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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, i notice that a lot of profiles state interests including cuckolding.
Having spent 5 years as a cuck , then switching to BULL when i became single,i fully understand the whole scenario of whats involved......
My question is....how many fabswingers are actually currently or in the last year or so been involved in an ongoing cuckold/ hotwive/bull relationship |
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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago
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"I don't see how you spend 5 years as a cuck and then decide your now a bull. Not saying it's not possible but I find it strange. "
I don't really get that either.
However, after being on here for 5 weeks or so, my experience with many of the Hotwife / cuck couples I've spoken to appear to be either blokes who seem to have no wife at all - or they're nothing but fantasists, who like the idea of being cuckolded but haven't actually communicated the idea to their wife. 
I haven't given up...YET.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't see how you spend 5 years as a cuck and then decide your now a bull. Not saying it's not possible but I find it strange. "
I appreciate your views. I was in a very long term relationship, the last 5 of which we opened up with 3 somes etc. This then led to her becoming more of a hotwife and me increasingly enjoying and having my boundaries pushed as a cuckold...
When the relationship ended i met 2 couples and found that i also enjoyed the role of being someone elses wifes lover and took pleasure in putting their husbands through the physical and emotional experiances that i enjoyed as a cuck....the result was enjoyed by all parties and it went from there really...hope that helps you to understand  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In a way i feel it also gives me a greater understanding of the whole thing and that the hotwife and cuck are treated respectfully....,too many bulls want a quick fuck with no holds barred, for me its more about all parties enjoying and exploring |
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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago
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"In a way i feel it also gives me a greater understanding of the whole thing and that the hotwife and cuck are treated respectfully....,too many bulls want a quick fuck with no holds barred, for me its more about all parties enjoying and exploring "
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"I don't see how you spend 5 years as a cuck and then decide your now a bull. Not saying it's not possible but I find it strange. "
It's like being gay then after 5 years deciding to be straight I was too in a cuckold marriage and wish I could become a bull but it's not physically or mentally possible |
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"I don't see how you spend 5 years as a cuck and then decide your now a bull. Not saying it's not possible but I find it strange.
It's like being gay then after 5 years deciding to be straight I was too in a cuckold marriage and wish I could become a bull but it's not physically or mentally possible "
Why's it so strange? I can switch from sub to Dom, you can understand both sides, give what's wanted and understand the mental side. So why can't a man? The Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has sex with others while I sit and watch. We dont use bulls, nobody gets disrespected or humiliated but we are a cuckold couple in its truest form  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see how you spend 5 years as a cuck and then decide your now a bull. Not saying it's not possible but I find it strange.
It's like being gay then after 5 years deciding to be straight I was too in a cuckold marriage and wish I could become a bull but it's not physically or mentally possible
Why's it so strange? I can switch from sub to Dom, you can understand both sides, give what's wanted and understand the mental side. So why can't a man? The Mrs "
Lots of people can switch, i don't see a problem either |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't see how you spend 5 years as a cuck and then decide your now a bull. Not saying it's not possible but I find it strange.
It's like being gay then after 5 years deciding to be straight I was too in a cuckold marriage and wish I could become a bull but it's not physically or mentally possible
Why's it so strange? I can switch from sub to Dom, you can understand both sides, give what's wanted and understand the mental side. So why can't a man? The Mrs
Lots of people can switch, i don't see a problem either "
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"My wife has sex with others while I sit and watch. We dont use bulls, nobody gets disrespected or humiliated but we are a cuckold couple in its truest form "
Also love this but I think it is time to take things to the next level. Had some great nights flirting with cuckold situations and I deffo loved it.
Had an amazing night with a guy off here, who gave me a lovely shag, whilst terry laid underneath licking my clit. The resultant orgasm I had was amazing and Terry very nearly drowned T .   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In a way i feel it also gives me a greater understanding of the whole thing and that the hotwife and cuck are treated respectfully....,too many bulls want a quick fuck with no holds barred, for me its more about all parties enjoying and exploring "
Someone who understands fully!
It isn't just wannabe cucks (fantasists or single blokes pretending). There are also way too many "bulls" in same category...assuming it is same/similar to "dom" (and probably think that is as in 50shades style (god MR Grey would get eaten by some of the ladies I know).
So many guys think pretending to be or being a dom makes them also a bull.... So misunderstood! |
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I would not equate being a cuck to being gay.
One is the way your made, the other is a sexual choice.
I can enjoy cuckold scenarios, I can enjoy straight sex, just tonight enjoyed describing a gangbang situation with a woman other than my wife too my wife.
It's not the same as being gay. I think some people see cuckold and think it's a total lifestyle.
But for many it's just another thing on the range of sexual experiences. They may do it often, but it does not mean they are excluded from a loving 'normal' sexual relationship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would not equate being a cuck to being gay.
One is the way your made, the other is a sexual choice.
I can enjoy cuckold scenarios, I can enjoy straight sex, just tonight enjoyed describing a gangbang situation with a woman other than my wife too my wife.
It's not the same as being gay. I think some people see cuckold and think it's a total lifestyle.
But for many it's just another thing on the range of sexual experiences. They may do it often, but it does not mean they are excluded from a loving 'normal' sexual relationship.
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Who mentioned being gay? |
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"I don't see how you spend 5 years as a cuck and then decide your now a bull. Not saying it's not possible but I find it strange.
It's like being gay then after 5 years deciding to be straight I was too in a cuckold marriage and wish I could become a bull but it's not physically or mentally possible "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We explore what we call cuck adventures. To be cuck all the time would be boring. However if that was what Mrs n wanted for a while I daresay I would submit, but she doesn't seem to want that.
I have to be something of a chameleon. At meets either be dom or sub. I do have quite a responsible job where people expect alot from me. In sexual matters it is nice to just sit back and relax, be a voyeur and be humiliated or play out the role we have organised with the guy that has been selected.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The answer to the original question is I have , and it seems like lots of people have lots of different ideas of what cuckolding is and what a bull is it is in essence a relationship that all enjoy between a couple and an extra man , how far this goes into extreme cuckolding is down to all three's wishes and this is the key to great cuckolding everyone involved being stimulated .
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By *roy9Man
over a year ago
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I've got into this via enjoying 3somes, and finding one or two couples like me to take the wife while hubby looks on not getting involved. I've never been in the situation where the guy would like to be humiliated. I use to think that was too cruel for me to do, but I now have a better understanding of the dynamics and have been exploring my dominate side in the last year, so now feel I could do that, if that is what the couple wanted. My limited experience so far of Cuckolding, is that different couples are often looking for different things and partly its being flexible enough to accommodate that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't see how you spend 5 years as a cuck and then decide your now a bull. Not saying it's not possible but I find it strange.
It's like being gay then after 5 years deciding to be straight I was too in a cuckold marriage and wish I could become a bull but it's not physically or mentally possible "
Rubbish.
We are vastly different people at different times in our life.
Would you use the same analogy for a dom switch? |
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