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"Depends who I'm with and how much I trust them but I do like lust filled hair pulling arse slapping must fuck you right now sex " | |||
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"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really " Women on fab swingers probably like being treated like that but I don't. men shouldn't assume that all women like the same things. | |||
I have found a couple who will play my way but I am always on the lookout for more | |||
"I quite like all of that rough stuff among play but be prepared because I give as good as I get and if you can only play one way you'll probably wish you hadn't been so rough "Oh hurt me pleeeease lol | |||
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"You women are just so wonderful, I'm so horny now. Caught in the heat of passion, I do get very kinky, always controlled but very physical. Love to push her chest down on the bed with her bum in the air and squat above her so I can get as deep as possible as I fuck her hard from behind, pul her head up with her hair so I can kiss her. In respect of women who aren't into this, this is why I think it's so important to get to know someone, and have the, 'what do you like' conversation. Has to be said, I do like to have gentle sex too, but prefer the physical. "are you my long lost twin | |||
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"well i must be a sad git then cos i not like rough sex all ,dont like anyone slapping me or pulling my hair "I don't like being slapped that's a big no no from me, but there's is more to rough sex than slapping someone | |||
"I remember a woman on here once who said she was attracted to accountants, she loved the sound of the clicking buttons on a calculator, and had a fantasy about sitting down at the table with such a man, who could go through her tax return and make sure her income and outgoings were always accurate and up to date. Turns out, she wanted a man who wasn't afraid to get fiscal with her." | |||
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"well i must be a sad git then cos i not like rough sex all ,dont like anyone slapping me or pulling my hair "Your not sad, we all like different things
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"well i must be a sad git then cos i not like rough sex all ,dont like anyone slapping me or pulling my hair "straight sex is good enough for some people. | |||
"I had a what do you like conversation before meeting someone once. Part way through he 'realised' I was passive or sub as he called it and got carried away. We put a lot of trust in men when we meet them for the first time " Your, 'what do you like' conversation brought back a memory of a conversation after a rather "physical" encounter. My partner informed me that being asked, "what do I do next?" question is the biggest turn off there is. (Puffs chests out) Thankfully it wasn't me she was talking about. Well, I don't think we had met when I was younger | |||
"You women are just so wonderful, I'm so horny now. Caught in the heat of passion, I do get very kinky, always controlled but very physical. Love to push her chest down on the bed with her bum in the air and squat above her so I can get as deep as possible as I fuck her hard from behind, pul her head up with her hair so I can kiss her. In respect of women who aren't into this, this is why I think it's so important to get to know someone, and have the, 'what do you like' conversation. Has to be said, I do like to have gentle sex too, but prefer the physical. "I  this, I really enjoy the feeling if him being deep in me, giving all of himself to me for that moment, then pulling my head towards him to kiss as I climax over and over, then being turned over so we can lie together and kiss and caress until the passion rises again | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really " It has it's place, I guess, but I wouldn't want it all the time...it would all get pretty samey...who wants a one trick pony? passion is one thing but I won't be slapped, and if someone put their hands on my throat, they'd be floating down my stairs and out the front door quicker than they could draw another breath... | |||
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"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really " Yes please | |||
"I like the thrill of the unexpected without the fear of violence " Aligning the body/mind in a positive way and there have to be a number of values in play for that. | |||
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" passion is one thing but I won't be slapped, and if someone put their hands on my throat, they'd be floating down my stairs and out the front door quicker than they could draw another breath..." Haha, me too! | |||
"In simple terms - God yes "Yes yes yes, rougher the better. Please | |||
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"Yes my thing, pinned down, hair pulled,spanked very hard,I love to be bitten scratched. Having a belt taken to me and being told what a dirty slut I am. Restrained sex, very powerful. Her "Ditto with bells on. | |||
"Yes my thing, pinned down, hair pulled,spanked very hard,I love to be bitten scratched. Having a belt taken to me and being told what a dirty slut I am. Restrained sex, very powerful. Her
Ditto with bells on. "I know and you just love it!
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"I remember a woman on here once who said she was attracted to accountants, she loved the sound of the clicking buttons on a calculator, and had a fantasy about sitting down at the table with such a man, who could go through her tax return and make sure her income and outgoings were always accurate and up to date. Turns out, she wanted a man who wasn't afraid to get fiscal with her. "Nice that someone got the joke | |||
"perks at throat holding though it has to be with someone I trust " This for me. If other guys do it I get very uncomfortable x | |||
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"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really Yes please "Are you sure ? | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really Yes please
Are you sure ?"I'm sure
Yes please | |||
"I remember a woman on here once who said she was attracted to accountants, she loved the sound of the clicking buttons on a calculator, and had a fantasy about sitting down at the table with such a man, who could go through her tax return and make sure her income and outgoings were always accurate and up to date. Turns out, she wanted a man who wasn't afraid to get fiscal with her." | |||
"well i must be a sad git then cos i not like rough sex all ,dont like anyone slapping me or pulling my hair
I don't like being slapped that's a big no no from me, but there's is more to rough sex than slapping someone "absolutely, will slap bums but not faces, have been asked, and tried, but didn't feel right, faces are for kissing lol | |||
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"I cannot understand the face slapping. Just domestic violence ina kinky garb. If your words are not powerful enough then slapping is a subjugating reserve for the weak of imagination. You can 'hurt' with pleasure so why use pain ?" Depends if you need to differentiate pleasure and stimulation (pain). | |||
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"Depends what mood i'm in, but I do love a guy who can deliver the goods when going rough... throwing me down on the bed on all fours, spanking my arse hard, pulling my hair, calling me a dirty little slut, holding my wrists behind my back while fucking me hard. Or being on top spreading my thighs apart with his knees while pinning my arms down.... Surely that's standard practice *sigh* " | |||
"But a slap is more than just physical stimulation. It is the degredation that is key. That can be done otherways surely ?" Not for me it isn't degradation (and that is my logical semantics interpretation), not in the right context. It's more around fractionation, well it's how I would interpret in a sexual context. Equally, it's not always appropriate, you have to work with your partners needs not your own. | |||
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"As always...it is the surrender of trust that ensures the dom is careful with it. Maybe my abhorrence at violence against women causes my kink quotient to stall at face slapping ? Who knows ?" With values there are no right or wrong and outside a sexual context (and needs) it would cross mine greatly. The juxtaposition saying of slut in the sheets, lady in the streets, comes to mind, contextually. | |||
"I quite like all of that rough stuff among play but be prepared because I give as good as I get and if you can only play one way you'll probably wish you hadn't been so rough "This.
The only thing I don't like that the OP mentioned is my throat held. Like others have said though - it's a trust thing, more trust means you can put yourself fully in the hands of the other person. Plus I like to switch it round on occasions when the mood takes me. | |||
most men are too gently though | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really " I love being fucked from behind with my hair held tight and having my bubble butt smacked...also in a missionary with my hands pinned above my head...I do love a bit of rough every now and then.... V | |||
"Love it most men are too gently though "Maybe...but the older they are the more forceful they become | |||
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"I like to play very rough but struggle to find people who will. A lot make all the right noises but once you meet they are all soft and gentle - even with encouragement they are reluctant. I think maybe guys are afraid of playing rough in case they get into trouble
I have found a couple who will play my way but I am always on the lookout for more "totally agree, but i think its more that they have been brought up to respect women and they don't think it is respecting us by being rough | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really " Ankles pinned, wrists too if need be . . Pressure on the throat, hair pulled . . . There's a place for everything I think . . | |||
"Face slapping is a no go for me too...although I do like physical and rough sex in other ways. Slap my face and I'll probably break your nose "I will second this. Love being used and abused so to speak but you slap my face then its a knee to the balls x | |||
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"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really " Well I don't mind it a little rough but if anyone tries to throttle me they will get a swift sharp shock somewhere as someone once tried to kill me by strangling. So be warned! | |||
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"So, is it safe to say, most women like rough sex, but to varying levels, very few don't, and some like to be throttled lol. With a few exceptions, face slapping is a no no, neck holding seems to be popular with a few exceptions and talking dirty is popular. I've never used safe words, because I never 'loose it' even though I do get carried away in the heat of passion, i am always conscious of how my lady is reacting, moans and sighs of bliss, ecstatic expressions, and comments like 'oh fuck' 'oh yes' and 'oh god' spur me on, whereas 'ouch' 'stop' 'your hurting me' and 'fuck off' stop me in my tracks lol. So, if you do have a safe word, what is it? By the way, this has made me so fucking horny, I'm in very very good company "Well it sounds like you as your lady have a very good time | |||
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"Do you . "I fucking loveO it | |||
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"Sorry I will stop it now "no please continue | |||
"Haha Love O and Sandybeach i think you need to get a room. I can feel the heat from here. " | |||
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"They cant leave each other alone Its sickening "Now now dont be jealous | |||
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"They cant leave each other alone Its sickening "it is a bit much especially when you have to keep skipping posts to read the topic but each to there own. | |||
"They cant leave each other alone Its sickening it is a bit much especially when you have to keep skipping posts to read the topic but each to there own." | |||
"They cant leave each other alone Its sickening it is a bit much especially when you have to keep skipping posts to read the topic but each to there own." | |||
"I like the thrill of the unexpected without the fear of violence " Very well put! | |||
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"No safe words then? " Amber, then red ~ never said red yet | |||
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"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really " I enjoy this A LOT! really really horny with the right man. I do enjoy gentler/sensual sex too though, depends on the person and the mood. | |||
"Let's ressurect this old chetnut "You've just ressurected the hair pulling one too! You've got a serious horn on tonight haven't you hun? xx | |||
"Let's ressurect this old chetnut
You've just ressurected the hair pulling one too! You've got a serious horn on tonight haven't you hun? xx"I've been looking at your pics gorgeous, so it's all your fault | |||
"Let's ressurect this old chetnut
You've just ressurected the hair pulling one too! You've got a serious horn on tonight haven't you hun? xx
I've been looking at your pics gorgeous, so it's all your fault "Don't think i'm your ideal woman though sweets! Pull my hair hard or choke me and you've lost me! Gentle dominance I love. X | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really Women on fab swingers probably like being treated like that but I don't. men shouldn't assume that all women like the same things."
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"Let's ressurect this old chetnut
You've just ressurected the hair pulling one too! You've got a serious horn on tonight haven't you hun? xx
I've been looking at your pics gorgeous, so it's all your fault
Don't think i'm your ideal woman though sweets! Pull my hair hard or choke me and you've lost me!
Gentle dominance I love. X"I can make gentle love too
In all honesty, isn't that the beauty of a site like this, meeting all sorts, and reading the signals. Sex in all its forms is perfect | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really Women on fab swingers probably like being treated like that but I don't. men shouldn't assume that all women like the same things.
Bit worrying if a guy assumes 'most' women like it. "From what I was reading yesterday some people, not just men find it hard to accept that women don't like something going as far as suggesting that they need a man to show them that they do like it. | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really Women on fab swingers probably like being treated like that but I don't. men shouldn't assume that all women like the same things.
Bit worrying if a guy assumes 'most' women like it.
From what I was reading yesterday some people, not just men find it hard to accept that women don't like something going as far as suggesting that they need a man to show them that they do like it. "This site seems to be increasingly full of the one dimensional and self absorbed who practice a "one size fits all" approach to sex...I say this site, because we don't use others. I wonder if it's an indication of a general approach to sex or just something that's becoming more common in swinging... | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really Women on fab swingers probably like being treated like that but I don't. men shouldn't assume that all women like the same things.
Bit worrying if a guy assumes 'most' women like it.
From what I was reading yesterday some people, not just men find it hard to accept that women don't like something going as far as suggesting that they need a man to show them that they do like it.
This site seems to be increasingly full of the one dimensional and self absorbed who practice a "one size fits all" approach to sex...I say this site, because we don't use others. I wonder if it's an indication of a general approach to sex or just something that's becoming more common in swinging... "I think that attitude has always been there but just shows itself less and less. Some people genuinely understand that sexual tastes are individual to a person others just don't get it. | |||
I have being pinned down and treated a bit rough but with someone I'd known a while, it was in the heat of the moment and we got carried away, but not something I'd want with a stranger on a first meet. | |||
Her by the way | |||
"Ladies, do you like to be manhandled during the heat of passionate sex? Treated a bit rough, ankles held tightly, pinned to the bed, throat held, hair pulled, you know. I'm not referring to violence here. Guys, what's your experience. In my experience, I think most do, although I've found the level varies. Had friends that literally wanted me to throw them on the bed, pin them down and fuck them hard, others that liked to start off gentle but invariably got carried away. Just curious really Women on fab swingers probably like being treated like that but I don't. men shouldn't assume that all women like the same things.
Bit worrying if a guy assumes 'most' women like it.
From what I was reading yesterday some people, not just men find it hard to accept that women don't like something going as far as suggesting that they need a man to show them that they do like it.
This site seems to be increasingly full of the one dimensional and self absorbed who practice a "one size fits all" approach to sex...I say this site, because we don't use others. I wonder if it's an indication of a general approach to sex or just something that's becoming more common in swinging...
I think that attitude has always been there but just shows itself less and less. Some people genuinely understand that sexual tastes are individual to a person others just don't get it."Very true. I know the thread you mean from yesterday. It all seems a bit "she likes it really"....  | |||
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"When I meet for the first time, we will have already established the rules, sex, in all its forms, from gentle lovemaking to hard fucking is wonderful Most of the women I've met like a variety of the two, otherwise it gets a bit boring and repetitive doesn't it? However, I have found that, in the heat of passion, things do get very physical which both parties seem to really enjoy. For me, I will never loose it, and I will always be aware of the response. Whilst I want to feel fulfilled, if I left my woman wanting in any way shape or form, I'd feel less than satisfied. I have fucked women sensless, much to their delight but, I am proud to say, I've never hurt a woman, or forced her to do anything that she didn't desire. If I wanted vanilla sex, I wouldn't be on this site, I love the fact that I'm so in tune with my friends on here, all of my friends like a little bit more than to be fingered, a few gentle pumps in missionary, and thank you very much! I guess the proof of the pudding is in the eating, repeat performances are always required and, many of my friends are long standing. So I must be doing something right. I don't do one offs, I'd rather get to know her, find all her 'buttons' and 'kinks' what turns me on is turning her on. If anyone's looking for vanilla sex, we won't be meeting. Nor will I meet a woman who doesn't want oral (both ways) or kissing. For the brief moment we are together, we are together body and soul for our mutual fulfilment. Try me, you might just like it "The point is that you make sure that you have discovered what both of you want when you first meet. It is therefore highly probable, in fact I'd say a certainty that most of the women you have sex with will enjoy the things you describe. That doesn't however mean that most women will and I'm pretty sure you don't think that which is why you say "in my experience most do". We all have likes and dislikes and they are all different, recognising that is the key to successful sex not assuming that everyone will like the same thing. | |||
"When I meet for the first time, we will have already established the rules, sex, in all its forms, from gentle lovemaking to hard fucking is wonderful Most of the women I've met like a variety of the two, otherwise it gets a bit boring and repetitive doesn't it? However, I have found that, in the heat of passion, things do get very physical which both parties seem to really enjoy. For me, I will never loose it, and I will always be aware of the response. Whilst I want to feel fulfilled, if I left my woman wanting in any way shape or form, I'd feel less than satisfied. I have fucked women sensless, much to their delight but, I am proud to say, I've never hurt a woman, or forced her to do anything that she didn't desire. If I wanted vanilla sex, I wouldn't be on this site, I love the fact that I'm so in tune with my friends on here, all of my friends like a little bit more than to be fingered, a few gentle pumps in missionary, and thank you very much! I guess the proof of the pudding is in the eating, repeat performances are always required and, many of my friends are long standing. So I must be doing something right. I don't do one offs, I'd rather get to know her, find all her 'buttons' and 'kinks' what turns me on is turning her on. If anyone's looking for vanilla sex, we won't be meeting. Nor will I meet a woman who doesn't want oral (both ways) or kissing. For the brief moment we are together, we are together body and soul for our mutual fulfilment. Try me, you might just like it
The point is that you make sure that you have discovered what both of you want when you first meet. It is therefore highly probable, in fact I'd say a certainty that most of the women you have sex with will enjoy the things you describe. That doesn't however mean that most women will and I'm pretty sure you don't think that which is why you say "in my experience most do".
We all have likes and dislikes and they are all different, recognising that is the key to successful sex not assuming that everyone will like the same thing."
There are different spectrums in all walks of life. The downfall of "mirror marketing" is assuming everyone is in the same place as you on the spectrum. | |||
"When I meet for the first time, we will have already established the rules, sex, in all its forms, from gentle lovemaking to hard fucking is wonderful Most of the women I've met like a variety of the two, otherwise it gets a bit boring and repetitive doesn't it? However, I have found that, in the heat of passion, things do get very physical which both parties seem to really enjoy. For me, I will never loose it, and I will always be aware of the response. Whilst I want to feel fulfilled, if I left my woman wanting in any way shape or form, I'd feel less than satisfied. I have fucked women sensless, much to their delight but, I am proud to say, I've never hurt a woman, or forced her to do anything that she didn't desire. If I wanted vanilla sex, I wouldn't be on this site, I love the fact that I'm so in tune with my friends on here, all of my friends like a little bit more than to be fingered, a few gentle pumps in missionary, and thank you very much! I guess the proof of the pudding is in the eating, repeat performances are always required and, many of my friends are long standing. So I must be doing something right. I don't do one offs, I'd rather get to know her, find all her 'buttons' and 'kinks' what turns me on is turning her on. If anyone's looking for vanilla sex, we won't be meeting. Nor will I meet a woman who doesn't want oral (both ways) or kissing. For the brief moment we are together, we are together body and soul for our mutual fulfilment. Try me, you might just like it
The point is that you make sure that you have discovered what both of you want when you first meet. It is therefore highly probable, in fact I'd say a certainty that most of the women you have sex with will enjoy the things you describe. That doesn't however mean that most women will and I'm pretty sure you don't think that which is why you say "in my experience most do".
We all have likes and dislikes and they are all different, recognising that is the key to successful sex not assuming that everyone will like the same thing."Absolutely, its what makes the world go round and, in my book, there is no right or wrong, provided everything is consensual. | |||
