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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine. |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
Thank god for that 
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
couldn't put it any better myself, so won't
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've seen many guys over the years boast 'I can go for hours!', and that's really not something to brag about as in my experience, when you're going about sex the right way, ie with affection, passion and energy you CAN'T last for hours - what I do like however is rounds - have sex, cuddle and chat for a bit, then have some more sex, a great way to while away a few hours with a sexy partner |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
Well said! I couldn't agree more |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more "
Cant agree with that at all. There is no point in good foreplay, if the sex is shite. If you have good technique, you can be three hours in and only need to stop because your muscles are aching. |
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"I've seen many guys over the years boast 'I can go for hours!', and that's really not something to brag about as in my experience, when you're going about sex the right way, ie with affection, passion and energy you CAN'T last for hours - what I do like however is rounds - have sex, cuddle and chat for a bit, then have some more sex, a great way to while away a few hours with a sexy partner "
What time do you want me round?! |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more
Cant agree with that at all. There is no point in good foreplay, if the sex is shite. If you have good technique, you can be three hours in and only need to stop because your muscles are aching. "
The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more
Cant agree with that at all. There is no point in good foreplay, if the sex is shite. If you have good technique, you can be three hours in and only need to stop because your muscles are aching.
The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book."
You are never going to get multiple orgasms without penetration. Enough said in my book lol |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more
Cant agree with that at all. There is no point in good foreplay, if the sex is shite. If you have good technique, you can be three hours in and only need to stop because your muscles are aching.
The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
You are never going to get multiple orgasms without penetration. Enough said in my book lol"
And you know me enough to say that? Have to say, you are most definitely wrong from my POV. I orgasm more from other things than sex. |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more "
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Thought you might agree . But I do too |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen many guys over the years boast 'I can go for hours!', and that's really not something to brag about as in my experience, when you're going about sex the right way, ie with affection, passion and energy you CAN'T last for hours - what I do like however is rounds - have sex, cuddle and chat for a bit, then have some more sex, a great way to while away a few hours with a sexy partner "
I agree with the rounds comment. If each round is different it's so much better than banging away |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more
Cant agree with that at all. There is no point in good foreplay, if the sex is shite. If you have good technique, you can be three hours in and only need to stop because your muscles are aching.
The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
You are never going to get multiple orgasms without penetration. Enough said in my book lol"
.  not true, sorry! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more
Cant agree with that at all. There is no point in good foreplay, if the sex is shite. If you have good technique, you can be three hours in and only need to stop because your muscles are aching.
The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
You are never going to get multiple orgasms without penetration. Enough said in my book lol
And you know me enough to say that? Have to say, you are most definitely wrong from my POV. I orgasm more from other things than sex."
I was more meaning 'you' in the 3rd person rather than meaning 'you' directly. But if we are getting into it, multiples are are usually done with penetration. If women could enjoy multiples (or even sex) without penetration, there would be no need for men.
So as I was saying, you can have all the skills in the world but if your sex is shite, you are never going to blow your top.
Yes you can come more than once without penetration yes, but multiples are more often than not done with. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I was more meaning 'you' in the 3rd person rather than meaning 'you' directly. But if we are getting into it, multiples are are usually done with penetration. If women could enjoy multiples (or even sex) without penetration, there would be no need for men.
So as I was saying, you can have all the skills in the world but if your sex is shite, you are never going to blow your top.
Yes you can come more than once without penetration yes, but multiples are more often than not done with. "
The times I have had multiples, it hasn't been with penetrative sex - and I know my friends are similar, but I'll bow to your superior knowledge of female orgasm and sex.  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I was more meaning 'you' in the 3rd person rather than meaning 'you' directly. But if we are getting into it, multiples are are usually done with penetration. If women could enjoy multiples (or even sex) without penetration, there would be no need for men.
So as I was saying, you can have all the skills in the world but if your sex is shite, you are never going to blow your top.
Yes you can come more than once without penetration yes, but multiples are more often than not done with.
The times I have had multiples, it hasn't been with penetrative sex - and I know my friends are similar, but I'll bow to your superior knowledge of female orgasm and sex. "
So going back to what my pint is. YOU NEED GOOD SEXUAL TECHNIQUE!
Or are you saying blokes cant ever give multiples. As that would then stand to reason if YOU cannot achieve them with a guy. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
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I was more meaning 'you' in the 3rd person rather than meaning 'you' directly. But if we are getting into it, multiples are are usually done with penetration. If women could enjoy multiples (or even sex) without penetration, there would be no need for men.
So as I was saying, you can have all the skills in the world but if your sex is shite, you are never going to blow your top.
Yes you can come more than once without penetration yes, but multiples are more often than not done with.
The times I have had multiples, it hasn't been with penetrative sex - and I know my friends are similar, but I'll bow to your superior knowledge of female orgasm and sex.
So going back to what my pint is. YOU NEED GOOD SEXUAL TECHNIQUE!
Or are you saying blokes cant ever give multiples. As that would then stand to reason if YOU cannot achieve them with a guy."
I have quite clearly stated, that the times I have had multiples - with male or female partners it hasn't been reliant on penetrative sex. I've had more multiples on a night without penetrative sex than any other time. So I'm not saying I cannot achieve it with a guy at all - i am saying penetration isn't the deciding factor... so I'd agree its good technique but not necessary to penetrate to achieve. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I have quite clearly stated, that the times I have had multiples - with male or female partners it hasn't been reliant on penetrative sex. I've had more multiples on a night without penetrative sex than any other time. So I'm not saying I cannot achieve it with a guy at all - i am saying penetration isn't the deciding factor... so I'd agree its good technique but not necessary to penetrate to achieve."
So you would then concede that a guy needs good foreplay and good technique.
crikey, that took a lot.
(And you are now changing what you are saying. on one hand you say both you and your friends whenever you have had multiples it has been without penetration to now having more without penetration - which would mean you have had them with.
I am not picking hairs, just pointing out what you have said) |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"We also have girls that just lie like a dead horse and expect it all to happen without any effort at all. Any views?"
lol the best of meet those. Agreed! But is always us guys that need to be "good in bed". Dont ya just love women though! LOL  |
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"The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book."
I've had just that experience very recently and I'm like a bloody coiled spring, I think I may just pass out with anticipation. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
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I have quite clearly stated, that the times I have had multiples - with male or female partners it hasn't been reliant on penetrative sex. I've had more multiples on a night without penetrative sex than any other time. So I'm not saying I cannot achieve it with a guy at all - i am saying penetration isn't the deciding factor... so I'd agree its good technique but not necessary to penetrate to achieve.
So you would then concede that a guy needs good foreplay and good technique.
crikey, that took a lot.
(And you are now changing what you are saying. on one hand you say both you and your friends whenever you have had multiples it has been without penetration to now having more without penetration - which would mean you have had them with.
I am not picking hairs, just pointing out what you have said)"
I've had multiples prior to penetration... that has just been the final act as it were... so have multiples before that, so penetration hasn't been a decider at all - as being blunt I haven't had multiples when a cock or strap on is up there.
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
I've had just that experience very recently and I'm like a bloody coiled spring, I think I may just pass out with anticipation."
I hope you two come back with a thumbs up if they were decent. Sounds like you have both just worn out 2 blokes lol |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
I've had just that experience very recently and I'm like a bloody coiled spring, I think I may just pass out with anticipation."
I'm glad its not just me having that experience then... cannot wait for monday night for the next steps.  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I've had multiples prior to penetration... that has just been the final act as it were... so have multiples before that, so penetration hasn't been a decider at all - as being blunt I haven't had multiples when a cock or strap on is up there.
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Well dont tar us all with the same brush, until you've had decent sex. I never like a woman bowing btw. |
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"The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
I've had just that experience very recently and I'm like a bloody coiled spring, I think I may just pass out with anticipation."
this is what I haven't had for ages.....I need this! |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
I've had just that experience very recently and I'm like a bloody coiled spring, I think I may just pass out with anticipation.
I hope you two come back with a thumbs up if they were decent. Sounds like you have both just worn out 2 blokes lol"
worn out, thoroughly distracted, and very much enjoying the build up to the next stage...
"Well dont tar us all with the same brush, until you've had decent sex. I never like a woman bowing btw."
At no stage have I tarred anyone saying it would never happen - I just said in my experience it hasn't happened for me. I have had decent sex - please do not presume to judge my sex life.
As for not liking bowing - well maybe you don't know what you are missing |
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Good sex for me is the connection, the look in the eye, the feeling that look gives you followed by exploratory kisses that light the fire in my belly, and yes I am all about penetration, deep slow sensual sex is the best thing no matter how long it goes on for. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
I've had just that experience very recently and I'm like a bloody coiled spring, I think I may just pass out with anticipation.
I hope you two come back with a thumbs up if they were decent. Sounds like you have both just worn out 2 blokes lol
worn out, thoroughly distracted, and very much enjoying the build up to the next stage...
Well dont tar us all with the same brush, until you've had decent sex. I never like a woman bowing btw.
At no stage have I tarred anyone saying it would never happen - I just said in my experience it hasn't happened for me. I have had decent sex - please do not presume to judge my sex life.
As for not liking bowing - well maybe you don't know what you are missing "
It seems as I am giving the education here, one which you have just agreed with despite your early contention. And no. I do not like a woman bowing, I find it irritating. But again, that is another story. |
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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
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"The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
I've had just that experience very recently and I'm like a bloody coiled spring, I think I may just pass out with anticipation. this is what I haven't had for ages.....I need this!"
Me too! |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
Could not agree more. I have found that, with control, I can go for ages...but have also found, with experience, that this is rarely necessary. With good foreplay, oral and manual, often allowing the lady to come a few times, giving her peaks and troughs before penetration then penetration is only required for a few minutes before we both can let go fully. |
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"I've seen many guys over the years boast 'I can go for hours!', and that's really not something to brag about as in my experience, when you're going about sex the right way, ie with affection, passion and energy you CAN'T last for hours - what I do like however is rounds - have sex, cuddle and chat for a bit, then have some more sex, a great way to while away a few hours with a sexy partner "
. Excellent point . Quality over quantity wins every time . No enjoyment if you do not climax eventually. Those who say they can last for hours are in a dream world . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Someone who can read my body like a book and play it like a violin...penetration isn't always necessary but heightens the experience...hammering away for hours just makes me bored and dry... |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next... |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next... "
So true!! They just show themselves up as idiots.
Although saying that... perhaps it's a self confidence thing. They think women want sex gods.
Seriously guys.... just be yourself. If a woman likes you for YOU surely that means more than the higmaintenance women types that have sky high demands and bullshit requirements? x |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next... "
do you realise - that if someone wasn't banging away like a barn door in a storm, there may have not been as much discussion?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As with all sex it's all down to sexual preferences. One woman can think you're great in bed, another one just average.
It takes two to be good ( or compatible ) in bed, if you don't click it rarely is good in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next...
do you realise - that if someone wasn't banging away like a barn door in a storm, there may have not been as much discussion? "
The banging away technique has its place in a sexual encounter. It feels good at the right time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with all sex it's all down to sexual preferences. One woman can think you're great in bed, another one just average.
It takes two to be good ( or compatible ) in bed, if you don't click it rarely is good in my experience."
ok you put it better than I did |
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next...
do you realise - that if someone wasn't banging away like a barn door in a storm, there may have not been as much discussion? "
Not sure what your point is? Someone had to be bad in bed to generate the discussion? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next...
do you realise - that if someone wasn't banging away like a barn door in a storm, there may have not been as much discussion?
Not sure what your point is? Someone had to be bad in bed to generate the discussion?"
But the thread is on what makes people good in bed.
The person who suggested non-penetration and instead a concentration on foreplay over actual sex, suggested that 'banging away like a barn door in a storm' was crap. I agree, however, if the guy has decent technique - banging till your balls are blue and she is as red as a lobster would not be a concern.
As I said earlier, if you have technique, you can go (and enjoy sex mutually) for hours, and the only reason to stop is because you ache.
It is not my fault if people haven't experienced this type of sex - though in my experience, technique wins hands down. |
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next...
do you realise - that if someone wasn't banging away like a barn door in a storm, there may have not been as much discussion?
Not sure what your point is? Someone had to be bad in bed to generate the discussion?"
And seen as I was the only one talking about multiple orgasms. I thank you for your outstanding critique of my meets. |
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next...
do you realise - that if someone wasn't banging away like a barn door in a storm, there may have not been as much discussion?
Not sure what your point is? Someone had to be bad in bed to generate the discussion?
But the thread is on what makes people good in bed.
The person who suggested non-penetration and instead a concentration on foreplay over actual sex, suggested that 'banging away like a barn door in a storm' was crap. I agree, however, if the guy has decent technique - banging till your balls are blue and she is as red as a lobster would not be a concern.
As I said earlier, if you have technique, you can go (and enjoy sex mutually) for hours, and the only reason to stop is because you ache.
It is not my fault if people haven't experienced this type of sex - though in my experience, technique wins hands down. "
And I think the point some of the women are making is, you're completely right - IF that is what the woman wants too (but sometimes it isn't). |
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next...
So true!! They just show themselves up as idiots.
Although saying that... perhaps it's a self confidence thing. They think women want sex gods.
Seriously guys.... just be yourself. If a woman likes you for YOU surely that means more than the higmaintenance women types that have sky high demands and bullshit requirements? x"
A man could be hung like a horse, look like Adonis, press all the right buttons, and still leave you feeling 'Meh'. It's the sum of the parts.......
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next...
do you realise - that if someone wasn't banging away like a barn door in a storm, there may have not been as much discussion?
Not sure what your point is? Someone had to be bad in bed to generate the discussion?
But the thread is on what makes people good in bed.
The person who suggested non-penetration and instead a concentration on foreplay over actual sex, suggested that 'banging away like a barn door in a storm' was crap. I agree, however, if the guy has decent technique - banging till your balls are blue and she is as red as a lobster would not be a concern.
As I said earlier, if you have technique, you can go (and enjoy sex mutually) for hours, and the only reason to stop is because you ache.
It is not my fault if people haven't experienced this type of sex - though in my experience, technique wins hands down. "
yeah-you didn't actually answer my question and just repeating your assertion from an earlier post doesn't make it any more true for everyone...I know what I enjoy in a sexual encounter and penetration with someone with technique is a part of a cornucopia of delicious courses in a sumptuous feast...no matter how good someone's technique is, if all that he has in his toolbox is penetration, I'm going to be bored pretty quickly...I love sessions that go on for hours but always prefer a mezze rather than a big full on stodgy main course... |
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"This thread does make me giggle...the women are giving serious answers, hints and tips about what we feel makes a good lover to us...the men have entered into a pissing competition...
I can almost hear the virtual voices...no no! I'll tell you what makes a good lover! It's me! My technique is impeccable...everybody says so...I can give multiple orgasms...I can breathe through my ears is surely coming next...
do you realise - that if someone wasn't banging away like a barn door in a storm, there may have not been as much discussion?
Not sure what your point is? Someone had to be bad in bed to generate the discussion?
And seen as I was the only one talking about multiple orgasms. I thank you for your outstanding critique of my meets. "
It wasn't aimed at you actually or anyone in particular, just the usual pissing contests that ensue in these kinds of threads, but if the cap fits, sunshine, pull it right on, set it at a jaunty angle and crack on... |
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By *oodmessMan
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yeah-you didn't actually answer my question and just repeating your assertion from an earlier post doesn't make it any more true for everyone...I know what I enjoy in a sexual encounter and penetration with someone with technique is a part of a cornucopia of delicious courses in a sumptuous feast...no matter how good someone's technique is, if all that he has in his toolbox is penetration, I'm going to be bored pretty quickly...I love sessions that go on for hours but always prefer a mezze rather than a big full on stodgy main course..."
So the bloat of ego, or boasting or look at me because I am great - as you say, is nonsensical.
The person who suggested 'the barn door in a storm' did so because they dont like to be hammered till they are blue, however, what I have been saying all along in this mezze, is there is no point in giving oral till you are blue, if your sex is shite.
You seem to agree with what I say in your post, but then make out as If I (or any guy) is gloating when THEY say it? |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
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yeah-you didn't actually answer my question and just repeating your assertion from an earlier post doesn't make it any more true for everyone...I know what I enjoy in a sexual encounter and penetration with someone with technique is a part of a cornucopia of delicious courses in a sumptuous feast...no matter how good someone's technique is, if all that he has in his toolbox is penetration, I'm going to be bored pretty quickly...I love sessions that go on for hours but always prefer a mezze rather than a big full on stodgy main course...
So the bloat of ego, or boasting or look at me because I am great - as you say, is nonsensical.
The person who suggested 'the barn door in a storm' did so because they dont like to be hammered till they are blue, however, what I have been saying all along in this mezze, is there is no point in giving oral till you are blue, if your sex is shite.
You seem to agree with what I say in your post, but then make out as If I (or any guy) is gloating when THEY say it? "
I don't agree...what I actually say is entirely opposite to what you're saying. From reading your post...it's a great trick, you should try it some time, you say that actually, going for hours until you're blue in the balls is great as long as you have technique, and that the women who are saying that they don't want that just haven't experienced someone who's good at it...i am countering that with, no actually, I personally don't. Id rather they had more in their repertoire...because i personally find that much more interesting and appealing...I'm not claiming to speak for anyone else, I am basing this purely on my own preferences...so no, I don't agree with you. Clear enough for you? |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
Bravo! |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
''Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm..." |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
''Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm..." "
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By *oodmessMan
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I don't agree...what I actually say is entirely opposite to what you're saying. From reading your post...it's a great trick, you should try it some time, you say that actually, going for hours until you're blue in the balls is great as long as you have technique, and that the women who are saying that they don't want that just haven't experienced someone who's good at it...i am countering that with, no actually, I personally don't. Id rather they had more in their repertoire...because i personally find that much more interesting and appealing...I'm not claiming to speak for anyone else, I am basing this purely on my own preferences...so no, I don't agree with you. Clear enough for you?"
I dont actually understand any of what you have said in all honesty. That includes your deflecting questions, mystical buffets, pretence about opinion, pretence about male ability or a circumvented agreement with me that you need all round skill. You have your opinion, great, but prodding and poking that I am writing though some kind of vanity is wholly different.
What I have said is:
- Penetrative sex with skill means better sex.
- Having good foreplay is not a be all and end all for good sex.
- The most fantastic foreplay in the world will be shattered by shite sex.
There are no tricks to what I am saying, it is quite simple - sorry if you think otherwise.
If you have experienced good sex, you will experience better sex with the addition of good penetration also. It's not maths, and I don't play semantic games surprisingly for one one-upmanship.  |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more
Cant agree with that at all. There is no point in good foreplay, if the sex is shite. If you have good technique, you can be three hours in and only need to stop because your muscles are aching.
The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
You are never going to get multiple orgasms without penetration. Enough said in my book lol
And you know me enough to say that? Have to say, you are most definitely wrong from my POV. I orgasm more from other things than sex.
I was more meaning 'you' in the 3rd person rather than meaning 'you' directly. But if we are getting into it, multiples are are usually done with penetration. If women could enjoy multiples (or even sex) without penetration, there would be no need for men.
So as I was saying, you can have all the skills in the world but if your sex is shite, you are never going to blow your top.
Yes you can come more than once without penetration yes, but multiples are more often than not done with. "
Oh dear me. Only a man could come out with these comments. I've had a woman provide me with more multiple orgasms than any man has pounding away fruitlessly with his cock. Sigh. |
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By *oodmessMan
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Oh dear me. Only a man could come out with these comments. I've had a woman provide me with more multiple orgasms than any man has pounding away fruitlessly with his cock. Sigh. "
Good on you. But I have never once said I guy should pound away. I have been talking about technique.
I dont quite understand the 'oh dear me'. It's not like I have said
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Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine."
Which if guys were to take that on - it'd me foreplay all the way and forget the "small part", which would be technique. |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more .
Thought you might agree . But I do too "
You know me too well |
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For the sex to be great I need someone who can stimulate all of me including my brain, I am not difficult to make cum through penetration so someone just banging away would make me orgasm. But just because I have had an orgasm does not mean I have had good sex or great sex. |
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"Banging away for hours = hello cystitis.
For me, there's a lot more to it than that, and it's completely true that good sex starts in the mind."
Couldn't agree more. Often stumped by how many people fail to realise it! |
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that look/ kiss that starts it all off - good behind the front door/ on the stairs/ never mind the bed -
when you work as one body - each knowing how to make the other tick and often finding new triggers
my mind is saying allsorts but would take too long to write so just sit here squirming nicely at the thoughts im having |
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"I find how good he is in bed starts way before the bedroom.
Its attitude, charisma, sex appeal, charm, and then skills.
Banging away all night like a barn door in a storm does not appeal... penetrative sex should just be a small part of a good guys repertoire, same as its only a small part of mine.
Well said! I couldn't agree more
Cant agree with that at all. There is no point in good foreplay, if the sex is shite. If you have good technique, you can be three hours in and only need to stop because your muscles are aching.
The best night I have ever had, we never had penetrative sex at all... absolutely mind blowing, and a very strong sexual connection that is building til we next meet so its not all about the sex in my book.
You are never going to get multiple orgasms without penetration. Enough said in my book lol"
What?!
Is this how most men think?! |
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