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Just wondering......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You both sound fun which is great and you sound like a fantastic edition to any party. You would make great Fab friends but your veri's would put us off - they imply that you simply allow anyone to cum in your mouth and are very wild. This hints at multi play partners at parties which is just not our thing - just our personal choice. That said you should do what suits you not others so if your happy continue as you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's thoughts on our latest veri's?"
I personally think that referring to women as sluts is derogatory and distasteful, and would assume you're accepting of it having published the verification. It would put us off for sure. |
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We agree it does sound worse than what actually happened. When In fact I only had one guy and a lady.
We're just testing the waters so to speak to see what we like and what we don't. I'm having conflicting thoughts at the min. |
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"Would they scare couples of us though?
Some won't want to meet you. Some will.
Why?
You seriously need to ask why some people wont want to meet you??"
Yes, yes I do. What's wrong with that?
The veri aren't are down now anyway, as I feel that they do sound a lot worse than what actually happened but I can only vouch for that. 
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To me you sound like a nice addition to any club or party. Personally I don't worry what people think of my verifications. If they read them they can see what I'm like and make a slightly more informed decision as to weather or not they want to met me.
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Hmmm. Lots if people like to hear a woman talk as if she behaves like this but don't want to see evidence that she.actually does...double.standards I know but thats how it is.
If the verificstions don't reflect what really happened though I wonder why you've displayed them and why the people concerned wrote them. |
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Because I like them at the time due to excitement? But it's funny how other people saw it.
Now I'm not so excited and quite unsure, but hey ho I've just got put my big girl pants on and get on with it.
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"Because I like them at the time due to excitement? But it's funny how other people saw it.
Now I'm not so excited and quite unsure, but hey ho I've just got put my big girl pants on and get on with it.
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It's no good worrying about how people see what you do on here. Some will love it and want to meet because of it and some won't.
The way we are and our verifications put people off for possibly opposite reasons
but none of us will ever appeal to everyone. |
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"I'm obviously reading the wrong veri.
But in general I would only show a couple of verifications, generally choosing the more recent, more flattering, and less graphic.
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I've only kept one of a lady, and got rid of the others. |
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"I'm a terrible worrier "
About what people on an internet site will think of you? I don't think you need worry too much about that, the harsh reality is that 99% percent of those who have read this will have forgotten it by lunch time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm assuming you've took said veri down? The bit that confuses me is you haveta veri off woman who goes on to say she took my cock in both holes? Didn't realise women had cocks too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were not able to see the original veri's , but guess they were pretty graphic and mentioned group sex fun at a club .
Now if that is going to float your boat at any given time , then that's the time to display them . And if it isn't your thing at the time , then do as you have done now , and don't show them .
This swinging malarky is about you as a couple , and what you are looking to get from it .
The people you play with and what you do together is going to be much more rewarding if all parties gel , and do what you are all happy with . So if you want to be a cum slut , you need people to treat you as such , and not guys who want you to themselves . Nor do you want couples who don't want single guys joining in . So you need to look at what you are looking for on any given night .
If you want a couple straight swap , displaying them will deter them .
It's just a case of being able to see for yourselves what you really want , and using them to our advantage in order to get it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I took them down just untill I feel sure enough to put them on. Said night was a gg night.
We're experimenting.
And that type of night isn't all we're after "
Same here , we have enjoyed gg nights , but also enjoy all aspects of the scene . We display veri's which reflect this , and don't display too many of one type as we love the variety |
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Would not put us off. Can understand why some would be. On a side note this verify might give prospective meets expectaions about things that you may not be willing to do regularly.
So long as you happy then more power to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"definately a different slant on a "look at me thread""
I was just going to write that couldn't see the veris so can't comment on that but some would def put us off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They are your verifications and if you like graphic ones like that then that is all that matters, I myself do not like sexually graphic verifications.
I see a verification as a statement about the person and not a step by step account of what they will allow a meet to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They are your verifications and if you like graphic ones like that then that is all that matters, I myself do not like sexually graphic verifications.
I see a verification as a statement about the person and not a step by step account of what they will allow a meet to do. "
Totally agree there  |
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