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Big turn offs during meets
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x |
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"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x"
You might mention that it is indiscrete to mention previous meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x"
god how awful. . I was at a social recently and one guy introduced himself as one name. . And as a solo guy. . When i'd quite clearly seen his face in a couple's profile and a different name ! The bare faced liar !
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x god how awful. . I was at a social recently and one guy introduced himself as one name. . And as a solo guy. . When i'd quite clearly seen his face in a couple's profile and a different name ! The bare faced liar ! "
People can have more than one profile. Couples sometimes also meet as singles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x"
I'd leave too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And call themselves a different name ? And claim not to be part of a couple. . Bit odd surely "
If he was denying being part of a couple that would be odd yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went on a meet once and the guy spend most of that meet texting another women he was arranging a meet with off here, he even asked me to excuse him while he went outside the pub to call her up, needless to say when he finished his call and returned to the pub I was not still there waiting for him |
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"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x"
This for me too. Added to that he was talking loudly so everyone in the restaurant knew we were swingers: I left.
Then there was the guy who had a business in Nigeria who regaled me with tales of himself and his business partner shagging their housekeeper, who happened to do prostitution on the side.
There was also the charmer that didn't hold the door open for me as I entered the pub, bought his own drink who answered "this ain't a date love" when I asked if he was going to buy me one.
Oh...The guy who asked if he could call his garage and spent forever on the phone...He didn't notice when I left!  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I once had a chap decide he wasn't that bi curious when I went round. If I was bright enough to have thought about it, I might have took it personally, but after taking a few pics of me, he decided he was actually bi curious.  |
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Someone not having enough time is a turn off, as is not letting themselves go fully. Being a second choice, after a cancellation would be a no go. Obviously need complete cleanliness too. I met someone once and their discussion did not match once we met almost like total amnesia or a different person, so a turn off. Of course anyone only interested in themselves would generally be completely unattractive. Pick wisely and have a good memory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x"
We've had the same in the past and people like that are just best avoided. |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire/Midlands |
"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x"
That would put me off too. Discretion is all part of swinging and yes, what would they have said about you!! Just wonder whether what they said was true and if they were actually the 'nasty' couple! |
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Not sure if this counts, but recently I had a social with someone who told me that a very recent play meet they'd had with a lady he hadn't been able to play ( because he didnt find her attractive) with her but luckily they where in a club so she played with others. However he then asked me to meet for a 3sum with said lady!!!
I had really liked him but Christ that certainly put me off him. So not surprisingly he hit the dust in my books. Unbelievable behaviour  |
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"Hi. Just wondering what your turn offs are during meets. We had a recent social meet and the other couple kept name dropping other couples on fab. Telling us graphic details but also saying nasty things about them. For us this is a big turn off, because no doubt they will be describing ourselves in there next meet. So we made our excuses and left x"
some really don't know how to keep their mouths shut... Not a good trait in the swinging world at all |
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Messy houses!
When I have a woman or couple over to mine, I always give the place a good once over and at least make sure that the lounge, bedroom and bathroom are clean.
I have been to the houses of both single females and couples where the place is a complete shithole. Children's toys littering the hallway and sofa, filthy bathrooms, being offered a drink with a dirty glass 
Surely it's not that difficult to be a good host? |
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"Messy houses!
When I have a woman or couple over to mine, I always give the place a good once over and at least make sure that the lounge, bedroom and bathroom are clean.
I have been to the houses of both single females and couples where the place is a complete shithole. Children's toys littering the hallway and sofa, filthy bathrooms, being offered a drink with a dirty glass
Surely it's not that difficult to be a good host?"
Yuck, I would walk out. Make me wonder how long it was untill bedsheets etc where last changed. |
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By *bflirtyCouple
over a year ago
Milton Keynes |
Turning up and finding (A) they knocked 10 years off their age and the pics were also taken 10 years ago, and (B) realising the woman doesn't actually know how we got to the point of a meet as she'd only found out about us 2 minutes before we arrived. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lack of discretion is a big turn off for me...
I like to keep my private life private and if I can't trust them to not blab loads to other meets then I can't enjoy my time with them |
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"lack of discretion is a big turn off for me...
I like to keep my private life private and if I can't trust them to not blab loads to other meets then I can't enjoy my time with them"
exactly this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lack of discretion is a big turn off for me...
I like to keep my private life private and if I can't trust them to not blab loads to other meets then I can't enjoy my time with them exactly this "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well this is a first.. lol a couple AND fem agreed with something I said...
I've always assumed from my lack of replies there was a secret pact to ignore me lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i cant do dirty homes - a pic of one is enough to put me off "
yep we always check the pics to see what the house is like, sorry no dirty places for us two  |
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