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Why do we have certain kinks?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love women in stockings! Absolutely adore plain topped dark ones. The reason being that when I was about 10 or 11, I was on a flight to America and an air hostess crouched down and I saw her stocking tops. It was a sexual awakening for me and I remember masturbating over that sight for years.
The question is, what kinks do people have and do they recall what first sparked their interest in it?
First post......go easy on me please ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without the benefit of psychoanalysis I wouldn't like to hazard a guess where mine come from. Though reading and viewing other peoples kinks can spark an interest that was never even considered before, sometimes things that I have never heard of. |
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Women in opaque tights and wedge heels, from all the way back in school when my crush used to wear them.
Dark haired women with sleeve tattoos don't know where this came from.
Harsh blowjobs and facefucking, this came about as the wife doesn't like blowjobs so don't get many, it became fetishized over the years |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I understand where u r coming from. Mine was a mothers friend flashing her lacy silky panties to me regularly but i think unintentionally when i was 11. Ive been into looking at womens panties ever since ( i dont like wearin them may i add).   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was on a beach as a kiddie and in front of me a lady was wrapped in a towel changing out of her swimming costume. Then there was a gust of wind and for a brief moment, no more than a second I'd say, the towel blew open and I saw my first hairy bush (this early 80's I'd say) and since then I've always been interested in voyeurism.
I don't do anything illegal like spying on people or concealing cameras or anything like that, but I do like to watch others get naked and having sex (with their consent). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I also love seeing ladies pee outside. Comes from an outdoor concert when I was about 16, limited toilets and I saw about 100 women having to pee beside a hoarding at the back of the park. Fascinated me at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I also love seeing ladies pee outside. Comes from an outdoor concert when I was about 16, limited toilets and I saw about 100 women having to pee beside a hoarding at the back of the park. Fascinated me at the time"
You was perving. Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I also love seeing ladies pee outside. Comes from an outdoor concert when I was about 16, limited toilets and I saw about 100 women having to pee beside a hoarding at the back of the park. Fascinated me at the time
You was perving. Lol "
I guess I was but where I was sat,I'm couldn't help but see! Was with a girlfriend at the time and she saw it too. I was a very horny hormonal lad at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep I think most of my interests or kinks came from very early exploratory or formative experiences. MMF, bi-curiosity, even just that the barbers (run by women), I went to as a lad, had pictures of naked women plastered all over the walls. Certainly made getting my hair cut more interesting. The first porn picture I ever saw was DP. Can still see it now. I'm pretty sure they influenced what turns me on now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a foot fetish, love sucking pretty toes etc. Anyway, a recent visit to my parents & we were talking about things we did as young children / babies. My mum then informed me, my wife & children that I used to bite peoples toes when I was crawling around as a baby!!
So I'm guessing that's when it started!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think my kink for pretty toes and large hard pert nipples came from Fiesta Readers wives back in the 70s and 80s. They just fascinated me, wanked for years over them! I use porn sites for them now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't remember a time when my particular kink wasn't there (it was WAY before puberty lol), although I wasn't aware of it being a sexual thing at the time, but was completely fascinated by it. As I've grown older and as my wife and I have grown as a couple we have embraced each others kinks and found a few new ones along the way! |
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Aged 15 i worked in a supermarket and every morning the 16 year old office girl would saunter up the stairs behind the greengrocers dept making sure we got a long look up her mini skirt. I remember those tightly stretched white cotton nickers as if it were yesterday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Seeing girls smoke at school, esp the innocent ones did it for me.
Not so much fetish and turn on but it holds a mild voyueristic quality without being sexual.
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My mother died when I was 2, I went to various families after school, they all only had daughters.
I was 12 and one daughter at 15 liked me teasing her in many ways ... Her 12 yr old sister thought it disgusting. After putting my head up the 12 yr olds skirt to sniff her knickers she reported me to her mum ... I was severely told off ...
Carried on with 15 yr old when it all died down, only being instructed where to lick clit, cunt and arse (often through soiled knickers) until she came ... Never sex. I am sure that was the source of my kinks ... Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My mother died when I was 2, I went to various families after school, they all only had daughters.
I was 12 and one daughter at 15 liked me teasing her in many ways ... Her 12 yr old sister thought it disgusting. After putting my head up the 12 yr olds skirt to sniff her knickers she reported me to her mum ... I was severely told off ...
Carried on with 15 yr old when it all died down, only being instructed where to lick clit, cunt and arse (often through soiled knickers) until she came ... Never sex. I am sure that was the source of my kinks ... Lol "
theres honesty for ya |
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I remember in my early teens secretly watching a very attractive neighbour undressing walking around nude then puting on really nice lingerie and stockings with her bedroom light on and curtains slightly open. I'm pretty sure she was teasing me. I used to wank for ages. She awakened my sexuality. I've never lost my love and fetish for stockings and lingerie |
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so that could possibly be it?! Runs in family hehe 