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Who in the right mind.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who in the right mind would arrange a "meet" purely through kik messaging (only). I was offered this way of meeting last night. The woman didn't want to exchange mobile numbers to chat on the phone to arrange things properly. But, we kik messaged for abit. Until I thought, my names is, Billy. Hunt. not, Silly. Cunt. Anybody other (fabbers) experienced this way of getting conned this way?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it is no different to arranging a meet through fab messages? I have done this many times and the number of no shows I have had? Zero!
Though I do more often than not speak/text on phone too. But not always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don;t use kik but I thought it was a way to talk without swapping numbers?"
It is. Tho you wouldn't be subjected to site rules so if you got abuse you would just deal with it yourself. As with everything use common sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've arranged meets through here, via text/whatsapp & by Kik...all can and do work if you apply a bit of common sense. If you don't feel comfortable with any method then you don't need to use it...just as someone doesn't have to share their number if they don't want to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been messed about by a couple before, had their number, even talked to the lady. Ended driving round Weymouth being given direction after direction only to then be put on speaker and have them both shout "sad wanker" down the phone!
Funnily enough, unlos on fab before I had the chance to report...
A phone number is no more a guarantee of genuineness than any other method. .. |
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Kik's great for chatting to friends from FAB and quicker than the email on here but I've got to speak on the phone prior to a meet!
That said I've still ended up going to a meet having spoken and found all was not 'as advertised' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've rarely talked on the phone beforehand, but that's because I'm not comfortable on the phone and I don't do phone sex so just ends up a one way conversation..face to face I find it much easier to make conversation. I'll happily have a face to face social, but the few times I've attempted a pre-meet phone call I know I've not come across as 'me'. Guess we all have different approaches to meeting, and so far mine has worked just fine for me..but then again I've never claimed to be in my right mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had a phone conversation with anyone I've met from fab and am very private with my phone number. Maybe it's a generational difference? "
 I never ever give my number out, and have had plenty of excellent meets using just fab and kik to meet people. I just don't trust people to have my number |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been messed about by a couple before, had their number, even talked to the lady. Ended driving round Weymouth being given direction after direction only to then be put on speaker and have them both shout "sad wanker" down the phone!
Funnily enough, unlos on fab before I had the chance to report...
A phone number is no more a guarantee of genuineness than any other method. .."
That's horrible ! What sad people they are to do things like that for kicks !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use kik & whatsapp to arrange meets but as mine are always social 1st arranging by text works just fine.
If it's going to be a while before we meet then we usually end up chatting on the phone. |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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Well I've never used Kik and following problems I had in my early days on here I no longer give my phone number out.
If a guy doesn't trust me enough to meet me without speaking on the phone then I'll respect his choice, just like I'll expect him to respect my choice not to give my number out.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who in the right mind would arrange a "meet" purely through kik messaging (only). I was offered this way of meeting last night. The woman didn't want to exchange mobile numbers to chat on the phone to arrange things properly. But, we kik messaged for abit. Until I thought, my names is, Billy. Hunt. not, Silly. Cunt. Anybody other (fabbers) experienced this way of getting conned this way? "
No but surely its better than no reply at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have a phone chat first , I am quite quick in giving out my number but then I have a ipone so can just block if needs must. Having said that there are only a couple I have had to block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it really depends:
first I'd make it clear I have no intentions of needing a sex call.
I will check verifications in most cases
if its a couple, I may ask for a fem call(I've been on the end of a male half arranging the meet and I've sensed the fem half hasnt been aware...)
*in most cases people buy a cheap phone/sim...the technology is pretty disposable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don't trust people to have my number
Yet you trust them with your body...yep, makes perfect sense to me! "
Assuming I'm meeting perfect strangers? a few of my veris are from previous meets with an ex he was happy to give out his phone number. I see little difference between a kik convo with lots of instant messages and photos proving identity. Rarely meet unverified either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I would want to speak to the person
I insist on it: especially after meeting a man that looked like Daniel Craig but sounded like Joe Pasquale!  "
Ahhh, but what did he fuck like? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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We don't use kik / whatsapp or anything similar...But we do arrange most of our meets through messages on here and it works for us.
We are very selective about who gets our phone number and generally don't give it out before meeting.
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Out of all the meets I've had the ones arranged through kik have always gone as planned. The only one that turned out to be a complete fucking fruit cake was the one arranged on the phone. Practically begged me to meet her then when I was on my way and phoned for the address.....silence. Go figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don;t use kik but I thought it was a way to talk without swapping numbers?"
This is exactly what its for. Or, in realistic terms- its for chatting to someone who doesnt want to give you their number.
So, if someone doesnt want to give you their number thats a big clue to where you stand with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had a phone conversation with anyone I've met from fab and am very private with my phone number. Maybe it's a generational difference? "
think its more a trust issue- you know, how easily can i dump this person that i may regretfully have had some social interaction with. toys like Kik are perfect for this.
Whereas with WhatsApp you actually know their number - its just free messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really can't see the attraction in using any other way to communtcate other than fab and maybe a phone call. We tried a swing phone, whatsapp, snapchat and God knows what else and they were all abused by over eager horny guys that wanted a quick wank and were finished before we had chance to meet.
Most people have smartphones or tablets so fab is just a touch of a screen away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kik aint a bad thing I guess lots of people can't get on fab unless connected on wifi and obviously people are cautious about giving out numbers so while on your way to a meet kik can come in handy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've rarely talked on the phone beforehand, but that's because I'm not comfortable on the phone and I don't do phone sex so just ends up a one way conversation..face to face I find it much easier to make conversation. I'll happily have a face to face social, but the few times I've attempted a pre-meet
phone call I know I've not come across as 'me'. Guess we all have different approaches to meeting, and so far mine has worked just fine for me..but then again I've never claimed to be in my right mind "
this sounds like me, lol, hate talking on the phone, unless I know that person.........I've used whatsapp and had meets, which were fine. If they start been a pest, just block them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kik aint a bad thing I guess lots of people can't get on fab unless connected on wifi and obviously people are cautious about giving out numbers so while on your way to a meet kik can come in handy"
So using kik doesn't use data then? The same as using fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So using kik doesn't use data then? The same as using fab?"
kik is an application, primariy for smartphones - also has a website.
so yes it uses data,all smartphone/web interaction uses data.
the data you will use for text messages is small, but when you send/receive a picture that uses bit more(file size) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't speak on the phone, we did once but that was to meet a couple and they like to have the 2 ladies chat before a meet. But we prefer just messages xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't need kik, and would take it as an hour to meet.
The usual procedure is a chat for a while on here, followed by a call, there have been a few where there have been a few male halfs and no female.
People worry about giving their number out, but in fairness, there is a few on the forums that have our number, and never given us bother.
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely hate talking on the phone so it's usually kik or whatsapp or text before a meet.
Nice to have a phone number though in case lose internet signal an can't find the place though so can text |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely hate talking on the phone so it's usually kik or whatsapp or text before a meet.
Nice to have a phone number though in case lose internet signal an can't find the place though so can text. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who in the right mind would arrange a "meet" purely through kik messaging (only). I was offered this way of meeting last night. The woman didn't want to exchange mobile numbers to chat on the phone to arrange things properly. But, we kik messaged for abit. Until I thought, my names is, Billy. Hunt. not, Silly. Cunt. Anybody other (fabbers) experienced this way of getting conned this way? "
Desperate people thats who! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been messed about by a couple before, had their number, even talked to the lady. Ended driving round Weymouth being given direction after direction only to then be put on speaker and have them both shout "sad wanker" down the phone!
Funnily enough, unlos on fab before I had the chance to report...
A phone number is no more a guarantee of genuineness than any other method. .."
Some very deplorable people around  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never meet without seeing a face on cam/skype first"
Alot of people won't cam or skype me being one of them. Just because they won't doesn't prove they are not genuine. |
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