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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It confuses me how some ladies/couples immediately delete your messages..
I take the time to read the whole profile and take my time in writing my messages..
What are other peoples views? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read a profile before reading the message, if the profile doesn't meet what im looking for I delete the message without reading it 80% of the time. |
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Most people will look.at the profile first. If you are not.what they are looking for they wont read your message and just delete it.
Don't worry, forget and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you attach pics to messages? You have no public pics and hardly any info on your profile so we would just delete your message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is rude if us, but honestly I haven't got time to fart about, don't wanna lose messages from people I'm already talking to so do delete without consideration quite often. Sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's the thing I often find they're not even looking at my profile... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's the thing I often find they're not even looking at my profile..."
How do you know they're not looking?
Every user has the option to choose whether or not to show up on 'who's viewed me'
Many women choose to be hidden, possibly from concerns about getting 'I see you looked at my profile...' messages |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's the thing I often find they're not even looking at my profile...
How do you know they're not looking?
Every user has the option to choose whether or not to show up on 'who's viewed me'
Many women choose to be hidden, possibly from concerns about getting 'I see you looked at my profile...' messages"
Oh I didn't know you could do that!! Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No profile photo...?
Automatic message delete without even bothering to read the profile....!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agreed with above, No profile pic then i won't waste anymore of my time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It means they're saying no thanks in cyber language  |
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But what if the message is not asking for anything but either pointing something out you are not aware of, or complimenting you on something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Boohoo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and the world keeps turning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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frustrating but it is life my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's the thing I often find they're not even looking at my profile..."
Ask yourself this simple question....is your profile worth looking at.
Your post here is 4 times longer than your profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's the ignorance of people  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Just looked - but you'd never know.
No visible pics, two line profile.
Would be a delete from us too, regardless of message content.
Why do people put effort into a message but not the most important tool on site - your profile? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Again as said above - no profile pic is usually an automatic delete
Too much choice and too many time wasters on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Boohoo"
Why do u need to be nasty - guys asking a fair question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hm.
Sometimes the message is unrelated entirely to the profile.
I find it a little pig-headed to be honest. : /
I've gotten some cool messages from people with really crappy profiles ; ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Boohoo
Why do u need to be nasty - guys asking a fair question "
How was I being nasty? Get over yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we read the profile and if theyre not for us we either reply or just delete. it does say on our profile that we dont mean to be rude but its easier that way. As we have found in the past when we say your not for us, they come back asking why why why and have had abuse before!
and as for blank profiles with no pics, no profile pics they instantly get deleted.
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