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More meets from posting on forums ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We keep seeing how forum advice to newbies and those struggling to get meets is that by engaging in forums will get you meets .
Well we have to be honest , this advice is complete nonsense !
We have been on and off fab for 3 years and have had over 300 meets through fab and guess what ? Not one of these meets has come from being on the forums !
So please bear this in mind guys .... and don't go thinking you are doing anything wrong when these meets from being on the forums don't happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met people from using the forum. People who wouldn't turn up in a search but I have chatted to on the forum. I think two came about from a face pic thread |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We don't use the forums to look for meets. I use them to pass a bit of time and have a giggle. It's like people watching without having to leave the house. 
I would be fibbing if I said we had never had a meet as a direct result of a forum thread. We have had one but we were aware of them long before then and had them on our to message list.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's more to do with showing a bit of your personality on the forum, this may help a single guy as ladies and couples can see what he is like  "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's more to do with showing a bit of your personality on the forum, this may help a single guy as ladies and couples can see what he is like "
True but why the |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't use the forums as a way of meeting people, although there are one or two over the years that have caught my eye and have resulted in a meet. It doesn't happen that often though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Given the vast surplus of single males on here, it's recommended that guys use the forums as a means of expressing themselves and standing above the 'im horny fancy a fuk' crowd.
I don't get a huge number of meets as a result, a fair few offers yes, though I'm not attracted to everyone who messages me, still, I reckon my inbox would be a lot quieter were I not putting myself out there on the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Given the vast surplus of single males on here, it's recommended that guys use the forums as a means of expressing themselves and standing above the 'im horny fancy a fuk' crowd.
I don't get a huge number of meets as a result, a fair few offers yes, though I'm not attracted to everyone who messages me, still, I reckon my inbox would be a lot quieter were I not putting myself out there on the forums."
A good point and i am guessing it must be easier as a couple to get meets and contact without the forums .
So perhaps we are wrong ....
Keep posing guys , and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given the vast surplus of single males on here, it's recommended that guys use the forums as a means of expressing themselves and standing above the 'im horny fancy a fuk' crowd.
I don't get a huge number of meets as a result, a fair few offers yes, though I'm not attracted to everyone who messages me, still, I reckon my inbox would be a lot quieter were I not putting myself out there on the forums.
A good point and i am guessing it must be easier as a couple to get meets and contact without the forums .
So perhaps we are wrong ....
Keep posing guys , and good luck "
we aren't having much luck on forums or with messages but are looking for women so i guess its a lot harder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a very sexy and gorgeous biker through the forums.
He asked me if I'd gotten a timeout as well from a thread we both commented on.
And as they say, the rest is history  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No women want to meet me anyway. It doesn't matter which way I use on (fab). IE, forums, pm's, etc.  "
You won't do with that negativity. Have you actually got off your ass and gone to a club/social/party? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a couple of meets directly though the forums and acively chat with people I'd not have stood out to.
I think for single males, as long as you don't have too many expectations, the forums are a good place to help... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
i don't think I have had a meet directly from a forum post.... however in clubs I have had people come up to me and ask if i am "_abio from the forums" and have said they like a lot of the stuff i post... and commented on it, which has led to conversation.....
so as others have said.... it's not the only tool i use, but it can help in again differentiating yourself from others, and showing you can be different, or show a side to your personality that people wouldn't see otherwise......
so it is used as one part.... same with socials..... same with clubs..... some with popping into chatrooms.... same with profile...
use some of them... all of them.... none of them.... the site gives you the tools to make it work...but the onus is on that person to make them work for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We keep seeing how forum advice to newbies and those struggling to get meets is that by engaging in forums will get you meets .
Well we have to be honest , this advice is complete nonsense !
We have been on and off fab for 3 years and have had over 300 meets through fab and guess what ? Not one of these meets has come from being on the forums !
So please bear this in mind guys .... and don't go thinking you are doing anything wrong when these meets from being on the forums don't happen "
that's YOUR experience not every one else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive met one guy through forums and a year later still seeing him.
lots of people who use forums are too far so I don't hunt in forums.have met few socially at socials though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We keep seeing how forum advice to newbies and those struggling to get meets is that by engaging in forums will get you meets .
Well we have to be honest , this advice is complete nonsense !
We have been on and off fab for 3 years and have had over 300 meets through fab and guess what ? Not one of these meets has come from being on the forums !
So please bear this in mind guys .... and don't go thinking you are doing anything wrong when these meets from being on the forums don't happen
that's YOUR experience not every one else."
Yes it is OUR experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We keep seeing how forum advice to newbies and those struggling to get meets is that by engaging in forums will get you meets .
Well we have to be honest , this advice is complete nonsense !
We have been on and off fab for 3 years and have had over 300 meets through fab and guess what ? Not one of these meets has come from being on the forums !
So please bear this in mind guys .... and don't go thinking you are doing anything wrong when these meets from being on the forums don't happen
that's YOUR experience not every one else."
Swinging is like being a door to door sales person, and your level of success is massively affected by your gender.
Single Male: Hi, how are you? I wondered if I might have a moment of your...
*SLAM!*
Couples: Hello, have you ever thought about swinging with a couple?
'Ok, tell me more'
Single Female: Hey, I'm...
'Hi I'm great thanks and you look amazing too, come in come in and make yourself comfortable, can I offer you a cup of tea or coffee and some biscuits?'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We keep seeing how forum advice to newbies and those struggling to get meets is that by engaging in forums will get you meets .
Well we have to be honest , this advice is complete nonsense !
We have been on and off fab for 3 years and have had over 300 meets through fab and guess what ? Not one of these meets has come from being on the forums !
So please bear this in mind guys .... and don't go thinking you are doing anything wrong when these meets from being on the forums don't happen
that's YOUR experience not every one else.
Swinging is like being a door to door sales person, and your level of success is massively affected by your gender.
Single Male: Hi, how are you? I wondered if I might have a moment of your...
*SLAM!*
Couples: Hello, have you ever thought about swinging with a couple?
'Ok, tell me more'
Single Female: Hey, I'm...
'Hi I'm great thanks and you look amazing too, come in come in and make yourself comfortable, can I offer you a cup of tea or coffee and some biscuits?'
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In the past I've had quite a few meets as a result of being a forum "regular". Also posting in the forums led to me attending socials, both the infamous Barnsley socials and the Pussy Posse xmas bashes and beach parties where I have met quite a few forumites and even played with a few .
I've also made some true friends from people I initially "met" in the forums...friends who will be in my life long after I've hung up my swinging boots.
As with anything...you get of of it what you put in |
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By *r jblMan
over a year ago
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"We keep seeing how forum advice to newbies and those struggling to get meets is that by engaging in forums will get you meets .
Well we have to be honest , this advice is complete nonsense !
We have been on and off fab for 3 years and have had over 300 meets through fab and guess what ? Not one of these meets has come from being on the forums !
So please bear this in mind guys .... and don't go thinking you are doing anything wrong when these meets from being on the forums don't happen "
. I have asked for advise on the forum. About my profile. And the main thing I got from it was that i'am not alone. And not the only one out their finding it hard to get a meet (single male that is) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The forums do open up the chance to meet lots of people if you want at the socials that are arranged through it
I just use them to have fun with,they're not my hunting ground but ive met lots of lovely people because of them |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"The forums do open up the chance to meet lots of people if you want at the socials that are arranged through it
I just use them to have fun with,they're not my hunting ground but ive met lots of lovely people because of them "
Ditto |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
The majority of my play meets are from non forumites, however I've met loads of posters socially as a result of forum banter and attending socials plus my club buddy Wyrd (who I see more of than some of my blinking family) I now class as a good friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do people organise meets and don't turn up? Baffles me. Why even bother being on this site, I've only had invites from gay guy's but I'm straight , but I always message back being polite saying thanks but no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to go to clubs and parties, we dont use the forum for meets essentially. The main reason I post on forums is because I like discussions, not because I'm trying to catch someones attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't think I have had a meet directly from a forum post.... however in clubs I have had people come up to me and ask if i am "_abio from the forums" and have said they like a lot of the stuff i post... and commented on it, which has led to conversation.....
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I've been approached in clubs and 'll be honest when I hear the word "Are you 2wheels" I always fear what the next sentance will be  |
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"i don't think I have had a meet directly from a forum post.... however in clubs I have had people come up to me and ask if i am "_abio from the forums" and have said they like a lot of the stuff i post... and commented on it, which has led to conversation.....
I've been approached in clubs and 'll be honest when I hear the word "Are you 2wheels" I always fear what the next sentance will be "
That's not what I said when I found you loitering outside the toilets in eurekas... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Outside of large socials we've met a few people as the result of the forums and there are a couple who we would love to meet if distance wasn;t an issue
I think as some of the posts show it can work, but as always it's a case of finding what works for you. The forums will work for some and not for others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only meet I've had that was related to the forums was from asking someone if they got suspended for their comment too ^_^
Other than that I've never really had any messages related to the forum and have probably only cost myself meets lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only meet I've had that was related to the forums was from asking someone if they got suspended for their comment too ^_^
Other than that I've never really had any messages related to the forum and have probably only cost myself meets lol"
And I'm glad I replied ^_^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only meet I've had that was related to the forums was from asking someone if they got suspended for their comment too ^_^
Other than that I've never really had any messages related to the forum and have probably only cost myself meets lol
And I'm glad I replied ^_^"
Yeah and I if I remember right you didn't get suspended lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only meet I've had that was related to the forums was from asking someone if they got suspended for their comment too ^_^
Other than that I've never really had any messages related to the forum and have probably only cost myself meets lol
And I'm glad I replied ^_^
Yeah and I if I remember right you didn't get suspended lol "
haha! I think i should have done! But oh well  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"i don't think I have had a meet directly from a forum post.... however in clubs I have had people come up to me and ask if i am "_abio from the forums" and have said they like a lot of the stuff i post... and commented on it, which has led to conversation.....
I've been approached in clubs and 'll be honest when I hear the word "Are you 2wheels" I always fear what the next sentance will be "
thats why i wear a cup now...
kidding... my next sentence is always " have i said anything that upsets you.... "
to date never had a "no" but always leads to some very interesting conversations..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only meet I've had that was related to the forums was from asking someone if they got suspended for their comment too ^_^
Other than that I've never really had any messages related to the forum and have probably only cost myself meets lol
And I'm glad I replied ^_^
Yeah and I if I remember right you didn't get suspended lol
haha! I think i should have done! But oh well "
Yeah you were way meaner than me lol.
Personally I think the mod was swayed by your arse lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only meet I've had that was related to the forums was from asking someone if they got suspended for their comment too ^_^
Other than that I've never really had any messages related to the forum and have probably only cost myself meets lol
And I'm glad I replied ^_^
Yeah and I if I remember right you didn't get suspended lol
haha! I think i should have done! But oh well
Yeah you were way meaner than me lol.
Personally I think the mod was swayed by your arse lol"
That is true! Omg I am a meanie sometimes lol!
Hehe well I know you love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We keep seeing how forum advice to newbies and those struggling to get meets is that by engaging in forums will get you meets .
Well we have to be honest , this advice is complete nonsense !
We have been on and off fab for 3 years and have had over 300 meets through fab and guess what ? Not one of these meets has come from being on the forums !
So please bear this in mind guys .... and don't go thinking you are doing anything wrong when these meets from being on the forums don't happen "
It has worked for me but I don't expect to get meets through using the forums.
However I have used the forums and it has led to meets.
I would still use them either way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i don't think I have had a meet directly from a forum post.... however in clubs I have had people come up to me and ask if i am "_abio from the forums" and have said they like a lot of the stuff i post... and commented on it, which has led to conversation.....
I've been approached in clubs and 'll be honest when I hear the word "Are you 2wheels" I always fear what the next sentance will be
thats why i wear a cup now...
kidding... my next sentence is always " have i said anything that upsets you.... "
to date never had a "no" but always leads to some very interesting conversations....."
As soon as I hear it I edge my bets and ask them not to hit me... |
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