What does everyone else do first?"
Delete en masse without looking. |
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There's gotta be an initial spark of attraction physically for us so it's pictures first, if they peak an interest then we'll see if we fit their criteria in their profile text. You'd be surprised how many people wouldn't like us according to their text or interests.
If all that matches with what we're looking for and we'd like to go into more depth then we normally message a thanks for the wink and see if there's interest through messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all get winks, day in, day out.
What's the first thing you look at when you open up the 'winkers' profile???
We personally check first for Veris, no Veris then deleted.
We then check pics.
Sounds shallow, but we have to be physically attracted to any potential play mates.
Then we read their profile.
What does everyone else do first?"
Pretty much the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got a wink that led to a couple of lovely meets: one social then a play meet. I think I looked firstly at the pics, then read the profile fully, then messaged. We chatted. Met for lunch. Then had a very enjoyable hotel meet and are friends now  |
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Veris are the last thing we check, everyone has to start somewhere, but before that it all depends on the profile photo. If they don't have one then we go no further, after that we read the profile from top to bottom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i read profile and want to see a face pic, even if private by message. i dont tend to reply to winks but if someone messages me, then i usually reply, not unless there is no attraction |
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By *layerzCouple
over a year ago
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Geri's and pictures, though we wouldn't expect anyone to post face pics in their public profile. It's unreasonable to expect others go do things that you are. That said we would expect anyone that wants to send winks to have face pics in their private (for friends only) profile.... just as we do.
If we accepted a friends request and there were no face pics, we would probably delete as a friend... Is that unreasonable? |
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over a year ago
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I start from the top and work my way down, their pictures are the last thing I look at. If there is something on their profile that doesn't appeal then I won't bother with anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get really shocked and have to double check its a wink from a woman lol 
know the feeling mate lol
Whats a wink????? "
YEs its like once a month maibe a wink or so Not sure think its if u get a wink  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all get winks, day in, day out.
What's the first thing you look at when you open up the 'winkers' profile???
We personally check first for Veris, no Veris then deleted.
We then check pics.
Sounds shallow, but we have to be physically attracted to any potential play mates.
Then we read their profile.
What does everyone else do first?"
normally delete as see it as lazy chancers |
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When you open the profile it says where they are.
Scroll down, see the pics, see the veris.
If interested read the profile, check the public gallery, check the veris.
Chances are you have some mutual veris and maybe go to the same places or parties.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all get winks day in and day out???
When, and IF, I get one, I'll be sure to let you know what I do, after I come round and put some ice on the back of my head! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read the profile, check for height,location, and then look at pics . . If they're all cock shots I tend to delete. To me verifications only show that some one is 'genuine'-doesn't mean they're for us . . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pics (dick pics everywhere means I'll just leave)
If there's an attraction (no dick pics), I check how long they've been on site and whether or not they're verified.
Then I check height and profile text |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Geri's and pictures, though we wouldn't expect anyone to post face pics in their public profile. It's unreasonable to expect others go do things that you are. That said we would expect anyone that wants to send winks to have face pics in their private (for friends only) profile.... just as we do.
If we accepted a friends request and there were no face pics, we would probably delete
as a friend... Is that unreasonable?"
Totally agree, we look at whether they have veris but don't necessarily read them, then profile for similarities and then pictures for visual stimulation. We wink people as an ice breaker as there's not a smile button which is what we'd do if out and about. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I remember to check then...
Username...some are really off putting
Age and distance
Pictures ans stats etc like hight
Profile text then lastly Varies
I can stop reading at any point
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I reply with a message thanking them for there wink , and ask if I would be of interest in what there looking for, "
doesn't the wink indicate their interest in the first place? That's why i send a few winks out alongside messages.
Reading the comments from men about *shock* and *icicles*, same here!!!
Reading comments from women is helping to give me insight into how women react to initial contact *applications* from men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Check the profile to see if they match what I'm looking for and vice versa. Check pics if available, send a thanks message and hopefully make some social connection and see where it leads. |
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