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Why can't people just be honest
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm trying to explore my bi side and I have messages from bi guys and couples ect but when it finally comes to crunch time they decide that maybe it's not for them I personally get upset it's been a long battle for me to come to terms with bisexuality and for me to finally get up the nerve to meet guys but things like this damage my confidence so much I just wish people could understand  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Unfortunately too many people like the thought of this lifestyle but not all can actually do it. Some freeze some just talk about it. Some arrange then chicken out. Others will lie.
The only thing you can do is be honest yourself x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest talking to experienced bi men. No guarantees but they already know they like men. Don't be down,we all learn from experience x"
Or trying FabGuys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm trying to explore my bi side and I have messages from bi guys and couples ect but when it finally comes to crunch time they decide that maybe it's not for them I personally get upset it's been a long battle for me to come to terms with bisexuality and for me to finally get up the nerve to meet guys but things like this damage my confidence so much I just wish people could understand "
There's a lot more fantasists than realists here on Fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are exactly like our profile - we dont hide anything and are 110% honest.
Big learning curve is this ....... just ignore the blank profiles and learn to accept that its not as easy as it should be. Attend clubs and socials and your "swinging" meets/friends will take its natural path. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This place is weird. One minute they are keen as mustard and the next you're blocked, not even a civil goodbye.
When this place gets to you, take a break. Find other playgrounds, find a social event or a club and build real friends that you hook up with on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest talking to experienced bi men. No guarantees but they already know they like men. Don't be down,we all learn from experience x
Or trying FabGuys. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are lots of bi men in your area your next door to Brighton, just message bisexual men with verications rather than bicurious.
you also have a spa and famous dogging area where you are likely to bump into bi men |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Thank you I need all the support I can get and I will you'd think living in the gay capital of the U.K. I might be able to find some but alas "
Im confused! You're verified as having met men.
If it's a question of you having regular issues with people changing their mind (not timewasters!) it may be worth reviewing your approach.
If you're just finding it hard to get a meet? Welcome to the real world! Nothing on here is guaranteed. It makes no difference if you're straight, bi, single or couple.
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By *entkevMan
over a year ago
Dover |
As someone who has been on here for a fair while i can assure you several things:
Most of the single ladies are actually men or really playing as a married couple but list themselves as a single woman.
Expect to be teased and abused by most of the couples (verbally only.lol)
You will often get positive signals until they see a better offer... or decide they arnt really up for it.
However... there are some genuine & fantastic people on here, which is why i have stayed.
You just have to try and out the twats  |
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