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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I rejected someone earlier as he wasn't for me.
The reply fat slag!!
If I get insults least tell me something I dont know ha!
Whats the best insult you had of late. No naming people pls
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"I rejected someone earlier as he wasn't for me.
The reply fat slag!!
If I get insults least tell me something I dont know ha!
Whats the best insult you had of late. No naming people pls
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Worst insult? "You were fantastic". Not even awesome - just fantastic.
I ask you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get called facebook swingers a lot, we prefer more original insults though"
Lol.... I could think of a few...but then you would know I was only messing again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That we are sick fucks for fucking people with kids in the house (thats a 1 year old and 2 year old in cots asleep by the way) and that we are narrow minded racist scum for not meeting blacks or asians  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got called a fat worthless slag for rejecting someone who in their last message was calling me a gorgeous girl who they would love fuck 
So funny how quick someone's tune can change! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone called me a gold digger, after I didn't reply to his message, which seemed a bit random. 
Oh, and I got accused of being Vicky off Geordie Shore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once got messaged by a 'girl' saying that her and her 'girlfriends' had all been laughing at my pathetic, photoshopped cock pics.
Needless to say, I was distraught. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got called an "ignorant fat cunt" the other day for not replying to someone. They obviously didnt mind me being a "fat cunt" an hour earlier when they asked me to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got called an "ignorant fat cunt" the other day for not replying to someone. They obviously didnt mind me being a "fat cunt" an hour earlier when they asked me to meet "
I've had very similar for saying no to people.
I just report, block and moved on.....happened too often to have much impact on me now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely this place could be improved if the T&Cs included a rule that abusing another user would result in instant profile deletion, and then each message could have a report button. If you get abused, click report, mods review it and bingo the fucksocket that sent it is history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We dont get insults ... If its a no,( polite one! ) we block their arses before they got that option! Simples "
I had to turn u down my cock was too big apparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rejected someone earlier as he wasn't for me.
The reply fat slag!!
If I get insults least tell me something I dont know ha!
Whats the best insult you had of late. No naming people pls
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None , because if someone isn't for us we block them  |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
more north lincs than mids! |
"Surely this place could be improved if the T&Cs included a rule that abusing another user would result in instant profile deletion, and then each message could have a report button. If you get abused, click report, mods review it and bingo the fucksocket that sent it is history."
there is a report function on each message that admin review and deal with appropriately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't really get much back if there not interested, which is annoying ..... Almost knowing they have read the mail and not deleted it! I hate that give me feedback hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im only pulling ur leg haha! Dont get excited u would turn me down for opposite reason more like haha lol ... Too young for me ... I got 3rd cousins your age! Lol "
No u was wondering if I had 3rd leg more like! Ur reasons and excuse |
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"we got 1 this morning stating that they had made a mistake in contacting us and that there were too many grammatical errors in our profile? best 1 yet  "
Just noticed those grammatical errors.....your not for me either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy who we removed off our friend list as we never talked messaged to say he was too good for me anyway as he had looked at our verifications and all the guys we meet are rough !
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"I rejected someone earlier as he wasn't for me.
The reply fat slag!!
If I get insults least tell me something I dont know ha!
Whats the best insult you had of late. No naming people pls
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should be able to name and shame to bugger his chances with other ladies |
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"I rejected someone earlier as he wasn't for me.
The reply fat slag!!
If I get insults least tell me something I dont know ha!
Whats the best insult you had of late. No naming people pls
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Today or in general
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's so sad, I apologise on his behalf, not all men are small minded twats believe me. I can honestly say, I've never been insulted, and would never insult a lady because I'm not her type. There are some nice people on here |
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"I rejected someone earlier as he wasn't for me.
The reply fat slag!!
If I get insults least tell me something I dont know ha!
Whats the best insult you had of late. No naming people pls
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I always think that abuse following rejection always gives the person who rejected a smug feeling of satisfaction that they made the right decision.
I was called a cheating evil poof which I didn't like much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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got a few before and one said something along the lienes of "you dirty faggot in a wig" so i said something back and who got warned that they will get banned? ME! Lol Fabswingers can be so backwards but gotta love a guy who cant take rejection. One minute, he love you long time. Next, hes slating you! Oh boys.... *shakes heads*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best rejection I've had so far was... "Good, bet your cunt stinks worse than a week old fishmongers bin!?" Yet he was begging to fuck it few a minutes before?? Idiot! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As part of the male race I'm actually cringing and getting angrier as I read this topic. I apologise on behalf of these feckers, I agree name and shame these idiots/morons. I think this site is all about putting a smile on our and other folks faces, be it by a social meet or good banter via messages. It's hard enough trying to get a response without these arses making it even harder, rant over have a great week folk x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't really had anything too bad other than one reply from a cpl that said:
"Hate your pics, why did you think we'd be interested in you?"
I almost responded with "Because I read your profile" but thought better of it and let it go.
It was a tad hurtful though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get "probably fake" a lot.
It's hilarious as I have more then enough verifications to prove otherwise.
u arent fake!"
Lol I know that. I just find it funny how all of a sudden I am because I'm not interested |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get "probably fake" a lot.
It's hilarious as I have more then enough verifications to prove otherwise.
u arent fake!
Lol I know that. I just find it funny how all of a sudden I am because I'm not interested "
this is it lol x |
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Wow, this thread is an eye opener!!
We have had rejections in the past (for various reasons) but always reply politely.
We would much rather know if we aren't someones type. Not everyone fancies everyone else and if there's no attraction, surely it's better to say so.
Or are we just being naive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow, this thread is an eye opener!!
We have had rejections in the past (for various reasons) but always reply politely.
We would much rather know if we aren't someones type. Not everyone fancies everyone else and if there's no attraction, surely it's better to say so.
Or are we just being naive?"
Not naive, just polite. I always reply. Only a couple of times in a few years had a rude reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow, how to win friends and influence people. Manners cost nothing and I am slightly taken aback that some people think it is ok to write the kind of things they do.
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I got told to get over myself, I'm not girlfriend material and only ever a ride
And the classic moped one - I'm only good to ride as long as his mates never know.
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
hahaha, just got a great one - turned down a couple, and been told I shouldn't even be on fab as its for swingers not ugly munters who can't pull...
Not what they said 5 minutes ago... lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's why I don't answer and just straight delete now if I'm not interested. The abuse I've had has always been after a polite no thank you from myself!
Once I had a message that interested me quite a lot, so I clicked on to the profile and was taking the time to read it, look at the pics, read the veri's and check those people out too - by the time I clicked back to reply positively he'd sent another calling me an "ignorant, fat, unlovable whore" for not answering, who was only here because she can't get a man in real life! Well.... That fucked up his chances eh!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hahaha, just got a great one - turned down a couple, and been told I shouldn't even be on fab as its for swingers not ugly munters who can't pull...
Not what they said 5 minutes ago... lol"
 that's shocking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was called a fat pig and to lose alot of weight before im considered fuckable i gave shit bk to him and he deleted his account lol makes me laugh if they cant take shit then they shouldnt be dishin it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was called a fat pig and to lose alot of weight before im considered fuckable i gave shit bk to him and he deleted his account lol makes me laugh if they cant take shit then they shouldnt be dishin it out "
Haha quality nice to see someone giving it back for a change. The are some complete idiots it would seem think insulting the lady will get them a different reply.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was offered money by a couple and when I declined I was told nobody would pay for me anyway...I wasn't asking anyone to pay. Idiots! "
I had a couple mail me once i politely told them i didn't meet couples to which they replied.....you mean couples won't met you because your ugly and single guys are less fussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A while ago i got a wink and a couple of fabbed pics from a girl. I sent a very nice reply back saying hi, thank you for the fabs, did she like TVs then etc as she had winked and fabbed. I got a reply saying sorry not into fat old men! Then blocked me! Technically accurate perhaps but still a little hurtful. |
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It's not right that you should get abuse because your free to say no, people should be named and shamed and reported as it just not on, I for one was bullied from being the fat kid at school be dickheads that now want to be my "friends" am not 10 any more and this is not the school yard so I say get fucked, i had one lady I was chatting to who had no face photo but said she will send one if I do 1st so I did and with that she just blocked me with out saying why!!! I don't mind but it would have been nice to be told ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why people are abusive I have no idea if you get a knock back it's for a reason I prefer to be blocked that way you don't message again and become a pain in the arse |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I've only ever had the one which was along the lines of he didn't want to shag a fat munter anyway...as others have said, it's amazing how just the word "no" turns one from a great gal with stunning pix to a fat ugly fecker
However, every other time I've said no thanks, the only return message I've had has been along the lines of thanks for at least replying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was called a fat pig and to lose alot of weight before im considered fuckable i gave shit bk to him and he deleted his account lol makes me laugh if they cant take shit then they shouldnt be dishin it out
Haha quality nice to see someone giving it back for a change. The are some complete idiots it would seem think insulting the lady will get them a different reply.. "
It's funny coz he was begging me and I wound him up just putting lol then he started getting abusive which just made me chuckle even more so I gave that shit right back I really don't know why some dickheads try so hard to mess with a fiesty redhead it just cheers me up at their efforts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was called a fat pig and to lose alot of weight before im considered fuckable i gave shit bk to him and he deleted his account lol makes me laugh if they cant take shit then they shouldnt be dishin it out
Haha quality nice to see someone giving it back for a change. The are some complete idiots it would seem think insulting the lady will get them a different reply.. "
Pmsl it's one of them mmm yeah I love it when you talk like that mmm more I want you so bad lmfao imagine |
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I just met someone this evening, after a few txts back and forward, got to their place, and after a drink and a chat, was told "I'm not really into you as your too confident and self assured, I prefer shy people " so I replied by saying ok no worries I shall leave, they then insisted I stayed an continue to drink with them... Which I didn't... :-S
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just met someone this evening, after a few txts back and forward, got to their place, and after a drink and a chat, was told "I'm not really into you as your too confident and self assured, I prefer shy people " so I replied by saying ok no worries I shall leave, they then insisted I stayed an continue to drink with them... Which I didn't... :-s
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That's so fucked up maybe they should put only looking for shy people,I think confident people are way better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just met someone this evening, after a few txts back and forward, got to their place, and after a drink and a chat, was told "I'm not really into you as your too confident and self assured, I prefer shy people " so I replied by saying ok no worries I shall leave, they then insisted I stayed an continue to drink with them... Which I didn't... :-S
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Can win sometimes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was called a fat pig and to lose alot of weight before im considered fuckable i gave shit bk to him and he deleted his account lol makes me laugh if they cant take shit then they shouldnt be dishin it out
Haha quality nice to see someone giving it back for a change. The are some complete idiots it would seem think insulting the lady will get them a different reply..
It's funny coz he was begging me and I wound him up just putting lol then he started getting abusive which just made me chuckle even more so I gave that shit right back I really don't know why some dickheads try so hard to mess with a fiesty redhead it just cheers me up at their efforts "
And then he's pissed off and goes and takes it out on someone else.... |
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Wow. I am so naïve. I had no idea this was so common.
What is the point of giving abuse? Would these men prefer to have sex with someone with no standards who found them unattractive and didn't want to be there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just met someone this evening, after a few txts back and forward, got to their place, and after a drink and a chat, was told "I'm not really into you as your too confident and self assured, I prefer shy people " so I replied by saying ok no worries I shall leave, they then insisted I stayed an continue to drink with them... Which I didn't... :-s
That's so fucked up maybe they should put only looking for shy people,I think confident people are way better "
there's a fine line between confident and cocky, maybe they felt he crossed it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few months ago in response to a no thanks I got told my kids should die of cancer
That's not on  "
Similar to mine... Except mine was I was going to die from beast cancer. Maybe the same bloke different day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the insults with a kiss at the end are annoying... Why bother pretending you're affectionate towards the person you just slagged off, or am I missing something here?
Meh people are pricks sometimes I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And about three years back now on here. I said no to a man because I want sure we'd get on. Then I get a message a few minutes later from a couple saying how dare I say that to their friend? Next thing I know I have people messaging me saying that someone had put up a status about me having aids!! Not a joke and I came off here for a while after that. Unfortunately you have to take the rough with the smooth. |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
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"And about three years back now on here. I said no to a man because I want sure we'd get on. Then I get a message a few minutes later from a couple saying how dare I say that to their friend? Next thing I know I have people messaging me saying that someone had put up a status about me having aids!! Not a joke and I came off here for a while after that. Unfortunately you have to take the rough with the smooth. "
There really are some nasty people out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And about three years back now on here. I said no to a man because I want sure we'd get on. Then I get a message a few minutes later from a couple saying how dare I say that to their friend? Next thing I know I have people messaging me saying that someone had put up a status about me having aids!! Not a joke and I came off here for a while after that. Unfortunately you have to take the rough with the smooth.
There really are some nasty people out there."
Yes but you have to worry that people like that are grown adults and walking the streets around us.. |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
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"And about three years back now on here. I said no to a man because I want sure we'd get on. Then I get a message a few minutes later from a couple saying how dare I say that to their friend? Next thing I know I have people messaging me saying that someone had put up a status about me having aids!! Not a joke and I came off here for a while after that. Unfortunately you have to take the rough with the smooth.
There really are some nasty people out there.
Yes but you have to worry that people like that are grown adults and walking the streets around us.. "
It is very worrying, and I really don't know why some people take rejection so badly, I certainly don't as it's part and parcel of being on here. I'm sure some people think it's going make you change your mind after they have insulted you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was called a fat pig and to lose alot of weight before im considered fuckable i gave shit bk to him and he deleted his account lol makes me laugh if they cant take shit then they shouldnt be dishin it out
Haha quality nice to see someone giving it back for a change. The are some complete idiots it would seem think insulting the lady will get them a different reply..
It's funny coz he was begging me and I wound him up just putting lol then he started getting abusive which just made me chuckle even more so I gave that shit right back I really don't know why some dickheads try so hard to mess with a fiesty redhead it just cheers me up at their efforts
And then he's pissed off and goes and takes it out on someone else.... "
No he deleted after i gave shit back to him i dont take it lyin down when it comes to abusive wankers and no one else should either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was rejected. I would become UNLOS. Lol.
By the way this is my 15th profile in 15 months lol.
Running out of new email address lol "
you can recycle as long as account was deleted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one has ever been abusive to me during the times I've been swinging over the years. I feel left out now "
That's very surprising considering youre from Southampton ...oh and youre ugly.....feel better now lol |
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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago
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"Just half an hour ago I had a reply to my "no thanks" calling me a mong....lovely chap "
An absolutely cretinous comment, especially considering that you make it quite clear in your profile that you're not meeting any new single men at the moment..Which is a shame really, as I had you down as the winner (by-a-country-mile) of a Miss Wet T Shirt competition that I'm holding X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was rejected. I would become UNLOS. Lol.
By the way this is my 15th profile in 15 months lol.
Running out of new email address lol you can recycle as long as account was deleted "
Learnt something new, thanks for the info. FAB is also educational. |
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"No one has ever been abusive to me during the times I've been swinging over the years. I feel left out now
That's very surprising considering youre from Southampton ...oh and youre ugly.....feel better now lol "
I do thanks Now I'll be able to pitch in on the next thread that comes up about this. Southampton isn't a great place to be when it comes to swinging either. South of here is water, you don't find many people living out that way! |
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