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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have in the past year asked this one question.. where are all the straight women ? every cpl single women are all bi is there any straight ladies left..?  "
100% straight here  |
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"righto we have taken on board the response...my wife recons that its what guys want..  "
It is in some cases but by no means all. Nothing is cut and dried and you can't generalise as you seem to be.
Seek out profiles where the lady is happy to play straight or is straight and you'll be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see lots of couples profiles where the female is straight. We've had 2 couples message us this week where the woman is straight. But I'm only interested in meeting couples with a bi female. "
This for me to but like most things OP, it's down to personal preference.
If I meet an MF couple, then I'll want to play with them both  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is quite an interesting one. I bet, that if you looked at all the single women profiles you would find the large majority are straight, whereas in the couples its BI. My personal theory, ahem, is that in most couples the women play bi because their partner likes it, not because they do particularly. Single women have no one to please but themselves so are honest about their sexual orientation.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm tending to the opinion that about 90% of the women on here are straight......
Some claim to be Bi, or "curious", but even then they only seem to want to dabble a little, or do it to please their men...
Where are all the real, hands-on, women-who-like-women...????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is quite an interesting one. I bet, that if you looked at all the single women profiles you would find the large majority are straight, whereas in the couples its BI. My personal theory, ahem, is that in most couples the women play bi because their partner likes it, not because they do particularly. Single women have no one to please but themselves so are honest about their sexual orientation. "
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"we have in the past year asked this one question.. where are all the straight women ? every cpl single women are all bi is there any straight ladies left..? "
Yep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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On our profile my partner is down as bi-curious.
She has played with a female friend of ours a couple of times, but has never given her oral. Just everything else really.
She doesn't class her self as bi, but also says that you can never say never, as every situation is different and it's just a case of going with the flow. |
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo |
I, like most bi ladies, admit to being bi, because I'm not ashamed to say that I like to play with both sexes, in most cases bi ladies are happy to play with either or both. Just because we're bi doesn't mean that we don't love playing with the guys.
If I plan a meet with a couple and the lady says that she doesn't want me to touch her, then I don't have a problem with it and will happily be 'straight' for that particular couple and would never dream of overstepping the boundaries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have in the past year asked this one question.. where are all the straight women ? every cpl single women are all bi is there any straight ladies left..? "
You appear to be eating the last one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi here, but as has been said, I will play straight if the lady isn't into it. I was down as bi-curious for a long time but decided I enjoy ladies far too much. Prefer men but love ladies too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many people are posting about being able to "play straight". A large part of the enjoyment I get from swinging is know ing my partners are really enjoying it and letting themselves go. If they are "playing" a different role how can they be doing that? |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
I wonder if the ladies here who claim they are straight dislike having more than one man giving them attention at the same time?
If you are in the heat of the moment do you know if it is a man helping to stimulate you or another woman? |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
I wonder if the ladies here who claim they are straight dislike having more than one man giving them attention at the same time?
If you are in the heat of the moment do you know if it is a man helping to stimulate you or another woman? |
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"This is quite an interesting one. I bet, that if you looked at all the single women profiles you would find the large majority are straight, whereas in the couples its BI. My personal theory, ahem, is that in most couples the women play bi because their partner likes it, not because they do particularly. Single women have no one to please but themselves so are honest about their sexual orientation. "
Interesting theory. Any real data to back it up?
In our case Elle is most definatly big ( or just greedy ) has been from before we met.
Elle would find it very hard to play purely straight with a lady there.
Also yet to meet a couple or single lady that seemed to be playing that way just because.
I'm sure that it happens but not sure of any percentage amount. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Many people are posting about being able to "play straight". A large part of the enjoyment I get from swinging is know ing my partners are really enjoying it and letting themselves go. If they are "playing" a different role how can they be doing that? "
I suspect the word 'playing' wasn't meant in that context - just in the context of interacting with others.
By definition bi means enjoying both sexes - so when bi/curious people play with straight people it's not an act - they get as much enjoyment as the straight people.
It's a preference.
It's like saying someone who enjoys a particular act (oral, anal, group sex etc.) would never enjoy an encounter where that act didn't occur.
It's not a question of not being yourself or acting in a false manner - bi folk are perfectly able to play either bi or straight. It's diversity - nothing more.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder if the ladies here who claim they are straight dislike having more than one man giving them attention at the same time?
If you are in the heat of the moment do you know if it is a man helping to stimulate you or another woman?"
A few years ago I had a woman help herself to me.. I was mortified and it really upset me. She hadnt asked and I just went back to not letting anyone lick my pussy. I'm what I would call bi playful... I wouldn't want a woman alone... But I do it because I like to pleasure the lady. I'm happier to give than get |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is quite an interesting one. I bet, that if you looked at all the single women profiles you would find the large majority are straight, whereas in the couples its BI. My personal theory, ahem, is that in most couples the women play bi because their partner likes it, not because they do particularly. Single women have no one to please but themselves so are honest about their sexual orientation.
Interesting theory. Any real data to back it up?
In our case Elle is most definatly big ( or just greedy ) has been from before we met.
Elle would find it very hard to play purely straight with a lady there.
Also yet to meet a couple or single lady that seemed to be playing that way just because.
I'm sure that it happens but not sure of any percentage amount."
Didn't realise I was posting in a scientific journal requiring randomised controlled trial data. I was stating my experience as a participant in group sex and threesomes/foursomes over the last couple of years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am most definitely bi and enjoyed sexual acts with women long before deciding I was bi-sexual, although I use the word "play" I mean it in the sense of an intimate encounter.. I can "play" straight with another woman, I'm not some sex craved depraved animal that jumps every woman, I am also happy just to watch whilst hubby pleases/interacts with another female, I genuinely derive pleasure from watching sexual acts as well as partaking in them. If the female wants fem/fem play as long as I am attracted to them then that's fine, but again I don't do it to please my husband in anyway, there have been several women that he likes and has played with but I do not find attractive ..etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Were both straight and find it hard to find other straight cpls most cpls we have spoken with seem to just want girl on girl getting a guy to come play with pixy is easy but try find a straight single girl to meet us is inposible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I label myself as "horny bi" if in the heat of play, something happens with the lady, great. If it doesn't, just as great. I don't search out ladies and would certainly NOT do anything because my hubby liked it or wanted me to do it.
Some people have really weird views on others  |
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"This is quite an interesting one. I bet, that if you looked at all the single women profiles you would find the large majority are straight, whereas in the couples its BI. My personal theory, ahem, is that in most couples the women play bi because their partner likes it, not because they do particularly. Single women have no one to please but themselves so are honest about their sexual orientation.
Interesting theory. Any real data to back it up?
In our case Elle is most definatly big ( or just greedy ) has been from before we met.
Elle would find it very hard to play purely straight with a lady there.
Also yet to meet a couple or single lady that seemed to be playing that way just because.
I'm sure that it happens but not sure of any percentage amount.
Didn't realise I was posting in a scientific journal requiring randomised controlled trial data. I was stating my experience as a participant in group sex and threesomes/foursomes over the last couple of years "
Rereading my post I do come across as an ass, my apologies.
Think it might just be a regional variation maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if the ladies here who claim they are straight dislike having more than one man giving them attention at the same time?
If you are in the heat of the moment do you know if it is a man helping to stimulate you or another woman?"
One man at any given time for me. That might be boring but I've no problems with it. Also, I don't claim to be be straight because I know I'm straight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't really understand why this is an issue, has a straight girl been accosted by a bi-female on a couples meet.
Surely this doesn't happen. We make arrangements to meet couples, there is a basic template agreed for play and we stick within the boundaries, such as they are.
I do not 'play' straight because I absolutely love sex with guys and I am not playing a role, even though I am bi and love the ladies too. This is in the same way my guy is not 'playing a role' when having sex with a girl who does not want anal although he quite likes this... a bit too much sometimes 
Being bisexual for me and having a bi-fem meet is just the cherry on an already delicious cream cake, but I am more than happy to eat the cake without the cherry.
Just off to the kitchen now to find chocolate, cake talk has made me hungry but hope I have made some sense.
Doubt it though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel the same about men! Where's all the honestly straight guys"
I am an honestly straight guy. There are tbh sod all str8 women around. I do know one or two tho...and those that are bi still like cock. So no worries.
One of my very regular friends has straight in her profile....but as another of my friends has pointed out...she is only a wafer thin step away from total dykedom....
She is married....but including her husband I'm the only guy she has had sex with in last 18 months ( few times a month tho...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My woman is straight, though I'd love to think (dream? Lol) that she would get off good if she was eaten by another female "
This is exactly why some women go along with the bi thing, male fantasy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My woman is straight, though I'd love to think (dream? Lol) that she would get off good if she was eaten by another female
This is exactly why some women go along with the bi thing, male fantasy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had ffM 3somes in the seventies with 5 different young 18-25 -4 were single and 1 was married-we met them socially,invited each to an evening of dining,music ,wine and an orthodox game which led to fofeits and my wife and the visiting girl giving each other mutual climaxes -we seemed to strike lucky with ( almost ) each one -either we are both irresistable or the majority of women in the right circumstances and with the right female are bisexual to a degree
on our limited experience ,80% of the females we played with enjoyed f/f sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you will find that a lot of ladies are more honest about their sexuality. I'm bi in the swinging world. In play I'm happy to pleasure a fem or two, And vice versa. But in a vanilla scenario I'd glass myself as straight. I'm comfortable with who I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you will find that a lot of ladies are more honest about their sexuality. I'm bi in the swinging world. In play I'm happy to pleasure a fem or two, And vice versa. But in a vanilla scenario I'd glass myself as straight. I'm comfortable with who I am "
ooops class* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabs turned them all bi lol "
You could be on to something there! Before I joined fab and for a good year after joining I classed myself as straight... Then I stated going to clubs with an old fb. Seeing women playing, and not necessarily with each other, seemed to awaken some curiosity in me. I've still only really dipped my toes into exploring, and haven't found any couples I feel compatible with for a while, but I have enjoyed most of the experiences I've had and am to open more... So I guess I'm kind of at the straighter end of being bi |
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