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degrees of being naughty/slutty
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Last night I walked in to this bar Feel aÀnd some beautiful Russian girl maybe in her 20s grabs me and pulls me on to empty dance floor.
With out saying a word she looks deep in my eyes and gives me a look as if she wants a hard shag.
My mind is going wild thinking is this for real.
We start making out, feeling her breasts, slightly teasing her clit through here silky dress. I have my hand up her dress for sure giving a view of her ass.
Then she walks to bar and comes back. Still no words exchanged, not even a hello. She starts kissing me again and then she passes me ouzo while kissing.
Now this shocks me. First of all cause I hate ouzo and secondly I started of thinking of these snow ball threads on here. And instantly came back to earth. Turned off.
Now some of you are probably saying what an idiot for leaving that on platter. I thought I would have some remorse or regret this morning, but quite opposite.
This got me thinking at a club and there was a lady begging for cock. From any guy she get near her. Another turn off...
The question is there certain degrees of being a slut... and have you ever been in a situation where It was too naughty slutty and was turned off.
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I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.
Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.
If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.
Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.
If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both."
Op forgot to tell is a few things before we can have a discussion
1. what type of club this was?
2. How old the girl was?
4. Was he alone?
5. Was she alone?
6. Was she sober?
Then we can all judge together whether the OP was the'slut' or the girl was the 'slut'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok, just to throw another aspect of this scenario, it could be possible that this is part of a fantasy for the girl in question and her partner, he may want her to play with a total stranger without saying a word?
I don't think you can suggest someone is to slutty? Surely any sexual behaviour is just that, an expression of desire, should any be criticised just because you don't find favour?
Well, just my opinion, perhaps I'm reading too much into it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.
Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.
If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both.
Op forgot to tell is a few things before we can have a discussion
1. what type of club this was?
2. How old the girl was?
4. Was he alone?
5. Was she alone?
6. Was she sober?
Then we can all judge together whether the OP was the'slut' or the girl was the 'slut'
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Implying he is 41 and was sober |
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I understand from a friend who lived in Greece that young ladies are often employed in a hostess capacity to entice gentlemen to stay in the bars. Sounds like this could be one of those situations. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really didn't want to use the word slut, because who am I to judge. But couldn't think of a word as harsh to Express a limit of naughtiness.
This was about 1 am in a vanilla club I was buzzing... she had to be d*unk to kiss me lol.
But in honestly I thought of it when she kissed me if she was d*unk. I would never take advantage of a d*unk lady.
She was buzzing I would say to the point I was.
I found out later sitting at the bar. That she was there with her brother and we're looking for drugs.
I think the point of my thread was miss understood. It was supposed to be, have you ever been turned off by someone who sort of scared you off by going well beyond your limits!
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"I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.
Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.
If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both."
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"I really didn't want to use the word slut, because who am I to judge. But couldn't think of a word as harsh to Express a limit of naughtiness.
This was about 1 am in a vanilla club I was buzzing... she had to be d*unk to kiss me lol.
But in honestly I thought of it when she kissed me if she was d*unk. I would never take advantage of a d*unk lady.
She was buzzing I would say to the point I was.
I found out later sitting at the bar. That she was there with her brother and we're looking for drugs.
I think the point of my thread was miss understood. It was supposed to be, have you ever been turned off by someone who sort of scared you off by going well beyond your limits!
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If I was in a club and a man was behaving that way it would scare me yes, but I wouldn't go near him for it to go any further in the first place. |
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Also if a man grabbed me and dragged me on to the dance floor I wouldn't be enjoying any part of it, I'd probably scream blue murder.
I think this highlights some of the double standards that exist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we might see a few revealing comments on this thread.
Perhaps a few of the gents could say how they think a woman"should" behave sexually and why a woman who expresses her sexual desire very obviously is worthy of being described as slutty or naughty.
If someone's behaviour puts you off that's fine but I find this post slightly ironic from somebody who previously posted many times asking how he could pick up signals from couples indicating that they wanted him to join them. What's it to be? Subtle or obvious? You can't have both."
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ps only one man will ever get away with calling me a slut! 
