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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hey everyone... hope your all ok
So I have just written my profile, I would love to know what you all think? what bits maybe I should change and keep? or unhide certain photos?
open to ideas x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Chris, and welcome to fab and to the forums.
Your profile isn't bad. Especially for a newbie, but a couple of points, if I may.
You mention that you can't accommodate, but don't explain why. People will want to know. Do you have a wife at home that you're cheating on? You have to think about what you're not saying as well as what you are. Women tend to read between the lines and sometimes will put 2 and 2 together and come up with 5.
One grammar issue. It's 'letting yo take control', not 'letting yourself take control'
Yes, maybe I'm being a bit harsh, but it can really make quite a difference.
Lastly, and here's the rub, the last sentence of your profile suggests that you're under the impression that people are going to come and seek you out. It's unlikely i'm afraid.
We single guys vastly outnumber couples and single ladies, and they receive hundreds of messages PER DAY!! When dealing with this much mail, many of them simply just don't have the time to browse as well. You need to be pro-active and message people. Consider though, that they may view your profile BEFORE they read your message, so it really does need to be good. That said though, some will read the message first, so that also needs to be good.
As for your pictures. Hmmm. Any reason why you won't show your face? If there is, again explain why. If not, get it on your profile. People want to see what you look like. I'm sure you don't expect them to jump into bed with you just because you're a regular at your gym.
You've been here for a couple of months. Be patient. Took me around 8 to 9 months to get my first meet, which is sort of average really.
Above all, Have fun. |
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