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By *andk2017 OP Couple over a year ago

Stratford

Hi all, we are in two minds whether to try dogging, silly question but does dogging have to involve sex? Anyone had any experiences that could shed some light? Are there any consequences if we get caught?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all, we are in two minds whether to try dogging, silly question but does dogging have to involve sex? Anyone had any experiences that could shed some light? Are there any consequences if we get caught?"
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Thats a little confusing, by sex what do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you seen the weather outside

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can involve whatever your comfortable with. Whether it's watching someone, or being watched. Wanking guys or sucking them, to full on sex with other couples or groups of guys.

Set your rules out early and make boundaries crystal clear and you'll have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The consequences if you get caught, from what I've read could be being put on the sec offenders register. But I do to know anyone who has...

I would think most police forces would just issue a warning.

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By *andk2017 OP Couple over a year ago

Stratford

"It can involve whatever your comfortable with. Whether it's watching someone, or being watched. Wanking guys or sucking them, to full on sex with other couples or groups of guys.

Set your rules out early and make boundaries crystal clear and you'll have fun."

Hi thanks, we wernt too sure, i thought it was a "go with the flow sort of thing". I think we might start of with some light naked fun

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By *andk2017 OP Couple over a year ago

Stratford

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No it doesn't have to involve sex . You can just play orally instead. Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No it doesn't have to involve sex . You can just play orally instead. Hope this helps

since when has oral not been sex?

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

Having sex in a public place, ie, outside, is not an offence in itself, however its a big grey area as to other things coming in to play, knowingly doing it somewhere you could be seen and outraging/offending others is an offence, your best bet is just dont get caught.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Search the forums for dogging before deciding to go get perspectives from the fors and againsts to allow you to make an informed decision.

From what ive read recently its no longer the polite hobby it once was with rules regarding how far you go by using the car lights to signsl to people youd like to play with.

We parked at a known dogging site to try and understand what it was like snd for us it was a terrible experience never to betried again.

Gangs of guys pouncing on every car which pulled in peering in through the windows. Shining torches in your eyes. Cars pulling up behind us trying to prevent us reversing out to get away.

Finally got outwithout any physical violence just verbal but will never do again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its totally up to you what you do, if its a show you want to put on without anyone else involved then that's fine. If you want to invite others to play then that's your choice no one else's.

You say what you want to happen, (you set your own ground rules preferably before you go dogging that you both agree to and stick by them.)

You tell every one present just how far they can go,what they are allowed and if they step beyond your set boundaries then just tell them to go away or finish and drive off.

And if you do get the odd idiot turn up we find that we just tell them they have spoilt it for everyone and leave.

If there is anything you are not happy with then just leave.As for the previous person who say's he was blocked in then you need to become a bit more street wise and don't put yourself in a position where that can happen.

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"No it doesn't have to involve sex . You can just play orally instead. Hope this helps

since when has oral not been sex?"

Good question Mr Clinton.

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By *ercedes_SLKMan over a year ago

nottingham

The key thing to remember is that YOU hold all the cards.

Don't be afraid to talk to people. Convey to them what the boundaries are and you will find 99.9% will obide by them

As in life you get the odd idiot.

You may find visiting a well known spot to "play" might be overwhelming as they do get busy. Having said that if your just observing, then the more folk the better as you will get a broad brush slant on the scene.

As for if its an offence, I can't answer. I don't know of anybody who have been charged with an offence.

On the weather. It'll obviously be quiter now the colder weather is setting in. Some folk are fair weather doggers, some claim to be all weather participants then there are the hard core.......lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to try dogging but its funding someone willing to take me....oh and warmer weather

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By *erseyridersCouple over a year ago

wallasey

yes police have been nown 2 pose as Cpl then bust u 4 it ,,,how do I no ,,,,this happened 2 ,,two of my friends ,,both was put on sex offenders register ,,1 Cpl lost their jobs over incident ,,,gud luk ,happy swinging ,extra care is deffo needed ,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few years ago I use to go and found just a few out and about not lots dogging, I would wait for a couple that wanted to b watched it was usually dark and generally late , I would wait for a light in the car or some other sign then walk near to the car to see if anything was on show then if it was ok stand by the car and wank as they put on a show , had some good erotic times just make sure if u do it u have a good exit , I never had any trouble

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want to try dogging but its funding someone willing to take me....oh and warmer weather "
finding grr not funding

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want to try dogging but its funding someone willing to take me....oh and warmer weather finding grr not funding

Oooh spelling Police

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would be more than willing to take anyone dogging - I have a big MPV so it could be cosy inside if the lady would wish for some comfort when having fun

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By *ercedes_SLKMan over a year ago

nottingham

"yes police have been nown 2 pose as Cpl then bust u 4 it ,,,how do I no ,,,,this happened 2 ,,two of my friends ,,both was put on sex offenders register ,,1 Cpl lost their jobs over incident ,,,gud luk ,happy swinging ,extra care is deffo needed ,,

I believe you will find that is entrapment and will not stand up in a court of law.......

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By *isty286Couple over a year ago

Dorset

We are into dogging and have been for years, it can be whatever you want it to be, remember to begin with you can be Locked in your own car and don't have to do anything unless you are comfortable.

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By *erseyridersCouple over a year ago

wallasey

the female was asked wot was under her coat ,,reply was nothing y ,,he sed prove it so she did,, female officer in car got it on camera ,,,yes it went 2 court they both lost there jobs ,,female was a teacher ,,male was nurse ,,,,,call it wot ever u wish ,police tend 2 win any way they can ,,

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple over a year ago

South wales

Dogging is what u want it to be whether or not its just oral or full on sex or just putting on a show for others its what u feel comfortable with and u do have to be careful of the police as they are clamping down on it, me and my bf have been twice last night was random and fun

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By *lueeyes20thMan over a year ago

Sale

POLICE QUOTE:

"Having sex in a public place is not actually an offense – the offense is one of public indecency, or public nuisance – so it's difficult to enforce any law.

We cannot arrest anyone simply for having sex in a public place. We deal with these matters in the proportionate manner."

In other words if no one complains and you keep out of sight of anyone who is not dogging you are fine. Police will just ask you to stop and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No it doesn't have to involve sex . You can just play orally instead. Hope this helps

since when has oral not been sex?"

Ask bill Clinton lol

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"the female was asked wot was under her coat ,,reply was nothing y ,,he sed prove it so she did,, female officer in car got it on camera ,,,yes it went 2 court they both lost there jobs ,,female was a teacher ,,male was nurse ,,,,,call it wot ever u wish ,police tend 2 win any way they can ,,

what rubbish, that is not even an offence, it is only an offence if offending someone, since the supposed person asked to see under the coat, she did not commit any offence, if the supposed undercover police tried to prosecute for that it would be thrown out of any court in the country.

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